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Kyle Walker

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Hocuspocusnonsense · 13/01/2024 14:10

Much as I try to advice this kind of ‘news’ it is everywhere atm.

Anyone else reading this news and thinking if he wasn’t a footballer he’d just be a waste of space cock lodger?

I continue to be amazed at what women will tolerate for the sake of money or in the pursuit of fame.

Basically he fathered a child with another woman whilst being married. His wife stood by him. He publicly declared OW was nothing to him. He’s now admitted he’s the father of the OW’s second child. His wife has kicked him out but I wouldn’t be surprised if she takes him back and it seems the OW is doing the pick me dance.

OP posts:
InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:03

@Anjea you're just believing the other woman when she said Annie wouldn't allow him to see the child, it's in the court papers in his words that he wanted nothing to do with him he made that clear from day 1. No not the child's fault but she chose to keep the baby when Kyle made it clear she would be doing it alone.

Also '3 is the magic number' referred to the fact that Man City had just won the third of their treble of trophies, nothing to do with the number of kids despite what skank Goodman would have people believe

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:06

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 17:37

Personally I think any woman has a right to 'bellyache' about her husband cheating, regardless of what he does for a living or how much money the wife has at her disposal!

I think what's particularly distasteful is an ow getting pregnant purely to secure access to a rich man's money. To treat her own baby as a meal ticket is more grotesque than the cheating imo.
And that's why I believe the only way to stop a certain kind of woman from doing this is to not make it financially rewarding for her. The man should have to pay what it really costs to support his children and I'm all for having money put aside in trust for when the kids go to university or need a house deposit, but not buying the one a massive house and paying for her to live a luxury lifestyle. She should be on the hook for her own 50% of the cost of raising the baby.

To be fair you could say the same thing about his wife.

Anjea · 14/01/2024 18:08

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:03

@Anjea you're just believing the other woman when she said Annie wouldn't allow him to see the child, it's in the court papers in his words that he wanted nothing to do with him he made that clear from day 1. No not the child's fault but she chose to keep the baby when Kyle made it clear she would be doing it alone.

Also '3 is the magic number' referred to the fact that Man City had just won the third of their treble of trophies, nothing to do with the number of kids despite what skank Goodman would have people believe

Nah. She knew what she was doing with the 3 is the magic number.

I'm not a fan of Lauren, if no idea who she was if it wasn't for this but I'd never call another woman a skank.

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:09

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:03

@Anjea you're just believing the other woman when she said Annie wouldn't allow him to see the child, it's in the court papers in his words that he wanted nothing to do with him he made that clear from day 1. No not the child's fault but she chose to keep the baby when Kyle made it clear she would be doing it alone.

Also '3 is the magic number' referred to the fact that Man City had just won the third of their treble of trophies, nothing to do with the number of kids despite what skank Goodman would have people believe

Maybe, just maybe, if he didn't want a child with her he should've put a condom on. A shocking concept to some men.

Vivi0 · 14/01/2024 18:12

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 17:37

Personally I think any woman has a right to 'bellyache' about her husband cheating, regardless of what he does for a living or how much money the wife has at her disposal!

I think what's particularly distasteful is an ow getting pregnant purely to secure access to a rich man's money. To treat her own baby as a meal ticket is more grotesque than the cheating imo.
And that's why I believe the only way to stop a certain kind of woman from doing this is to not make it financially rewarding for her. The man should have to pay what it really costs to support his children and I'm all for having money put aside in trust for when the kids go to university or need a house deposit, but not buying the one a massive house and paying for her to live a luxury lifestyle. She should be on the hook for her own 50% of the cost of raising the baby.

What a strange position to take.

You feel that a man, who is amongst the highest earning in the world, is being hard done by because he is paying child maintenance at a significantly lower rate in proportion to his earnings than any other person who pays child maintenance in the U.K.. Utterly bizarre!

OhmygodDont · 14/01/2024 18:12

I feel no harm over someone calling a knowing other women a skank tbh. She’s famous for shagging a married man well done 😂

All she’s ever wanted was to be a rich women who doesn’t have to work. Her sister bagged. A footballer she bagged being a wankers side piece with a wife.

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:14

OhmygodDont · 14/01/2024 18:12

I feel no harm over someone calling a knowing other women a skank tbh. She’s famous for shagging a married man well done 😂

All she’s ever wanted was to be a rich women who doesn’t have to work. Her sister bagged. A footballer she bagged being a wankers side piece with a wife.

Well you should do, since it's sexist and misogynistic. Slag off her actions by all means but we really need to move on from that kind of talk. We're in 2024.

