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XL Bullies to be destroyed now!

494 replies

Babycatsarenice · 14/02/2024 11:12

Sick of these monsters still being on our streets (I never see them muzzled as their irresponsible owners don't comply) and worse still knowing that they are still in homes with children.

AIBU that they should be put to sleep NOW

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FreeZor · 14/02/2024 23:10

I will be gobsmacked if he ever hurts anyone.

I am sure that will be a great comfort to his disfigured/ disabled/ dead victim.

FreeZor · 14/02/2024 23:17

If my children ran up to, in front of, around, strangers, sniffing at them, I'm quite sure a chuckle and an "it's ok, she won't bite, she just wants to play", would not be acceptable.

Don't forget jumping on them, wiping their muddy shoes on these strangers' clothes, spitting on them. Just being "friendly", of course! How adorable. 🤨 Growling at them if they object to this, or randomly running at them from 50 metres away and trying to bite them. Defecating in public areas.

Pretty sure nobody would be too pleased. It's completely bizarre that anybody thinks other people should have to tolerate any of that so that they can have a pet, before you even get into the dangerous ones.

FreeZor · 14/02/2024 23:19

They’re not monsters. Just like Rottweilers, German shepherds and staffies before them, they are the status symbol dog of shitheads, people who’ve got no clue how to care for a dog let alone be responsible for one. The difference with these is they are so big, muscular and strong, and their jaws are so large and strong, that the damage they can do is much more serious.

And nobody needs to own a fighting dog that can do that much damage when pretty much every dog owner admits that you can never trust a dog not to turn, even one that hasn't been bred to be more likely to do this, and lethal if it does.

MrsMiddleMother · 14/02/2024 23:24

I think the government should go one step further and just ban dogs completely. No more dogs jumping up at strangers, no more attacks, no more dog shit all over the pavements, no more dogs in cafes. Just get rid of the lot.

FreeZor · 14/02/2024 23:25

Some people get them because they like them. They like how they look, they like the nature of the individual animal - so said a dog warden who once had two of them. Some get them for protection, because they live in a well dodgy area, and it makes them feel safer. Some get them to look tough and cool. Some get them to breed. Some get them to fight. Obviously a huge spectrum of reasons, raising from benign to worrying as hell and dodgy as all get out.

None of these "reasons" are an acceptable reason to put other people in danger. Being part of society means trade offs between the rights of others and your own freedoms. Sometimes the impingement on other people's freedom/ safety is too great dor you to just do whatever the hell you like, hence we have laws. The case for banning dogs like this when there is no compelling reason anybody needs to have one and the downsides of them doing so are so horrific isn't even finely balanced, it's a no brainer, to anybody with a brain, which I suppose highlights that fundamental explanation of why a specific subset of people still argue the contrary.

FreeZor · 14/02/2024 23:28

You don't know someone's situation as to why they may treat their animals like their kids so leave us to it like we leave you to your children.

Jesus Christ. Animals are not comparable to children. Whatever your "situation" this is just absurd. Get a grip.

Icantbedoingwithit · 14/02/2024 23:31

Exterminate every single last one of them.

itsalwaysthesame · 14/02/2024 23:53

MrsMiddleMother · 14/02/2024 23:24

I think the government should go one step further and just ban dogs completely. No more dogs jumping up at strangers, no more attacks, no more dog shit all over the pavements, no more dogs in cafes. Just get rid of the lot.

Same goes for therapy, PAT, police or guide dogs? What a silly comment 🙄

oakleaffy · 15/02/2024 00:03

FreeZor · 14/02/2024 23:28

You don't know someone's situation as to why they may treat their animals like their kids so leave us to it like we leave you to your children.

Jesus Christ. Animals are not comparable to children. Whatever your "situation" this is just absurd. Get a grip.

THIS is a huge part of the problem.
People treating dogs like children.

They are Dogs, they need 'discipline' like children do {Routine, regular exercise, training to be polite and nice to be around} but the whole nauseating ''Fur baby''
''Pet mom'' ''Pet parent'' thing is ridiculous.

