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Anyone else see the BBC news report *MNHQ amending title to warn of graphic content*

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Ownedbykitties · 15/01/2024 22:35

BBC reported a trial of men who had cut off body parts of other men.

One gave consent to having his penis and testicles cut off. Another his nipple and yet another his leg.

AIBU to wonder who is standing next to you in a queue in the post office?

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NotBadConsidering · 16/01/2024 10:21

In addition to the above information about this guy being a trans activist, there is more about castration.

The World Professional Association of Transgender Health, (WPATH) is a lobby group for trans health. It produces “standards of care” every few years or so which is often held up as the standard for treatment.

In December 2022 it released its Standards of Care version 8, which is commonly referred to by children’s gender clinics as being the “go to” document to guide the treatment of children. This new version has a chapter titled “Eunuch Identity” in which being a eunuch, someone who wishes to be castrated, is deemed a valid gender identity and describes how to best treat this group with “affirmative medical care”: castration, in other words.

This chapter was written in conjunction with a man who hosts a private forum on a website called the Eunuch Archives. In the private forum men discuss their child sex abuse fantasies 😡.

So whenever you read that “gender affirming care” for children is “evidenced based” (it isn’t) and people quote WPATH as their reliable source, remember that WPATH is an organisation that colluded with child sex abuse fetishists to produce their so called “Standards of Care” with people like the man described in the OP’s news article.

https://reduxx.info/top-trans-medical-association-collaborated-with-castration-child-abuse-fetishists/

Top Trans Medical Association Collaborated With Castration, Child Abuse Fetishists - Reduxx

The World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH),  the international association which sets guidelines for the medical ‘transitioning’ of children, has been collaborating with participants of a fetish forum that hosts and produces fict...

https://reduxx.info/top-trans-medical-association-collaborated-with-castration-child-abuse-fetishists/

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 16/01/2024 10:22

NewYearNewCake · 15/01/2024 22:37

The older I get the more I realise men are fucking sickos.

Same. It’s so depressing.

ManateeFair · 16/01/2024 10:22

NewYearNewCake · 15/01/2024 22:37

The older I get the more I realise men are fucking sickos.

You are very naive if you think men are the only ones who are sickos.

ironedcurtain · 16/01/2024 10:23

Cailin66 · 16/01/2024 07:15

Why is this a problem if the man wanted his testicles and penis removed? Surely he has that right. Especially as he’s an adult.

There are obviously further issues surrounding unlicensed amputation (eg risk of death, cheating money, etc) but interestingly, regarding licensed surgeons, there was an NHS case about this.

An NHS surgeon was cutting off the limbs of people with this disorder (the one where you fantasise about being an amputee and hate your limb – which I do believe is a real disorder in men and women, because come on, it's mental), because otherwise they might do it to themselves in a dangerous way.

I've read cases about such dangerous/desperate means as well, again in both men and women! It's not always sexual btw. In the article itself he mentions a woman who had persuaded her friends to shoot off her limb with a gun.

Anyway he was made to put a stop to it. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2000/feb/01/futureofthenhs.health

Healthy limbs cut off at patients' request

A surgeon who amputated the healthy limbs from two psychologically disturbed men at their request said yesterday that he saw nothing wrong with his actions and that he was disappointed he would not be able to carry out such operations again.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2000/feb/01/futureofthenhs.health

horseyhorsey17 · 16/01/2024 10:24

I've now Googled this and wish I hadn't. What is WRONG with people? I feel sick.

HumTamborine · 16/01/2024 10:28

Blueeyedmale · 15/01/2024 23:51

I completely agree a think a lot of people are still absolutely devastated for them girls,the way they weren't belived how they were treated and still there is still men out there walking the streets not even been punished for the lifetime of pain they caused those girls.

In a therapy session once I spoke about my childhood and how it affects my opinions of men.and he threw me the line that not all men abuse children.i said maybe not but that not all men like seems to get thrown around a lot,and i think a lot of men see behaviors and things happening and they wont challenge other men on that.

Really is a sad world we live in and it's not getting any better much worse in some cases

I can't believe you got "not all men"-d by your THERAPIST! 🙄

NameChangeForThisPost234 · 16/01/2024 10:37

horseyhorsey17 · 16/01/2024 10:24

I've now Googled this and wish I hadn't. What is WRONG with people? I feel sick.