TypicalCoach · 14/01/2024 18:17

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:14

Well you should do, since it's sexist and misogynistic. Slag off her actions by all means but we really need to move on from that kind of talk. We're in 2024.

Thanks for telling us the year like it makes a single difference

StaunchMomma · 14/01/2024 18:19

He's on 9 mill a year. I hope she rinses him real hard.

We could all judge his wife for staying with him after the vids of him flobbing his chode out in Wetherspoons last year but WE DON'T HAVE KIDS WITH HIM! Is it really that hard to imagine why a woman wouldn't flippantly break up her family when she has little ones?

I hope his wife moves on to a much happier life BUT I find it really sad that you're so judgmental of her, seeing as HE is the massive twat in the scenario.

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:20

I'm not saying he should pay absolute minimum child support - of course not. But I don't think he should be buying the ow an expensive house or new cars or settling her previous debts or any of the other stuff she wants to offload onto him. I think he should pay what it costs to support his kids decently, but that doesn't mean he should be forced to give the ow thousands of pounds per week because that's not for the kids benefit. Id willingly see him have to put money in trust for their education and futures etc, but not just hand over wads of cash to the kind of woman who would have children with a man purely to monetise them!

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:28

@Anjea she's a nasty, vindictive, greedy, lying SKANK. I have no qualms about calling her what she is when she knowingly set out to get pregnant by a married man. You clearly don't know much about her at all if you think she's anything but

@Beezknees she told him she was infertile. I agree he should still have worn a condom given her reputation but he's not the brightest is he. She makes a mockery of people who have genuine endometriosis and fertility problems. The judge caught her out lying on that one too

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:29

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:20

I'm not saying he should pay absolute minimum child support - of course not. But I don't think he should be buying the ow an expensive house or new cars or settling her previous debts or any of the other stuff she wants to offload onto him. I think he should pay what it costs to support his kids decently, but that doesn't mean he should be forced to give the ow thousands of pounds per week because that's not for the kids benefit. Id willingly see him have to put money in trust for their education and futures etc, but not just hand over wads of cash to the kind of woman who would have children with a man purely to monetise them!

The house isn't for her, it's in his name for the children to live in with her until they're adults. Then she'll have to move out. I agree regarding settling her debts, that's her responsibility.

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 18:30

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:28

@Anjea she's a nasty, vindictive, greedy, lying SKANK. I have no qualms about calling her what she is when she knowingly set out to get pregnant by a married man. You clearly don't know much about her at all if you think she's anything but

@Beezknees she told him she was infertile. I agree he should still have worn a condom given her reputation but he's not the brightest is he. She makes a mockery of people who have genuine endometriosis and fertility problems. The judge caught her out lying on that one too

And then he went and had sex with her and got her pregnant a second time. I have no sympathy for any of the adults involved.

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:37

Children aren't commodities to be used to make their parents richer. And that what is happening here when an ow is demanding way more money than it actually costs to support the dc. It's about propping up her lifestyle. If that behaviour gets rewarded, more of these trashy people will continue to have children for financial gain. And that's just rubbish for the kids. I'm not feeling sorry for KW and I certainly think he ought to be forced to make long term provision for his children. I just don't think the ow should be benefitting.
Yes, she's a single mum and he's not going to help raise those children but she knew that when she had the second. I don't think he owes her a better lifestyle than she could provide for herself without him.

Wives are different to ow - marriage still means something legally, and it commits each person to rights and responsibilities.

whatsitcalledwhen · 14/01/2024 18:39

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:28

@Anjea she's a nasty, vindictive, greedy, lying SKANK. I have no qualms about calling her what she is when she knowingly set out to get pregnant by a married man. You clearly don't know much about her at all if you think she's anything but

@Beezknees she told him she was infertile. I agree he should still have worn a condom given her reputation but he's not the brightest is he. She makes a mockery of people who have genuine endometriosis and fertility problems. The judge caught her out lying on that one too

Then when he found out she wasn't infertile and was a liar, he had unprotected sex with her again and she got pregnant again. This time when he wasn't on a break with his wife.

He knew full well she could get pregnant. He just didn't give a shit enough to not shag her.

LadyBird1973 · 14/01/2024 18:40

@Beezknees fair enough about the house, if it's in his name.

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:42

@whatsitcalledwhen oh I know and he's a million percent in the wrong but the way she lied about being infertile (which I am and it is due to endometriosis so maybe made me more angry than most) and then has tried to make out like she's some sort of victim in all of this is disgusting.