I don't want someone 's 'furkid' leaping all over me in the park, mothers of toddlers don't want 'Pissfingers' the ''She's a rescyoo!'' snatching food out of their child's hand in a café..
Nor do we want our well behaved, quiet dogs pestered by your sex crazed Giant Poodle.

XL Bullies to be destroyed now!
IloveAslan · 15/02/2024 00:08

FreeZor · 14/02/2024 23:28

You don't know someone's situation as to why they may treat their animals like their kids so leave us to it like we leave you to your children.

Jesus Christ. Animals are not comparable to children. Whatever your "situation" this is just absurd. Get a grip.

No, animals are not comparable to children. That doesn't alter the fact that some us much prefer them to children (which doesn't mean we all treat them like children btw).

IloveAslan · 15/02/2024 00:12

MrsMiddleMother · 14/02/2024 23:24

I think the government should go one step further and just ban dogs completely. No more dogs jumping up at strangers, no more attacks, no more dog shit all over the pavements, no more dogs in cafes. Just get rid of the lot.

For every annoying dog I've ever known I have known many, many, more annoying kids. Maybe the government should ban kids! Ridiculous, yes - but so is your suggestion.

I would cheerfully ban the majority of them from cafes (kids, not dogs).

Gloriosaford · 15/02/2024 00:28

For every annoying dog I've ever known I have known many, many, more annoying kids
ANOTHER person who sees dogs as directly analogous with children!
I notice no one says "dogs can be annoying but trainspotters/pidgeon fanciers are worse". The comparison is always with children, implying that they [in the mind of dog a enthusiast} belong in the same category, or are competing for the same slot in society.

Thunderbird7 · 15/02/2024 00:41

Gloriosaford · 15/02/2024 00:28

For every annoying dog I've ever known I have known many, many, more annoying kids
ANOTHER person who sees dogs as directly analogous with children!
I notice no one says "dogs can be annoying but trainspotters/pidgeon fanciers are worse". The comparison is always with children, implying that they [in the mind of dog a enthusiast} belong in the same category, or are competing for the same slot in society.

I like dogs but… children are THE most vulnerable group in society and many of them can’t advocate for themselves, so I consider it a HUGE red flag when people prefer animals over children

Treehugger22 · 15/02/2024 00:45

Constant threads on this. This isnt aibu its spouting your stupid opinion and I can bet you're just another wannabe breed expert, that knows f all about dogs and just accuses people or having xl bullies when the dog is another breed.

Ever think maybe the dogs you allegedly see with no muzzle ARE NOT xl bullies? Hint why they have no muzzle.

Anytime I seen a xl bully, which is an xl bully they have been muzzled.

Time to stop curtain twitching and meet some friends if you have any

Treehugger22 · 15/02/2024 00:51

Gloriosaford · 15/02/2024 00:28

For every annoying dog I've ever known I have known many, many, more annoying kids
ANOTHER person who sees dogs as directly analogous with children!
I notice no one says "dogs can be annoying but trainspotters/pidgeon fanciers are worse". The comparison is always with children, implying that they [in the mind of dog a enthusiast} belong in the same category, or are competing for the same slot in society.

Children understand adults and can communicate with speech unlike dogs, yet a lot of people can't control their kids, yet its expected to control an animal that doesn't understand human language.

If someone's child kills another, should the parents go to jail? Me personally I think so, if the child is under a certain age.

FabFebHalfTerm · 15/02/2024 01:20

Babycatsarenice · 14/02/2024 22:09

I hope this thread will give voice to all of us who are fed up with this ban that doesn't work as we are all still seeing these dogs out and about. Maybe Rishi will see it?!
Sure I can report an unmuzzled dog to the police- do you think the police have time to actually police this? They have said they don't have the resources.
Boo hoo nasty thread...what about the poor people who have been injured and killed?
As it stands this is going go go on 10 years unless further action is taken.
Of course it's not the dogs' fault but they should never have been bred in the first place.

