I think they're right about all the problems with SUVs but I don't think targeting the drivers is helpful. They should target politicians in terms of legislation which would target manufacturers.
It does seem to be a marketing thing. If you want a new car, there isn't a lot of choice of cars that aren't SUV style, especially if you need space. We have an SUV style and until a couple of editions ago, the same model was a normal estate car. I didn't particularly care whether it was SUV or not, we certainly don't need one. But that was what was offered.
It's not actually that big in terms of parking but the bonnet is high and I do think that's a problem in terms of safety. Didn't actually realise this until I started seeing all the anti-SUV stuff by which point we'd already had one for a couple of years and ordered the bigger version due to third child.
TBH I don't feel strongly enough about it to compromise on other features, so if the choice is between 3 different SUVs and all the non SUV models are more expensive or don't have the features we want then we'd go for the SUV, but if we could get the features we want in a non SUV for the same price then we might be more likely to choose that. The companies might be claiming that SUV style models sell better but if they are making all their popular models SUV styled, then, well, duh? But that's not market forces, it's manufacturer driven. Something to do with safely standards in the US, I thought. No idea why they are doing the same thing in Europe where space is at a premium and I'm guessing there is no similar loophole for avoiding safety standards.