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zunchie · 03/03/2024 13:38

Maybe I'm overacting but I don't think I am. The other day I was at a cafe with my friend (31F) and I was pouting my lips when she looked at me and said 'that reminds me' and started applying chapstick. I was a bit confused by this but then I realised what she meant and I was very angry. But then yesterday we went out again and I can't remember the conversation but I stuck my teeth out in a funny way and she looked me up and down and said in a smug voice 'I need to book my dentist appointment' and she set a reminder in her calendar. Am I overreacting or is this not on? And how do I approach it without sounding paranoid?

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AppaTheSixLeggedFlyingBison · 03/03/2024 19:43

BirthdayRainbow · 03/03/2024 19:38

While we wait...I think my dog just ate a square or two of dairy milk. How bad is it?

It does depend on the size of the dog but dairy milk doesn't have a very high cocoa content so it should be fine. Keep an eye on them though and call a vet if you notice any symptoms of poisoning

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 03/03/2024 19:44

This can't be real

OneStripeySockAndOneSpottySock · 03/03/2024 19:44

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 19:42

I really really wouldn’t do this! Do you share mutual friends?!

Have you got bad PMT or something OP? I used to get ragey like this when I had it but often it was day after night out clubbing so ecstasy/coke side effects too prob.

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I've got a vision now of a row of heads with different hairstyles but the same teeth and lips

puzzledout · 03/03/2024 19:45

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Or both

cockapup · 03/03/2024 19:45

Icantbedoingwithit · 03/03/2024 19:36

I decided to gurn
Then things took a turn
I decided to pout
And stick my teeth out
My friend took one look
Put on shades and said fuck
Tis the dentist for me
And not to Turkey!

This is genius except you should change fuck to f*

Mama2many73 · 03/03/2024 19:45

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

Im pretty sure someone else (hmmm???) Started the drama.
1 most people do NOT make faces even when having an animated conversation.
2.You did somethings that reminded her she needed to do something with that herself. If my friend was commenting on needing her hair dyed I could easily say oh I'd better book MY hairdressers appointment.

3 She hasn't done anything wrong buy you've jumped on hercomments as insulting you.

The message you sent is not amessage any friend should when trying to find something out. It was down right rude and accusatory.

If any of this is true then I'm assuming you've totally lost her as a friend!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 19:46

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 03/03/2024 19:44

This can't be real

I’m reading same time as watching indoor athletics champs and waiting for millionaire to come on. Cat next to me keeps jumping when I’m giggling at this thread.

BirthdayRainbow · 03/03/2024 19:46

Thank you @ForTonightGodisaDJ. I'm not 100% she did but she was definitely chewing something and I don't know what else it could be.

Icantbedoingwithit · 03/03/2024 19:47

cockapup · 03/03/2024 19:45

This is genius except you should change fuck to f*

Good point! Will try do now

BirthdayRainbow · 03/03/2024 19:48

@AppaTheSixLeggedFlyingBison thank you so much. She weighs 25kg. I'm going to stay up later to keep an eye on her and she sleeps with me anyway. Of course she'll throw up on the bed since I've just changed it but I don't care as long as she's ok.

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:49

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curlysue1991 · 03/03/2024 19:49

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 03/03/2024 15:05

I started beating my chest and swinging from trees once and my friend
just sat there booking a trip to a safari park.

Fucking cheek of it !

Ahahahahahahhahahahahahahh

PlacidPenelope · 03/03/2024 19:50

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It's simple you do as she asks.

curlysue1991 · 03/03/2024 19:50

goodnesswhathappened · 03/03/2024 15:25

OP, are you a horse?

Neigh that's not it.... 😂😂😂😂😂😂

BirthdayRainbow · 03/03/2024 19:50

Would you like help in responding?

  1. apologise for being an idiot
  2. drop off the glasses.
  3. don't contact her again.
SmileyClare · 03/03/2024 19:50
customer service customers GIF

OMG your friend she like totally started a drama yeah

Toooldforthis36 · 03/03/2024 19:51

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Fucksake leave her alone!

DontCallMeKidDontCallMeBaby · 03/03/2024 19:51

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Well, I mean she is the victim. You’ve been awful to her.

Uricon2 · 03/03/2024 19:51

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

Oh Jesus Mary and Joseph (and the wee donkey) OP this is either a quite amusing windup or you have ingested something not entirely legal.

SmileyClare · 03/03/2024 19:51

Gonners · 03/03/2024 19:01

This reminds me, I need to check that my 13-year-old son has finished his homework and packed his school bag. He's been pissing about on the internet most of the afternoon.

🤣

VillanellesCoat · 03/03/2024 19:51

@ForTonightGodisaDJ I couldn’t just read your username and not say how much I love it! Maxi Jazz… massive loss.

This thread is bonkers. Like the op. Barking.

Edit: and you inspired me to change my username 😁

LittleGreenDragons · 03/03/2024 19:51

Don't respond @zunchie leave it a few days. You seem to be on a warpath over nothing. No idea if it's hormones, steroids, drugs or alcohol, but you need some time to calm down.

therealcookiemonster · 03/03/2024 19:53

@zunchie just don't respond. otherwise before you know it, you are looking at a restraining order. get some counselling for your own good

Scirocco · 03/03/2024 19:53

I think how to respond would be to

a) drop off Katy's glasses

b) not contact her again

c) reflect on the fact that your friends and the majority of posters on this thread think you're the unhinged one here, and what can you do to cure your raging main character syndrome

opentoadvice88 · 03/03/2024 19:53

zunchie · 03/03/2024 14:29

I think deep down with context she has always been somewhat jealous of me which makes it worse. Without trying to sound like I think I look so much better than her, she isn't the best looking so I feel like she's trying to put me down for some reason. But I honestly have no reason to think why.

I can say with certainty that she isn’t jealous.