Ditto. The story of the German guy upthread is also sickening 🤮

TheGoddessFrigg · 16/01/2024 10:49

I can now share my favourite fact- that the previous case was called 'Operation Spanner' by the police as apparently 'it made your nuts tighten' 😄

LittleGreenDragons · 16/01/2024 10:55

TheGoddessFrigg · 16/01/2024 10:49

I can now share my favourite fact- that the previous case was called 'Operation Spanner' by the police as apparently 'it made your nuts tighten' 😄

Ahhhh... I assumed it was because saying someone is an absolute spanner was slang for being absolutely stupid, therefor Operation Spanner = Operation Beyond Stupid. I think I like yours better 😂

TempleOfBloom · 16/01/2024 11:08

PrawnLiberationFront · 16/01/2024 10:17

No one is performing "affirmation surgery" on young boys, stop scaremongering.

Susie Green, founder of Mermaids, took her child to Thailand for such surgery for their 16th birthday.

OK, not legal to do now, and 15 / 16 isn’t a ‘young child’ but laws are made against things that actually happen.

lesdeluges · 16/01/2024 11:10

Sadly nothing in the behaviour of men surprises me at all.

There is an undercurrent of violence in all of them, yes that's what I said, the vast majority however are able to contain it and live very good lives.

Think of road rage, street violence, sexual violence, wars, you name it. Most of it is male orientated.

Bracksonsboss · 16/01/2024 11:27

This has become a man bashing thread based on the outlandish behaviour of a couple of outliers. Weird…..

porridgeisbae · 16/01/2024 11:29

Both men and women pay a LOT to see real time streamed 'snuff' movies.

@JanglingJack These are mostly a myth/moral panic. Don't think they've ever found one. There's not a market for it.

givemushypeasachance · 16/01/2024 11:31

It's where you draw a line on what is acceptable to do to yourself as "body modification", and that varies between different societies and cultural norms.

What about circumcision. Considered perfectly normal and routine in some cultures, and abusive in others.

What about tattoos - it's a painful process of permanently altering your body. Without consent, tattooing is GBH or wounding, as the skin is pierced and you bleed.

What about more "extreme" modifications such as tongue-splitting, or implanting objects under your skin to look like horns or ridges.

What about cosmetic surgery. Why is it socially acceptable to pay ££££ for someone to re-shape your face, to break and re-set bones to stretch out your limbs and become taller, to put silicone implants in your breasts. But it's not acceptable to pay someone to cut your nipple off?

NaughtyBoyGeorgeMichaelJacksonBrown · 16/01/2024 11:36

givemushypeasachance · 16/01/2024 11:31

It's where you draw a line on what is acceptable to do to yourself as "body modification", and that varies between different societies and cultural norms.

What about circumcision. Considered perfectly normal and routine in some cultures, and abusive in others.

What about tattoos - it's a painful process of permanently altering your body. Without consent, tattooing is GBH or wounding, as the skin is pierced and you bleed.

What about more "extreme" modifications such as tongue-splitting, or implanting objects under your skin to look like horns or ridges.

What about cosmetic surgery. Why is it socially acceptable to pay ££££ for someone to re-shape your face, to break and re-set bones to stretch out your limbs and become taller, to put silicone implants in your breasts. But it's not acceptable to pay someone to cut your nipple off?

Very interesting points. I feel it's very clear in my mind where the line is, but of course that is just my opinion and hard to get a consensus. I'd hate to be the one wording the legislation and guidance on this.

itsmylife7 · 16/01/2024 11:43

The pay to view made £200,000 . What does that tell you !

MeinKraft · 16/01/2024 11:45

'The guy that did the cutting kept the bits in jars horrific.'

You'd need a massive jar for the leg

Flickersy · 16/01/2024 11:46

NaughtyBoyGeorgeMichaelJacksonBrown · 16/01/2024 11:36

Very interesting points. I feel it's very clear in my mind where the line is, but of course that is just my opinion and hard to get a consensus. I'd hate to be the one wording the legislation and guidance on this.

It is an interesting topic, or at least I think it is.

