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We can have a Tory government and Brexit or we can have the NHS. Which do you choose?

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verdantverdure · 02/02/2024 20:13

YANBU I'm not a millionaire so I chose the NHS.

YABU I am a millionaire so I don't need the NHS and I choose Brexit and Tory government.

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verdantverdure · 19/02/2024 18:09

LoobyDop · 19/02/2024 15:42

I have voted quite definitively for the NHS and against Brexit in every election ever, as have all the people who are likely to respond to your question. I’m not quite sure what you’re trying to prove.

Lots of posts seem quite keen to get rid of the NHS…

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verdantverdure · 19/02/2024 18:23

TempestTost · 19/02/2024 14:28

The last time they were in they borrowed money to fund it, which is now hobbling the current NHS.

I don't think that will work this time.

Labour has a lot to answer for in that, and also because any time anyone talks about a real structural overhaul (to something like a French model) they freak out and make it politically impossible.

The Tories have borrowed a frightening amount of money but somehow managed not to provide adequate basic services.

Where has it all gone?

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EasternStandard · 19/02/2024 18:25

verdantverdure · 19/02/2024 18:23

The Tories have borrowed a frightening amount of money but somehow managed not to provide adequate basic services.

Where has it all gone?

Jesus weren’t you on here during covid?

The amount of posts demanding sectors were closed

Then people demanding cash payments for COL crisis

Whatever people got they wanted more

Justifiedcheese · 19/02/2024 18:31

verdantverdure · 02/02/2024 20:25

Did you not see the Channel 4 piece of the NHS Crisis @Shouldgetupearlier?

12 hour waits on a trolley didn't used to be a thing.

But they are now.

Wrong. My father died after a wait longer than that in 2002. There was a recognised crisis then.

CoatRack · 19/02/2024 19:22

bombastix · 19/02/2024 16:50

@CoatRack - not voting in the next election then?

Lol no. The choices are:
Annihilate the country within a matter of years.
Annihilate the country within a few more years.

Not a democracy fan over here.

Nancy1906 · 19/02/2024 19:36

EasternStandard · 19/02/2024 18:25

Jesus weren’t you on here during covid?

The amount of posts demanding sectors were closed

Then people demanding cash payments for COL crisis

Whatever people got they wanted more

Precisely, because apparently governments can print money until the cows come home!

BobbyBiscuits · 19/02/2024 19:40

Would you choose cancer, or knowing the cure to cancer? What a weird question. Would you choose dog shite or ice cream? Hmmm...

Goldenbear · 19/02/2024 20:48

Nancy1906 · 19/02/2024 19:36

Precisely, because apparently governments can print money until the cows come home!

Who do you think benefits from this debt, the asset rich (very rich) again!

Alcyoneus · 19/02/2024 23:38

Here’s the latest gem. NHS says that drug induced chest milk from men is just as good as women’s breast milk. So the NHS has enough money to validate paedos who want to sexually abuse children this way but not enough money to do basic healthcare.

NoCloudsAllowed · 20/02/2024 08:55

caringcarer · 19/02/2024 15:12

The NHS was set up to give medical care to patients. The food bill alone must be astronomical. People should pay for their own food. There is way too much waste. A shortage of nurses and carers on the ground means too much paid absence leave because of stress and too much money spent on the likes of diversity zars and trust leaders. We should be training more nurses and doctors every year so in 4-5 years time things would ease off. We'd need less agency nurses who cost a lot more than permanent staff yet can't do many simple procedures.

@caringcarer I don't think people should pay for their own food.

However when DS was in hospital last year, the food was disgusting to the point of being barely edible. I remember thinking what a colossal waste it was to transport, store, cook, carry round the hospital, just for sick people to sigh at it and leave it so it can be carried off to a big bin and taken off for recycling or landfill or whatever.

One edible, nutritious meal a day that gets eaten would be preferable to three inedible ones that get binned.

DS was only 3, so it's not like he's a connoisseur or anything. Example - pasta they apparently cook in troughs of water in the oven until it's floppy and sticky. It's just something you would never want in your mouth. Hospital makes things harder to digest anyway as you're sitting around all day.

