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To say F** OFF!!

740 replies

zunchie · 03/03/2024 13:38

Maybe I'm overacting but I don't think I am. The other day I was at a cafe with my friend (31F) and I was pouting my lips when she looked at me and said 'that reminds me' and started applying chapstick. I was a bit confused by this but then I realised what she meant and I was very angry. But then yesterday we went out again and I can't remember the conversation but I stuck my teeth out in a funny way and she looked me up and down and said in a smug voice 'I need to book my dentist appointment' and she set a reminder in her calendar. Am I overreacting or is this not on? And how do I approach it without sounding paranoid?

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betterangels · 03/03/2024 19:28

You could have had a thread heading for Classics had you included her 'response". Lost opportunity there.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 19:28

zunchie · 03/03/2024 17:55

I unsent my old message and sent a new one and she's read it right away but hasn't responded.

Whoah that’s really passive aggressive language and tone. I am not surprised she’s blocked you!

Based on your posts so far she sounds more mature than you and I guess more secure in her looks if she doesn’t feel the need to alter them.

Lanawashington · 03/03/2024 19:31

zunchie · 03/03/2024 14:51

So first I have tourettes and now I must be a l*sbian. Seriously does nobody here make jokes with their friends?

Why did you put a * in lesbian like it’s some kind of dirty swear word?

WimbyAce · 03/03/2024 19:32

Are you Stacey Solomon?

MrsLeonFarrell · 03/03/2024 19:32

MyBreezyPombear · 03/03/2024 19:23

"The 'typing' status is a real-time indicator that shows that the user is actively engaged in the chat and is composing a message. It's a useful feature as it lets the recipient know that a message is on its way and that the sender is actively engaged in the conversation."

You can see if they are typing to you or in a group chat you're in but not if they are in a different chat typing to someone else.

I have had a situation where I'm typing in a group chat and simultaneously in a one to one chat with someone who is also in the group and I can see them typing if I've got the group window open even if the message appears in the other chat.

Is that what you are describing?

(I would apologise for derailing the thread but I'm not sure that's possible!)

CatamaranViper · 03/03/2024 19:33

This thread has raised so many questions.

How do you stick your teeth out? Are they turkey dentures?
Why is lesbian ** out? What's wrong with lesbians?
Did the friend manage to book her dentist app?

Uricon2 · 03/03/2024 19:34

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:20

How do you know if youve been blocked on whatsapp ?

😂😂😂

Damnloginpopup · 03/03/2024 19:36

Maybe go for coffee tomorrow?

To say F** OFF!!
Icantbedoingwithit · 03/03/2024 19:36

I decided to gurn
Then things took a turn
I decided to pout
And stick my teeth out
My friend took one look
Put on shades and said fuck
Tis the dentist for me
And not to Turkey!

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

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Meowandthen · 03/03/2024 19:37

What do you want this friend to do? Fog off? Fan off? Fad off? Foo off?

Even someone this self-absorbed knows there are four letters in fuck.

littlebopeepp234 · 03/03/2024 19:37

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 19:28

Whoah that’s really passive aggressive language and tone. I am not surprised she’s blocked you!

Based on your posts so far she sounds more mature than you and I guess more secure in her looks if she doesn’t feel the need to alter them.

I agree! Sorry but if you have your lips done and stick your teeth out then you are just drawing attention to yourself. I find most people who have these sort of procedures done also lack in self esteem. OP your lack of self esteem shows in your thread as you are now conscious of why your friend did it! And that message you sent her WOW! I’m not surprised she blocked you. Who needs friends like that, especially insecure ones

MustBeNapTime · 03/03/2024 19:38

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

I'm fairly sure that she didn't start the drama...

BirthdayRainbow · 03/03/2024 19:38

While we wait...I think my dog just ate a square or two of dairy milk. How bad is it?

Icantbedoingwithit · 03/03/2024 19:38

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

Stand outside her house and smile, she’ll think it’s a rave!

Thebestwaytoscareatory · 03/03/2024 19:39

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

If that doesn't work you should 100% go round to her house and demand an answer.

Plz also livestream this and add the link here 🙏

OneStripeySockAndOneSpottySock · 03/03/2024 19:39

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

Um...she didn't start it 😬

nosleepforme · 03/03/2024 19:39

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

this is nuts. She didn’t start any drama. Leave her alone! You’re literally bullying the poor woman.

LittleGreenDragons · 03/03/2024 19:39

Icantbedoingwithit · 03/03/2024 19:36

I decided to gurn
Then things took a turn
I decided to pout
And stick my teeth out
My friend took one look
Put on shades and said fuck
Tis the dentist for me
And not to Turkey!

Oh well done! 👏👏

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 03/03/2024 19:40

BirthdayRainbow · 03/03/2024 19:38

While we wait...I think my dog just ate a square or two of dairy milk. How bad is it?

I think he/she will be ok but keep a close eye on them..most likely they will throw it up if it has a bad effect. Not enough to have a serious effect but like I say keep a close eye on them I'm not a professional.

PlacidPenelope · 03/03/2024 19:40

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

Leave her alone, you are the dram llama.

puzzledout · 03/03/2024 19:42

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

If she's any sense you'll be blocked there ax well, and

Phone
Messenger
Text

And any other communication!

She's taken control!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 19:42

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

I really really wouldn’t do this! Do you share mutual friends?!

Have you got bad PMT or something OP? I used to get ragey like this when I had it but often it was day after night out clubbing so ecstasy/coke side effects too prob.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 03/03/2024 19:43

Hillrunning · 03/03/2024 15:22

Also, is anyone else currently pulling odd faces simply to try to work out how ones sticks their teeth out?

I'm only up to page 5 , but yes. And I can't.