Saying she had to tell his wife well there shouldn't be anything to have to tell her! And claiming he was living a double life... I'm no expert but I'd imagine it's pretty hard to do when you're a nobody let alone a famous footballer who I'm sure would have been spotted if he was spending half his time in Brighton rather than at training etc

InAMess2023 · 14/01/2024 18:46

All credibility for her wanting his money to support the kids went out of the window when she asked for a £1500 LV nappy bag, £1200 fendi changing bag and £1500 a month for beauty treatments before their first child was even born! She claimed she needed a nanny because she was too debilitated by her endometriosis to get out of bed for a week... that same week the judge caught her out shopping every day and she spent £17k! So more than twice the months maintenance in a week!

(by the way she now pays her mother £2k a month to look after them while she sits on her burner photos all day)

Mywhoopdeedoo · 14/01/2024 18:46

Posting ‘this will be a memorable Christmas … for everyone’ knowing full well you’re going to destroy his wife is such a spiteful thing to do.
And there are no words for what an utter disgrace he is

Thepeopleversuswork · 14/01/2024 18:48

@VisionsOfSplendour

Out of interest are you a man?

No. Why do you ask?

StaunchMomma · 14/01/2024 18:56

Not sure if it’s fair to call Annie a gold digger. Surely when they first met they were two teenagers and he was just starting out, he probably didn’t earn the big bucks for years. At that stage, your career can go either way - even really good players don’t always get picked up by the big money clubs.

100% agree. It's judgey, bitchy and unempathetic.

No defence from me for whatever slurs anyone wants to throw at the kind of woman who aims to get pregnant by married men, though.

THAT I will forever judge!

Dacadactyl · 14/01/2024 19:11

Mywhoopdeedoo · 14/01/2024 18:46

Posting ‘this will be a memorable Christmas … for everyone’ knowing full well you’re going to destroy his wife is such a spiteful thing to do.
And there are no words for what an utter disgrace he is

Maybe I'm hard faced, but if I was Annie I'd have LAUGHED.

She's married to him, she has the upper hand on both of them now and can leave him whenever she wants, becoming financially secure forever. She might not have the "man", but she can sure take his money and she now knows he's not worth having anyway.

What has Lauren got? Fuck all.

I mean, she doesn't even have any shame.

HunterHearstHelmsley · 14/01/2024 19:11

Mywhoopdeedoo · 14/01/2024 17:51

Good for Annie, why the hell shouldn’t she ?

Definitely good for Annie!

Also, he's been earning "big bucks" for some time. He signed for City in 2017, they married in 2021. He wasn't exactly on a pittance at Spurs either!

His behaviour has been well known for years, there's a video from when he was on loan at Villa (2011, off the top of my head). He has two phones on the go and the other players are pointing it out, he's telling them to shut up.

Annie has done what she's needed to do to protect herself and her children. If it was any other profession, no one would be criticising for her marrying him. They'd been together a long time and I'm sure she's supported him just as much as any other wife does. Just because he's on mega money, doesn't mean her support is somehow worth less.

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 19:19

HunterHearstHelmsley · 14/01/2024 19:11

Definitely good for Annie!

Also, he's been earning "big bucks" for some time. He signed for City in 2017, they married in 2021. He wasn't exactly on a pittance at Spurs either!

His behaviour has been well known for years, there's a video from when he was on loan at Villa (2011, off the top of my head). He has two phones on the go and the other players are pointing it out, he's telling them to shut up.

Annie has done what she's needed to do to protect herself and her children. If it was any other profession, no one would be criticising for her marrying him. They'd been together a long time and I'm sure she's supported him just as much as any other wife does. Just because he's on mega money, doesn't mean her support is somehow worth less.

I'd definitely raise my eyebrows at a woman who married a man who brought prostitutes into their home, got his knob out in public all over another woman and fathered a child with someone else, no matter what his profession. I get the logic behind her securing the money, but imagine if it was your friend - would you advise her to do that? If a poster on MN put all of that, would you encourage her to marry him?

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 14/01/2024 19:25

Beezknees · 14/01/2024 19:19

I'd definitely raise my eyebrows at a woman who married a man who brought prostitutes into their home, got his knob out in public all over another woman and fathered a child with someone else, no matter what his profession. I get the logic behind her securing the money, but imagine if it was your friend - would you advise her to do that? If a poster on MN put all of that, would you encourage her to marry him?

Yes, if she already had children with him I would have. Especially if she was determined to give him one last chance.

it was the best way to protect herself and her children financially from his fuckwittery