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Karen’s Diner/Katie Hopkins - cancel?

344 replies

RosaMoline · 16/02/2024 22:56

Quick question:
In the words of Mumsnet, AIBU?
It’s my eldest’s 30th this year, and as a surprise I’ve planned a day out for us on March 17th. We’re going to Hello Kitty cafe, Priscilla the Party and ending up in Karen’s Diner in Islington.
Some of you might know Karen’s from Social media. You basically get insulted and it looks very amusing.
I see from their insta, they’re doing some kind of collaboration with Katie Hopkins in their Manchester and Birmingham restaurants I think.
I am horrified and have left comments to that effect.
I actually feel that I want to cancel, and it’s a shame as it’s something we’d wanted to do for ages.
I however, cannot give my hard earned ££ to an organisation that is giving a platform to a racist right wing Trump supporting bigot.
Am I being unreasonable to cancel our reservation??

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ScareBrow · 17/02/2024 11:47

‘It’s my eldest’s 30th this year, and as a surprise I’ve planned a day out for us on March 17th. We’re going to Hello Kitty cafe, Priscilla the Party and ending up in Karen’s Diner in Islington.’

OP I know everyone is different but would this really be your daughter’s ideal day out in London? It’s such a great city; this day feels very contrived, with lots of waiting around and not much fun. What else is she into? If she likes cafes, why not a nice afternoon tea somewhere good? Or tickets for an exhibition?

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Kdtym10 · 17/02/2024 11:50

I’d cancel - nothing to do with Katie Hopkins though. It looks shit.

Over40Overdating · 17/02/2024 11:51

Those loving Katie for her tell it like it is style and how spot on she is - you do know she views you as nothing more than pockets to empty via clickbait, right? Her contempt for ‘lefties’ is matched only by her contempt for her supporters.

She is now completely unemployable by any media platform so you, dear suckers, are her meal ticket and she loathes you for it because she can’t pay bills with clapping hand emojis and ‘the lefties don’t like it up ‘em’ schtick being parrotted here.
You are only useful idiots if you are shelling out via clicks, shares and views, otherwise she just considers you idiots.

EasternStandard · 17/02/2024 11:53

Over40Overdating · 17/02/2024 11:51

Those loving Katie for her tell it like it is style and how spot on she is - you do know she views you as nothing more than pockets to empty via clickbait, right? Her contempt for ‘lefties’ is matched only by her contempt for her supporters.

She is now completely unemployable by any media platform so you, dear suckers, are her meal ticket and she loathes you for it because she can’t pay bills with clapping hand emojis and ‘the lefties don’t like it up ‘em’ schtick being parrotted here.
You are only useful idiots if you are shelling out via clicks, shares and views, otherwise she just considers you idiots.

Hang on she can pay bills with it. Why would she loathe people helping her earn money?

BestBadger · 17/02/2024 11:59

NecessaryNC24 · 17/02/2024 11:47

Her views tend to be polarising and often quite far from my own but what she does highlight to me is how important Free Speech is, how lucky we are to have it ( just..) in the UK. And that I approve of.

She's only concerned with the right to rightwing speech, like the rest in Toby Young's cabal.

Over40Overdating · 17/02/2024 12:04

@EasternStandard she can only pay bills if she gets enough views and engagement - a lot of people like to say ‘I love her, she tells jt like it is’ based on her reputation for saying outrageous shit, not because they sit on her YouTube or tiktok live ‘pub rants’ day in day out, which is her main income stream and not a consistent one.

So people quoting her but not actually viewing her doesn’t make her money and actually means she has to stoop lower and lower to hook people in via click bait.

Her current clickbait is to make fun of and promote conspiracy theories about Kate Garraway and Derek Draper. That’s not an incisive political activist upholding free speech, it’s a desperate, often drunk seeming ex sleb being the village gossip for attention.

Justgorgeous · 17/02/2024 12:05

Hypocrite.

Over40Overdating · 17/02/2024 12:07
  • to add - so the people she loathes are those who quote her and her tell it like is stuff but don’t sit on her lives or buy her tickets for those embarrassing tours. Most rage to engage ‘influencers’ are the same.

Anyone who thinks KH or that thumb with a beard Andrew Tate value support in any other form except cold hard cash are deluded.

Andthereyougo · 17/02/2024 12:09

ButtonMoonLoon · 16/02/2024 23:12

I wouldn’t go there.

Several of their sites have had zero food hygiene ratings, some have had drug raids and a friend told me about this horrific incident at her local one.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/24093884.sussex-police-investigate-brighton-karens-diner-bl-w-j-b-joke/

I wouldn’t want anything to do with any business affiliated with the truly vile KH

Bloody hell, from what I’ve read previously I’d assumed it was an adult only place. Can’t believe parents would take their children in there and then let them be subjected to this abuse.
I can’t imagine what sort of people would find this sort of concept is funny.

scorpiogirly · 17/02/2024 12:10

Lol

FrownedUpon · 17/02/2024 12:11

Your whole day sounds hideous. Can you not find something better to do?

