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zunchie · 03/03/2024 13:38

Maybe I'm overacting but I don't think I am. The other day I was at a cafe with my friend (31F) and I was pouting my lips when she looked at me and said 'that reminds me' and started applying chapstick. I was a bit confused by this but then I realised what she meant and I was very angry. But then yesterday we went out again and I can't remember the conversation but I stuck my teeth out in a funny way and she looked me up and down and said in a smug voice 'I need to book my dentist appointment' and she set a reminder in her calendar. Am I overreacting or is this not on? And how do I approach it without sounding paranoid?

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ForTonightGodisaDJ · 03/03/2024 19:00

MrsLeonFarrell · 03/03/2024 18:58

You are aware that the app shows typing in general not whether it is being typed in response to you specifically?

Please stop obsessing over this, stop looking at your screen and take a walk.

This isn't true is it???? On Whatsapp?!

OneStripeySockAndOneSpottySock · 03/03/2024 19:01

whatsappdoc · 03/03/2024 19:00

This is a brilliant thread for a boring Sunday evening! I know you're having a laugh op and I'm enjoying your responses. Can't wait for your 'friend's' reply🤣

But is she tho? 🤔

Gonners · 03/03/2024 19:01

This reminds me, I need to check that my 13-year-old son has finished his homework and packed his school bag. He's been pissing about on the internet most of the afternoon.

whattodoisthequestion · 03/03/2024 19:01

zunchie · 03/03/2024 14:06

Well it could've been a positive thing like it reminded her she needs lip filler or something nice about my own lips rather than applying chapstick which is obviously implying my lips are dry. It is all negative with her.

It seems like it's all negative with you too 🫤

MyBreezyPombear · 03/03/2024 19:01

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 03/03/2024 19:00

This isn't true is it???? On Whatsapp?!

No it's not true

ForensicFlossy · 03/03/2024 19:01

This can't be real, I really hope it is but surely not!!

Nanny0gg · 03/03/2024 19:02

MrsLeonFarrell · 03/03/2024 18:58

You are aware that the app shows typing in general not whether it is being typed in response to you specifically?

Please stop obsessing over this, stop looking at your screen and take a walk.

Ah. I often wondered about that!

Toooldforthis36 · 03/03/2024 19:02
Valentines Day Love GIF by Robert E Blackmon

This whole thread is a pisstake @zunchie yes??

L0bstersLass · 03/03/2024 19:02

zunchie · 03/03/2024 18:47

She has been typing for the past 20 minutes

@zunchie I imagine she'll have been typing something like this. Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude? Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude? Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude? Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude?

(shakes head and give up on the whole shitshow)

CagneyAndLazy · 03/03/2024 19:03

zunchie · 03/03/2024 18:47

She has been typing for the past 20 minutes

She probably has to keep breaking off to recover her composure.

I would have stopped breathing entirely if I'd received that batshit message from you. 😂

Damnloginpopup · 03/03/2024 19:03

So your WhatsApp message reminded her that she ought to type some WhatsApp messages?

THE BITCH!!!

Yourethebeerthief · 03/03/2024 19:05

One of the maddest threads I've ever read on here

YesIReallyDoLikeRootBeer · 03/03/2024 19:06

L0bstersLass · 03/03/2024 19:02

@zunchie I imagine she'll have been typing something like this. Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude? Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude? Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude? Are you on glue? Are you ok? What kind of message is that? No, I'm not jealous of you. Did you mean to be so rude?

(shakes head and give up on the whole shitshow)

And then after 20+ minutes she gives up and just sends 🖕

housethatbuiltme · 03/03/2024 19:07

Why are you acting like a 4 year old?

I mean what else is she suppose to say to you pulling faces at her like a toddler except to turn it back round to something related?

BirthdayRainbow · 03/03/2024 19:08

Mangerine · 03/03/2024 18:57

I just need to know if this is a wind up.

Why is the text signed off as "you"

I'm way to invested.

It's the last word. Just put on next line.

betterangels · 03/03/2024 19:10

nosleepforme · 03/03/2024 18:37

The message you sent your friend is out of order.
if it were me, I’d ignore you and never talk to you again!

Yeah, I still hope this is a wind up, and you didn't really send that to anyone.

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/03/2024 19:10

zunchie · 03/03/2024 17:55

I unsent my old message and sent a new one and she's read it right away but hasn't responded.

I love that you texted her to tell her your problem with her and that if she had a problem with you she should say it to your face.

OneStripeySockAndOneSpottySock · 03/03/2024 19:11

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/03/2024 19:10

I love that you texted her to tell her your problem with her and that if she had a problem with you she should say it to your face.

👏👏👏👏

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/03/2024 19:11

Yourethebeerthief · 03/03/2024 19:05

One of the maddest threads I've ever read on here

Stick around, we can do better than this.

whoscoatsthatjacket2012 · 03/03/2024 19:11

MonsteraMama · 03/03/2024 18:25

I can't be the only one who's been sat here pouting and gurning to myself trying to work out in what context you'd be doing that mid conversation?

I'm fucking crying. lol
OP admit it. You're a bit of a twat aren't you?

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I often wonder if it counts as trolling if we enjoy it.

Thegoodbadandugly · 03/03/2024 19:13

You sound like your around 13 years old.

Icantbedoingwithit · 03/03/2024 19:13

So you have Turkey Teeth and Lip filler and you think you are so much better looking than her and you are annoyed because you stuck out said turkey teeth and pouted pumped up lips and this reminded her to put on chapstick and book the dentist. And you think SHE has a superiority complex!

Maybe get your boobs out next time to remind her some of her bras are going a bit grey looking!

Absolute batshit carry on!

Alwaysgoingforit · 03/03/2024 19:14

Just such a bizarre situation, face pulling, jealousy and a probable back story. Most odd.