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The king has cancer

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TheBayLady · 05/02/2024 18:01

Wow. What a shock

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Weftaway768 · 06/02/2024 18:33

LaDamaDeElche · 06/02/2024 17:59

Similarly people need to stop banging on about how the King will get the best of the best treatment privately. It's not his fault I couldn't agree more. Kind of ironic that these same people don't see how good they have it compared to many others with cancer, thanks to the lottery of life that allowed them to be born/live in the country they are in. Also, are we supposed to be against all people who can afford private treatment, or just royals? What about people who get private healthcare through their companies, or well-off people who can afford it (do we have to sub categorise them into of they've earned that money it inherited it before we can be more or less sympathetic?). Cancer doesn't discriminate and it's a horrible, painful illness and just as scary for the patients, family and friends of people from any walk of life. I don't understand why people say this kind of thing.

While I agree that Charles can’t help his privileged position, and a diagnosis of cancer is awful whatever your income, I think people are allowed to express their irritation at the unfairness of the situation they find themselves in:

News reports such as on the Beeb just now, sum it up:

~ “oh it must have been hard for Camilla doing her job last week knowing the King’s diagnosis”

as if it isn’t equally hard, if not harder, for ordinary members of the public who have to manage their minimum wage job and parent their dc, alongside chemotherapy?

~ And then an expert comes on and says “yes as with most people a diagnosis is shocking at first but then a treatment plan quickly becomes clear”

well sorry, but for many patients in the NHS, the treatment pathway is neither clear or immediate.

The RF can’t help the BBC’s sycophantic and inane reporting of course but there is a fundamental injustice embedded in uk society between the very rich and the very poor, a gap which is widening, and sorry but the monarchy being at the top of the tree, embodies that privilege. People are allowed to respectfully express their disillusion. Especially when the following report on the BBC highlighted the lack of NHS dentists which is a disgrace and the subject of a Parliamentary investigation.

And who says people aren’t appreciative of the care they receive in the uk, even when it’s flawed and inconsistent, and aren’t aware of the suffering of others in under-developed countries? The two are not mutually exclusive. In my experience, most people are extremely grateful for any NHS care they receive.

Cloudbuggi · 06/02/2024 18:36

Meagainnewname · 06/02/2024 18:04

yes same as my friend, cancerous mole, she’s been waiting 18 months for removal, she’s finally got a date for removal x

Presumably this will be a slow growing basal cell, not a melanoma.

RickDaglass · 06/02/2024 18:48

Blimey he did well to get an appointment so quickly and see the specialists. The usual serfs have to wait ages.
Prince Andrew next in line.
Do we get a day off work, i hope so.
😁ABOLISH THE MONARCHY

threatmatrix · 06/02/2024 18:48

QuestionableMouse · 05/02/2024 18:02

Got a credible source for that?

every media outlet there is 🙄

Maireas · 06/02/2024 19:08

@RickDaglass - Prince Andrew is not next in line.

Solocup · 06/02/2024 19:10

I’m shocked that people are shocked. It’d be shocking if he were young I suppose. But he’s not. What did they say, 1000 people get diagnosed with cancer in the uk every day. So no, it’s doesn’t count as shocking.

couiza · 06/02/2024 19:16

I think given the longevity of both the Queen and her husband together with the Queen Mother, and the fact that few of the RF in the recent past have been seriously ill (Margaret was of course), that people think the RF now will live into their nineties or beyond.

That ship has now sailed with Kate, the King, and the outsider but once insider Fergie all being quite ill at the same time.

Good wishes to them all.

MidnightSerenader · 06/02/2024 19:23

Solocup · 06/02/2024 19:10

I’m shocked that people are shocked. It’d be shocking if he were young I suppose. But he’s not. What did they say, 1000 people get diagnosed with cancer in the uk every day. So no, it’s doesn’t count as shocking.

I don’t think anyone is ‘shocked’?

Has anyone come on and said ‘the King has cancer - I’m shocked!’

It’s just big news, what with him being head of state of many countries. 🤷🏻‍♀️

doilooklikeicare · 06/02/2024 19:25

@MidnightSerenader the third post on this stated they're shocked.....

🙄

doilooklikeicare · 06/02/2024 19:26

@MidnightSerenader and the 5th, sh I continue? It could be a long night for me..

Tartantotty · 06/02/2024 19:26

Feel sorry for William - not just or his dad's cancer, but Kate seriously ill too. This can happen to any family - nobody immune from illness.

doilooklikeicare · 06/02/2024 19:27

Tartantotty · 06/02/2024 19:26

Feel sorry for William - not just or his dad's cancer, but Kate seriously ill too. This can happen to any family - nobody immune from illness.

Fucking hell!! Kate's seriously ill? I thought lt she was at home recovering, what's happened?

DillDanding · 06/02/2024 19:41

Tartantotty · 06/02/2024 19:26

Feel sorry for William - not just or his dad's cancer, but Kate seriously ill too. This can happen to any family - nobody immune from illness.

Since when was Kate ‘seriously ill’? 🤨

TheAverageJoanne · 06/02/2024 19:55

ILoveMyCatButHesAPervert · 06/02/2024 11:34

Yes. Why not?

Then people would grumble that he's taking their space for treatment.

donteatthedaisies0 · 06/02/2024 20:00

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It's extraordinary how much thought people put into the workings of this family like who hasn't made a public statement , why haven't they . Who has been speaking to who , how often . Like in their mind it's a game .

SilverSideUp · 06/02/2024 20:11

I really can't get worked up about it. I feel sorry for him and wish him best but as I sit here again in agony and waiting another 15 months for an operation which if a member if the RF had they would get done quickly

payens · 06/02/2024 20:18

Thousands of people have cancer. One man is ill, has the best possible care and it's wall to wall news. The rest of us wait months for treatment .

Headstarttohappiness · 06/02/2024 20:44

Thank you silversideup and payens and
I hope you get some effective treatment soon.

Picotee · 06/02/2024 21:30

MidnightSerenader · 06/02/2024 19:23

I don’t think anyone is ‘shocked’?

Has anyone come on and said ‘the King has cancer - I’m shocked!’

It’s just big news, what with him being head of state of many countries. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The king has cancer
Stoptheworldpls · 06/02/2024 22:20

We are all human though...

mikado1 · 06/02/2024 22:23

Picotee · 06/02/2024 21:30

😆 🤣

mayorofcasterbridge · 06/02/2024 22:28

Picotee · 06/02/2024 21:30

I was shocked. I was on the phone to my sister at the time, and she was also shocked. My 20 something daughters who aren't particularly fans of the RF were also shocked!!

Why wouldn't you be?!

T1Dmama · 06/02/2024 22:40

Very sad.
Thank goodness his postrate was looked into and they found this other issue … just hope it’s been caught early enough and is removable without any lasting issues.

mayorofcasterbridge · 06/02/2024 22:43

IDontHateRainbows · 05/02/2024 22:23

I'm sure KC won't be on any sort of waiting list

And do you know, why should he be on a waiting list? He's the Head of State. Plus he's not exactly going to be using the NHS.

Which is a whole other issue, speaking as someone who has been waiting for neurological tests for nearly two years, and still has months to wait!

LoveLifeBeHappy · 06/02/2024 22:44

Poor guy, he didn’t really get much of a go.

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