EasternStandard · 17/02/2024 12:12

Over40Overdating · 17/02/2024 12:04

@EasternStandard she can only pay bills if she gets enough views and engagement - a lot of people like to say ‘I love her, she tells jt like it is’ based on her reputation for saying outrageous shit, not because they sit on her YouTube or tiktok live ‘pub rants’ day in day out, which is her main income stream and not a consistent one.

So people quoting her but not actually viewing her doesn’t make her money and actually means she has to stoop lower and lower to hook people in via click bait.

Her current clickbait is to make fun of and promote conspiracy theories about Kate Garraway and Derek Draper. That’s not an incisive political activist upholding free speech, it’s a desperate, often drunk seeming ex sleb being the village gossip for attention.

People following her make her money, those quoting supply free publicity to help get more followers

I’m not commenting here on content more that anyone who has found a way to earn money just by talking or whatever tend to really like the people who follow, as it does pay their bills.

MikeRafone · 17/02/2024 12:13

AgnesNaismith · 16/02/2024 22:58

You should cancel anyway because a cafe that’s ethos is built on a misogynistic trope is bullshit.

this ^

KreedKafer · 17/02/2024 12:13

coodawoodashooda · 16/02/2024 22:59

Katie Hopkins is alright.

She’s a fascist.

TheBayLady · 17/02/2024 12:15

ButtonMoonLoon · 16/02/2024 23:12

I wouldn’t go there.

Several of their sites have had zero food hygiene ratings, some have had drug raids and a friend told me about this horrific incident at her local one.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/24093884.sussex-police-investigate-brighton-karens-diner-bl-w-j-b-joke/

I wouldn’t want anything to do with any business affiliated with the truly vile KH

Parents must be idiots to even think this is an acceptable place to take a child.

MikeRafone · 17/02/2024 12:17

KreedKafer · 17/02/2024 12:13

She’s a fascist.

is she

or does she make money from acting that way?
I think she is certainly right wing thinking, but know she can tap into the far right agenda to boost her income. Money is what makes KH tick

Over40Overdating · 17/02/2024 12:19

@EasternStandard I can tell you with certainty she does not ‘like’ people who follow unless they are earning money for her.

Most influencers are the same - of course they have to pretend otherwise to keep everyone sweet but ultimately unless they are making money from someone following they couldn’t care less about them.
It’s business. Click bait is Katie’s business because she will never have a job in media again because she is a liability who will literally say anything to get attention even if she doesn’t believe it.

I believe there were posts on here years ago from people who knew her and the shocking persona was just a front. Maybe she has become more right wing but it’s all based in a cynical ploy to grift as much money from people as possible. Looking to her for telling the truth and standing up for the little people is like looking to Boris Johnson for monogamy guidance.

IwishIcouldfinishabook · 17/02/2024 12:21

Andthereyougo · 17/02/2024 12:09

Bloody hell, from what I’ve read previously I’d assumed it was an adult only place. Can’t believe parents would take their children in there and then let them be subjected to this abuse.
I can’t imagine what sort of people would find this sort of concept is funny.

Probably ones who think they are too cool for school and that parenthood wouldn't change them! But they are still subjecting their children to being abused by strangers in restaurants. If you want to do that, do it, but dont do a #sadface in the local paper when your child is subjected to abuse in a restaurant. .

EarthSight · 17/02/2024 12:23

antbarbara · 16/02/2024 23:18

Hmm. Because ageism and misogyny is hilarious.

This.

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TheHoover · 17/02/2024 12:23

DH and I inadvertantly wandered into one of these places by in San Antonio a few years ago late afternoon (only 2-3 other tables occupied). The waitress was friendly and funny and built up a rapport with us then gradually started levelling the insults. We latched on fairly quickly but she was great and got a big tip even by US standards. A group of males walked in as we were leaving around 6pm clearly up for the abuse and they got it straight away and loved it. Mixing food with entertainmen is far from new; I can’t say I love the concept of Karen’s but there’s clearly a customer base for it.

As for the KH association, it depends if you believe in cancel culture. The chain are clearly hiring her because she provokes a reaction rather than because they buy into her vile hate-speech. if you cannot sit squarely with a firm that gives her money then boycott - but for me it’s like refusing to go to a comedy venue because they have had on a comedian whose material you object to.

Jumpingthruhoops · 17/02/2024 12:39

Her contempt for ‘lefties’ is matched only by her contempt for her supporters.

Respectfully, you haven't a clue what you're talking about. I don't agree with some of what she says but she thanks her supporters daily for coming to her shows and also for daring to think critically. Something her haters could learn to do...

quantumbutterfly · 17/02/2024 12:46

Andthereyougo · 17/02/2024 12:09

Bloody hell, from what I’ve read previously I’d assumed it was an adult only place. Can’t believe parents would take their children in there and then let them be subjected to this abuse.
I can’t imagine what sort of people would find this sort of concept is funny.

Probably the same people who take their kiddies to drag queen story time and caba baba rave...not really my thing.

Stillfalling · 17/02/2024 12:47

BestBadger · 17/02/2024 11:59

She's only concerned with the right to rightwing speech, like the rest in Toby Young's cabal.

This is demonstrably untrue and if you actually followed the work of the Free Speech Union ( that Toby Young founded) you would know this and would know of the firmly left wing people they have supported.

Stop basing your views on what ‘your side’ says about other people and start properly researching the source itself before you form your views.