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Aibu to think "panty liners" should be re-named?

239 replies

musroomsontoast · 28/01/2024 12:17

I'd be happy with "pant liners", but I'm open to other suggestions.

To me, the word "panties" is either a sexualised or infantilised version of the word "pants". I cringe when I see it on supermarket products.

OP posts:
BabyofMine · 28/01/2024 18:47

steff13 · 28/01/2024 18:46

They've been called pantyliners in the US since well before the early 90s, it still could have come from America.

I just mention early 90s because that’s when I went through puberty, I wasn’t even aware of them before that.

GreyWednesday · 28/01/2024 18:50

Yep. I really hate the term. I use them on very light days or alongside a tampon so I buy them fairly often. If I have to ask DP get them I say ‘the little liners’ so I don’t have to say it out loud.

coxesorangepippin · 28/01/2024 18:50

Just say liners

I mean, what else could you be referring to

ships

Perhapsanorhertimewouldbebetter · 28/01/2024 18:52

lieselotte · 28/01/2024 17:54

To the pp upthread, I'm not sure women want to wear period pants all month long.

As for landfill, where I live they go to be incinerated, but even if they didn't, they are not the problem. Well over 90% of landfill is caused by industry, not consumers, and not women trying to deal with periods and discharge.

And no, they are not pointless, a tax on stupidity or preying on women's insecurities. Some women need them every day or some days. Just as some women have heavier periods than other women.

We're not all the same. Who knew?

I don't really care about the name, though.

Each to their own, of course, but there are alternatives.
Period pants also come in varying absorbance levels.

vacay · 28/01/2024 18:55

I love knicker stickers 😂 I do really dislike the word panty myself, it sounds almost quite seedy to me ? Like I can imagine it being said in porn or something so it makes me cringe when I say it !

katepilar · 28/01/2024 19:21

QuestionableMouse · 28/01/2024 14:44

The terms was first used by the Washington Post in the 1980s so yes was imported from America but after 40 odd years do we really need to be upset by it?

https://www.oed.com/dictionary/panty-liner_n?tab=factsheet#9932200490

Whats lenght of usage got to do whether someone likes the word or not?
To me thats irrelevant. There are certainly older words that I dont like, in any of the languages I speak.

katepilar · 28/01/2024 19:39

In my native language the liners are called "slip pads" as opposed to "menstrual pads". While the name for a pad is an "inlay".

DerekFaker · 28/01/2024 19:41

OhItsOnlyCynthia · 28/01/2024 17:20

A young colleague of mine calls them cum-catchers.

Yuck

MeinKraft · 28/01/2024 19:50

coxesorangepippin · 28/01/2024 18:50

Just say liners

I mean, what else could you be referring to

ships

God bless this ship, and all who sail in her 🍾

DerekFaker · 28/01/2024 20:10

Slippery on deck!

Abbimae · 28/01/2024 20:13

Get a life

CactusMactus · 28/01/2024 20:25

Clunge Sponge?

steff13 · 28/01/2024 20:29

But they existed before the early '90s and so did America. So it's perfectly possible that the name was borrowed from America isn't it? I guess I wasn't understanding your point that it couldn't have been American because as far as the early '90s that's what they've been called. America did exist before the early 90s.

BathshebaKnickerStickers · 28/01/2024 20:31

I mentioned about 10 years ago that the opportunity had been missed to call them knicker stickers and I was told to add that into my user name.

Hence I’ve been BathshebaKnickerStickers since

whatisforteamum · 28/01/2024 20:33

Moisture mats 😆😆

ithinkthatmaybeimdreaming · 28/01/2024 20:41

BabyofMine · 28/01/2024 12:24

A pad is a ‘sanitary towel’ for menstruation, a pantyliner is not the same, it’s for vaginal discharge etc to keep your underwear dry. Definitely not American, I’ve known it as pantyliner in England since the early 90s.

It's also known by that name in other countries - I can remember them in the late 80s here (NZ). We also use the word pantyhose without anyone being upset about it.

Why would anyone actually care what they are called?

spottydinosaur · 28/01/2024 20:45

😂 it's like an episode of the inbetweeners

DragonFly98 · 28/01/2024 21:19

musroomsontoast · 28/01/2024 12:33

Pant-liners would be fine for me. I don't call a single item of underwear a "pant", but I also don't call it a "panty".

Edited

Pants are trousers though so that wouldn't work.

Shania7788 · 28/01/2024 21:32

CactusMactus · 28/01/2024 20:25

Clunge Sponge?

Surely that would be a name for a period sponge not a liner. I might be tempted to try one again if they had a rhyming name!

I’ve never thought about the word pantyliner but I agree it’s weird and twee since we don’t say panties here. I’d be happy with period liner, sanitary liner or discharge liner

XenoBitch · 28/01/2024 21:33

Loving the alternative names for them on this thread. Knicker stickers 😆
I have also heard 'drip tray'.

I got to my 40s before even using them. My mum always told me that they were for ladies with "dirty knickers".

musroomsontoast · 28/01/2024 21:34

DragonFly98 · 28/01/2024 21:19

Pants are trousers though so that wouldn't work.

Pants are trousers in the US and Australia. In the UK, pants are knickers.

OP posts:
IDontHateRainbows · 28/01/2024 21:35

What about 'fadge badge'

worcesterpear · 28/01/2024 21:38

yanbu I hate the word panty/panties too. They could be called underwear liners or underpants liners?

IhaveanewTVnow · 28/01/2024 21:42

I find gussets in knickers are not in the right place for me. They sit too far back.

Grendell · 28/01/2024 21:50

I'm 60+ and American and panty liners are for pee. Every cough spurts pee.
They are on a different shelf than period-related pads.