Blocked toilet. Who should pay?

[Letmegonowihavehadenough]

I am going through a divorce and live in the family home at present which is currently on the market. He moved out. My toilet is blocked and we cannot use it for this reason. My stbxh won’t go halves to get the problem fixed saying it’s my fault for blocking it. Over the years it has occasionally got blocked and we have been able to unblock it. My dad has a long thing that goes far into the toilet but it can’t be unblocked and I have tried products including bicarbonate of soda and white vinegar along with other branded unblockers. Nothing except poo/wee and toilet paper had been put down it. I can’t afford to pay to get it unblocked by myself and it has been like this since November. AIBU to think my stbxh should pay half?

What @grinandslothit said. Surely if your family knew their daughter and grandchildren were resorting to this and didn't have £30 to fix the issue they'd happily step in??? They must also be concerned about you not being able to afford to eat etc etc???

@Letmegonowihavehadenough you need to go out to your garden and find the inspection chamber. if it is full then get a hose and push the hose down towards the outlet to the street. turn it on and keep it running till blockage finally clears downstream. you will probably find that the toilet will then clear itself. other than that, check around the lower walls of you house near to the offending toilet for the rodding eye. you can unscrew it but have a big black binbag ready to catch anything which comes out. once you have done that use your hose as far forward as you an push it and keep hosing till it clears easily. the pipes might be sagging in the middle at the wrong angle.

This.

If it's blocked between the street and your inspection cover, then you need the local water company to attack it from the street. Putting more water into the pipe from above the blockage probably won't do much apart from flooding your garden with faeces.

Definitely your bill to sort.

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The next road from me had a massive sewer blockage between Christmas and New Year. Southern water were out there for hours unblocking it and several houses were affected.

A few days later, we all got a flyer through our doors saying that the blockage was mainly caused by waste food being flushed down the lavatory, along with sweet wrappers! It also included the usual stuff about not flushing wipes, sanpro or nappies.

No-one had to pay, as it was the main sewer that had blocked.

I find it desperately sad, rather than disturbing. If any of my friends were in such straits, I'd pay for a plumber myself.

Try a small amount of dynamite to make a controlled explosion.