@Babycatsarenice

the legislation has been put in place. It's been 14 days, on what planet did you think it would all have been sorted in 14 days.

you have the legislation in place, you have the channels to report it.

whinging it hasn't worked, not bothering to report dogs that have irresponsible owners.

what do you want? Specialist police to wander around your neighbourhood killing dogs you don't like the look of??

well it's not going to happen, so DO something (other than start goady threads on MN. Use the tools you've been given.

Winter2020 · 15/02/2024 02:23

Predictabilitypreferred · 14/02/2024 11:36

Are you going to do it? You are aware that veterinary professionals don't generally enter the profession to put healthy animals to sleep? And none of them have to put any animal to sleep if they don't agree with it. Indeed many practices are refusing which leaves one or two in any given area where they will oblige. How do you think that will affect the mental health of the staff? Spending all day putting healthy puppies to sleep? Would you like to spend your working day doing that?
The ban will do nothing. They will be replaced with another equally powerful breed. The answer isn't breed bans, it's ownership bans, much more restrictive breeding laws, import bans etc. Other countries manage these very well, it's just the UK government that is useless.

How do you think it affects the mental health of the nurses, surgeons and auxiliary staff at the hospitals nursing people that have been torn apart by these dogs and trying to put them back together?

How do you think it affects the mental health of the victims (those that live to tell the tale) and the victims families and friends? How about the general public that don't feel safe or that their children are safe in their communities? What about the mental health of people whose neighbours have these dogs?

It is right that no-one has to put an animal down - it is their choice to do it or not. I expect a lot of people would be willing to do it for the right price.

Winter2020 · 15/02/2024 02:37

HappiestSleeping · 14/02/2024 12:19

This is a complicated issue, and it is irresponsible breeding that is responsible for the mess we find ourselves in. It is this that should be regulated, with additional restrictions for owners.

The breed itself started (allegedly) as a companion dog, although I humbly submit that there were better start points for this than pitbulls and staffies. Then you had the segment who bred the aggressive tendencies which led us to where we are. Couple this with the irresponsible owners and the lack of ability to enforce not only this law, but many others besides. Many dog owners do not know the requirements of the breeds they select as pets, and unfortunately this particular derivative has fairly disastrous potential consequences when it is not handled / looked after correctly. This is less of a risk with other breeds (you don't hear of many pomeranians attacking humans).

It is always the few that spoil it for the many, however we should bear in mind that dog attacks are still very rare, and there are things we can do to minimise the chances of it happening to us. If there is an owner not adhering to the law, report to the local authority, environmental health, and the police.

Quote re dog attacks: "there are things we can do to minimise the chances of it happening to us."

Yes so in the recent case of a child being attacked in the flats we can avoid and make our children avoid moving around near our own homes.

In the case of a child attacked by a dog on a play date - we can avoid our children going to homes with these dogs.

In the case of the dog going wild and attacking adults randomly near a petrol station - we can avoid getting out of our cars and moving around whenever possible.

In the case of the dogs that have got into their neighbours gardens and killed or savaged them - we can avoid using our own gardens - particularly if we know our neighbours or people nearby have these dogs.

In the case of the dog walker killed - businesses e.g. dog walkers/groomers/kennels can refuse to take these dogs.

In the case of owners being attacked and killed in the home or their children we can avoid owning these dogs.

Why should people have to change their perfectly normal behaviour moving around their homes and communities in order to avoid dangerous dogs? Get rid of them and allow people to move around feeling safe without having to "do things" to avoid a dog attack happening to them.

Winter2020 · 15/02/2024 02:40

Bingoballs · 14/02/2024 13:59

They have collectively decided to be absolute angels and give another breed the limelight.
They are no longer dangerous and are all angelic little fluff balls.

In reality there has been an increase in deaths relating to xl bullies but the other breeds haven't stopped attacking people but xl bullies is the breed the press want to publicise. Likely cause they have a certain look and posture.