To reduce it to it's simplest, the law constantly has to balance the rights of people to do what they want with the rights of said people and others not to be harmed unduly by those actions. To take two extremes at either end of the spectrum of this: you can play music loudly on a bus and it'll annoy others and legally that's ok, but you can't kill people you don't like, for hopefully obvious reasons. You can legally agree to go skydiving but you can't consent to being killed.

As you say, I wouldn't want to be the one having to draft the legislation.

porridgeisbae · 16/01/2024 11:50

Why is it socially acceptable to pay ££££ for someone to re-shape your face, to break and re-set bones to stretch out your limbs and become taller, to put silicone implants in your breasts. But it's not acceptable to pay someone to cut your nipple off?

Anything that's about sex (or at least, non-vanilla sex) is still a bit taboo when it comes to extreme kinks like cutting parts of the body for immediate sexual gratification etc. And so it should be.

I mean, people have labiaplasties or attempts at penile enlargement etc but that doesn't seem the same. They are a means to an end rather than for an immediate sexual thrill.

givemushypeasachance · 16/01/2024 11:53

I have paid several hundreds of pounds to a woman to painfully inject ink into my leg and leave a permanent "scar", in effect. And I posted about it online and got compliments!

Up to a point I wonder if part of the issue is with the more extreme modifications is it's okay if you pay a licenced medical professional to do it, and it's not if you get some rando doing it. Doctors have to follow professional standards, and shouldn't carry out "unnecessary" invasive medical procedures. But how do you explain breast augmentation for someone who wants to go up a few cup sizes or get more modelling work? Or a 5'6'' bloke paying to have his legs broken and be stretched out to 5'9''? That's not a medical short stature, that's just wanting to be a bit taller.

What if I just want to have someone cut my little finger off. It's not a big deal. If someone's willing to do it, in safe sanitary conditions, why not.

NettleTea · 16/01/2024 12:03

Floofydawg · 16/01/2024 10:15

So now, according to the WHO this is not a mental health disorder, it is just all part of lifes rich tapestry, and if you don't accept that you are a big smelly bigot.

Fucking hell. What do we have to accept next?

pretty much anything that pervy men want us to, it would seem

NettleTea · 16/01/2024 12:09

PrawnLiberationFront · 16/01/2024 10:17

No one is performing "affirmation surgery" on young boys, stop scaremongering.

OK, young men. And maybe not young boys here. But young boys elsewhere, where their governements have not pushed back on transitioning and medical pathways for children. Plenty of 'young girls' getting their breasts lopped off in the USA.
Certainly before the age that their brain is fully developed though. And certainly not without thorough investigations as to WHY they are presenting to the clinics, due to psychological assessment and therapy being classed as conversion therapy.
Lots of young men with children's genitals too, due to the hormones. Even ONE guy having the castration / paedophile crossover is one to many - but it seems plenty approved his activism, and plenty paid to watch.

ArabellaScott · 16/01/2024 12:12

NettleTea · 16/01/2024 12:09

OK, young men. And maybe not young boys here. But young boys elsewhere, where their governements have not pushed back on transitioning and medical pathways for children. Plenty of 'young girls' getting their breasts lopped off in the USA.
Certainly before the age that their brain is fully developed though. And certainly not without thorough investigations as to WHY they are presenting to the clinics, due to psychological assessment and therapy being classed as conversion therapy.
Lots of young men with children's genitals too, due to the hormones. Even ONE guy having the castration / paedophile crossover is one to many - but it seems plenty approved his activism, and plenty paid to watch.

Scottish girls, under 18 years old, are sent to England for mastectomies.

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/scottish-doctors-approved-breast-removal-for-51-trans-teenagers-qvkmz8r2c

Scottish doctors approved breast removal for 51 trans teenagers

More than 50 transgender boys under the age of 18 have been approved for double mastectomies in Scotland, it has been revealed.The figures, released under freed

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/scottish-doctors-approved-breast-removal-for-51-trans-teenagers-qvkmz8r2c

ArabellaScott · 16/01/2024 12:15

Leg removal. This Scottish doctor carried it out in an NHS hospital (patients were private).

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/625680.stm

BBC News | SCOTLAND | Surgeon defends amputations

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/625680.stm

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