NoCloudsAllowed · 20/02/2024 08:56

Alcyoneus · 19/02/2024 23:38

Here’s the latest gem. NHS says that drug induced chest milk from men is just as good as women’s breast milk. So the NHS has enough money to validate paedos who want to sexually abuse children this way but not enough money to do basic healthcare.

Give it a rest. Cost of healthcare = tens of billions, cost of a statement on male lactate = about £20

AdamRyan · 20/02/2024 09:01

Interestingly it's impossible to find the actual letter from the NHS. It's a very strange news story.

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · 20/02/2024 13:34

verdantverdure · 19/02/2024 14:24

No.

We need to unfuck it.

That's like standing over a dead body holding a defib and hoping you can resurrect it. It's too late.

verdantverdure · 27/02/2024 20:46

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · 20/02/2024 13:34

That's like standing over a dead body holding a defib and hoping you can resurrect it. It's too late.

No, it’s like suggesting we stop the murderers murdering it before they succeed in murdering it.

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Kendodd · 28/02/2024 09:45

verdantverdure · 19/02/2024 18:23

The Tories have borrowed a frightening amount of money but somehow managed not to provide adequate basic services.

Where has it all gone?

Into Tory peer Michelle Mones pocket?

verdantverdure · 28/02/2024 20:58

Kendodd · 28/02/2024 09:45

Into Tory peer Michelle Mones pocket?

It must have been creamed off somewhere.

We have the biggest working population we’ve ever had before, we’re all working longer than we ever had to before, and labouring under the highest tax burden since the war.

Where’s our money gone?!

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Jumpingthruhoops · 28/02/2024 22:21

verdantverdure · 02/02/2024 20:25

Did you not see the Channel 4 piece of the NHS Crisis @Shouldgetupearlier?

12 hour waits on a trolley didn't used to be a thing.

But they are now.

And you think 12hr waits on trollies will cease under Labour? Oh dear...

verdantverdure · 29/02/2024 21:35

Jumpingthruhoops · 28/02/2024 22:21

And you think 12hr waits on trollies will cease under Labour? Oh dear...

Oh sure, yeah nothing has ever changed under a Labour government and I’m sure this will be similar.

We can have a Tory government and Brexit or we can have the NHS.  Which do you choose?
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Runnerduck34 · 29/02/2024 22:45

NHS

Wallywobbles · 01/03/2024 06:13

I just can't see how with the current COL crisis and the amount of poverty in the UK that the vast majority of people can afford the giant tax hike it would take to save the NHS.

I live in France and despite the massive amount of tax that is ring fenced for our health service it is less good than it was 30 years ago.

And 30 years ago it was already in a different league to the UK. I remember being sent for a mammogram and them saying this afternoon or tomorrow and being stunned. Now it would be at least a 2 week wait for a routine one.

Goforitagain · 01/03/2024 06:15

I don't want the NHS or Brexit so can't vote, but there doesn't seem to be a voting option anyway

ArrestHer · 01/03/2024 06:22

Labour will not be able to make the NHS the way it was at inception any more than they will be able to undo Brexit.

It would take a very courageous individual to commit to the changes needed and even if they did, to change and reform the NHS will likely take a decade or more, not a 5 year term.

TBH non of our politicians seem principled enough or charismatic enough to pull it off.

Corcadorca · 01/03/2024 09:17

TizerorFizz · 12/02/2024 09:03

Plenty do want nursing degrees. They are actually competitive. If they removed degree requirement they could go back to paying a wage and a mix of classroom and ward learning. There wasn’t much wrong with nurse training pre degree days!

That old chestnut 🙄

The traditional model training served its purpose in its time, but with the continuous advancements in medicine and the increasing acuity of patients, the minimum educational requirement for nurses to ensure safe and effective patient care has shifted towards a Bachelor's degree. In fact, many nurses are pursuing further education, including Master's and PhD programs, which has been correlated with reduced patient mortality rates. Numerous studies support the notion that patients under the care of nurses with higher educational qualifications tend to experience better prognoses compared to those cared for by nurses without a degree.
The antiquated notion of a nurse solely as a caregiver limited to fluffing pillows and serving as a subordinate to physicians is obsolete. This portrayal perpetuates misogynistic rhetoric aimed at maintaining substandard pay and working conditions within the profession..

hettie · 01/03/2024 09:27

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Tatumm · 01/03/2024 09:30

Even millionaires may need the NHS in an emergency.