Quote " Likely cause they have a certain look and posture."

... or perhaps it's because they make up less than 1% of dogs and 50% of fatal dog attacks?

Winter2020 · 15/02/2024 02:47

Astrabees · 14/02/2024 14:11

So much hysteria on this thread. Over 30,000 XL bullies have been registered and granted exemption certificates, which goes to show only the tiniest of minorities cause problems. Some XL bullies are owned by the feckless but most of them have sensible responsible owners, as you can see from the updates on those that were fortunate enough to be rescued and rehomed by dog charities. I don’t like them and wouldn’t have one but I think we should bear in mind the figures for deaths caused by dogs around 10 a year in contrast with murder statistics of 500+ for humans killing other humans.

I don't think you would have the same thoughts on the acceptable level of fatal dog attacks if it was your child that had just been mauled or killed.

The acceptable level of fatal dog attacks is zero. The number of fatal dog attacks has been rising with 50% of them attributed to these Bully breeds that make up only 1% of dogs. That is why action has to be taken.

FreeZor · 15/02/2024 03:34

Gloriosaford · 15/02/2024 00:28

For every annoying dog I've ever known I have known many, many, more annoying kids
ANOTHER person who sees dogs as directly analogous with children!
I notice no one says "dogs can be annoying but trainspotters/pidgeon fanciers are worse". The comparison is always with children, implying that they [in the mind of dog a enthusiast} belong in the same category, or are competing for the same slot in society.

And note how many incidences there have been of annoying children mauling random strangers to death in public...

Zero.

FreeZor · 15/02/2024 03:41

For every annoying dog I've ever known I have known many, many, more annoying kids. Maybe the government should ban kids! Ridiculous, yes - but so is your suggestion.

I would cheerfully ban the majority of them from cafes (kids, not dogs).

Children are necessary for the continuation of the society that you purportedly belong to, whether you have a bizarre distaste for them or not. You will have no food, electricity, healthcare, or anything else if children are not produced, who then grow into adults so out of basic self-interest you should be happy people have children and go to all of that effort to raise them when clearly you think they shouldn't exist. 😵‍💫🙄 Dogs serve no such purpose. The rest of society gains nothing from you having a dog. They should not be subjected to any danger, cost, or even inconvenience as a result of your choice of pet. And aside from all of that, you are very messed up if you do not understand the difference between an animal and a human and why protecting kids from being mauled is more important than how attached you may be to your "fur babies" 🤢

FreeZor · 15/02/2024 03:46

the legislation has been put in place. It's been 14 days, on what planet did you think it would all have been sorted in 14 days.

It would have been sorted out in not much longer than that if the legislation had been drafted properly, i.e. that all of these unnatural abominations should be put to sleep, no exemptions. Any of them reported should be PTS and owners who still have them after the ban prosecuted. All owners of any dog subject to strict licences and all non-compliance means dog confiscated, PTS and prosecution. Licences costing a lot so that they cover the actual cost, collectively, to society of people owning dogs.

FreeZor · 15/02/2024 03:58

So much hysteria on this thread. Over 30,000 XL bullies have been registered and granted exemption certificates, which goes to show only the tiniest of minorities cause problems.

No. It "just goes to show" that:

a) there will be many more maulings and deaths because of shitty people who still keep these dogs as "pets"; and

b) there are a very large number of utterly stupid people in the UK who will never be decent members of society.

FreeZor · 15/02/2024 04:00

I would be dead now if it weren't for my cat. I had a very difficult childhood, no family and was in a DV relationship. I'd never experienced pure, uncomplicated and unconditional love until I met my lovely boy. My life was turned around because of him. It's a shame some people can't accept the bond some people have with their animals and have to be so unpleasant about it.

Pretty sure nobody objected to you having a cat. Cats don't generally maul and kill random strangers. There are plenty of pets available that people can choose the keep that don't negatively impact other people's lives.