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Karen’s Diner/Katie Hopkins - cancel?

344 replies

RosaMoline · 16/02/2024 22:56

Quick question:
In the words of Mumsnet, AIBU?
It’s my eldest’s 30th this year, and as a surprise I’ve planned a day out for us on March 17th. We’re going to Hello Kitty cafe, Priscilla the Party and ending up in Karen’s Diner in Islington.
Some of you might know Karen’s from Social media. You basically get insulted and it looks very amusing.
I see from their insta, they’re doing some kind of collaboration with Katie Hopkins in their Manchester and Birmingham restaurants I think.
I am horrified and have left comments to that effect.
I actually feel that I want to cancel, and it’s a shame as it’s something we’d wanted to do for ages.
I however, cannot give my hard earned ££ to an organisation that is giving a platform to a racist right wing Trump supporting bigot.
Am I being unreasonable to cancel our reservation??

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AmaryllisChorus · 16/02/2024 23:37

LadyWithLapdog · 16/02/2024 23:19

BIL told me there used to be a Chinese restaurant in Soho some 20+ years ago where the staff were very rude. I think it inadvertently became a ‘thing’ for a while.

I worked in a restaurant around the corner from Wong Kei about 35 years ago. We got loads of customers who had walked out of Wong Kei because the food and service were so bad.

RubaiyatOfAnyone · 16/02/2024 23:38

What, this Katie Hopkins?

Karen’s Diner/Katie Hopkins - cancel?
LadyWithLapdog · 16/02/2024 23:50

@AmaryllisChorus you wonder how it lasted so long, but I suppose it was easier in pre SoMe times.

theconfidenceofwho · 16/02/2024 23:53

AgnesNaismith · 16/02/2024 22:58

You should cancel anyway because a cafe that’s ethos is built on a misogynistic trope is bullshit.

This!

MrsSkylerWhite · 17/02/2024 00:08

Why would you take your daughter somewhere to be insulted for her birthday?

SherbetDips · 17/02/2024 00:11

Fantastic I love Katie Hopkins. Someone who isn’t afraid to speak her mind and upset the woke brigade.

Tattletwat · 17/02/2024 00:11

You are a idiot if you go to this establishment. So no sympathy from further shit from them.

They are w bunch of pillocks either join in or not

Tattletwat · 17/02/2024 00:12

MrsSkylerWhite · 17/02/2024 00:08

Why would you take your daughter somewhere to be insulted for her birthday?

Because people are dumb

Waitingfordoggo · 17/02/2024 00:16

I think the people that like this grim place are the same sort who enjoy Mrs Brown’s Boys. Completely basic sense of ‘humour’.

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bingoringo4 · 17/02/2024 00:23

The Katie thing wouldn't bother me, but the diner sounds horrendous

LauderSyme · 17/02/2024 00:28

You would be unreasonable to ever go there and contribute anything to this business.

Keychangeoff · 17/02/2024 00:32

AgnesNaismith · 16/02/2024 22:58

You should cancel anyway because a cafe that’s ethos is built on a misogynistic trope is bullshit.

This

Yuckyyuckyuckity · 17/02/2024 00:40

KH aside the whole day sounds like my idea of hell!

LittleLifeRaft · 17/02/2024 00:51

ButtonMoonLoon · 16/02/2024 23:12

I wouldn’t go there.

Several of their sites have had zero food hygiene ratings, some have had drug raids and a friend told me about this horrific incident at her local one.

https://www.theargus.co.uk/news/24093884.sussex-police-investigate-brighton-karens-diner-bl-w-j-b-joke/

I wouldn’t want anything to do with any business affiliated with the truly vile KH

I've just read the article, thanks for posting it @ButtonMoonLoon If ever there was a reason not to go that's it. Horrible.

WellThatEsculatedQuickly · 17/02/2024 00:52

They might cancel on you anyway...

www.bristolpost.co.uk/whats-on/whats-on-news/karens-diner-apologises-after-bristol-9102845.amp

hallucinatingmaybe · 17/02/2024 01:01

I lived in London when that place in Soho was a thing, couldn't fathom paying money to be insulted back then either. Nowt as queer as folk I guess but I think whoever ran it was laughing the hardest.

Ella31 · 17/02/2024 01:01

There's was a post in one of our papers here [ireland] about one that opened in Dublin in the last few days. It was very interesting. The reviewer said kids are allowed in and a six year old was pulled up to the top and sung to for her birthday but the song was happy birthday f##k off - now I know it's the parents job here not to expose their kids to that crap, but I found it really weird reading that. Apparently the C word was floating around as well.

Just to add I'm not being a baby or anything regarding the swearing or anything. It just seemed a bit much

crumblingschools · 17/02/2024 01:06

@RosaMoline why do you find misogyny funny?

HoHoHoliday · 17/02/2024 01:09

AgnesNaismith · 16/02/2024 22:58

You should cancel anyway because a cafe that’s ethos is built on a misogynistic trope is bullshit.

Agree.

HoHoHoliday · 17/02/2024 01:10

EdgeOfACoin · 16/02/2024 23:11

'Karen' is an ageist, misogynistic term.

Why would you want to go to a place that prides itself on being ageist and misogynistic?

And agree.

galliverstravels · 17/02/2024 01:21

As others have pointed out, the name Karen has been dragged through the mud for years by this point. It is awful how embarrassed and low genuine people named Karen have begun to feel when doing something as simple as giving their name when asked. Why anyone would find it amusing to poke further fun at that is just bizarre. If that's really your sense of humour you really need to have a rethink and consider the actual impact places like Karen's Diner are having on the real people with the name (not me I should add, but someone very dear to me)
No doubt you won't care either way so I suggest you try this and then do a bit more thinking. Try putting your child's name, your partner's, your mum's, your dad's, your own. Then consider that's every single day for years and years and then they open a restaurant to really drive the point home.

karenismyname.org/renamer

EmmaGrundyForPM · 17/02/2024 01:22

Katie Hopkins is vile.

I've never heard of Karen's Diners but they sound pretty vile as well

WibblyWobblyWeeble · 17/02/2024 01:30

I'd cancel on the basis that Karen's diner sounds utterly terrible, and misogynistic, ageist crap, but you said upthread that it appeals to your sense of humour sooooo enjoy
<baffles>

marshmallowburn · 17/02/2024 03:13

I feel so sorry for my lovely relatives who is named Karen. She is middle-aged and one of the funniest people I know. Mind, you , she takes no prisoners, so would probs tell them to feck off.