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To think it's tragic if Michael Jackson was indeed innocent

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pregahes · 08/01/2024 21:53

It's a real shame for someone who created incredible music to have their legacy at risk. It’s just tragic, considering the impact his music had on so many. It's tragic either way, if he's guilty for the victims and if he's innocent for himself.

I'm a huge fan and at one point t thought he was guilty but kore recently change of heart. I think there would be more victims if he weee in fact guilty. Somethings doesnt add up.

It's tragic

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Isittimeformynapyet · 10/01/2024 16:01

App13 · 10/01/2024 06:08

It is true what they say about MN, it has some highly toxic people that are abusive to others through a screen.

I put a simple reason up initially as I didn't know this was going to be blown out of all proportion to a 600+ thread.

I have time nor inclination like others to write reams.

But my belief he is innocent stems from much more than that which really I don't care to argue about with the likes of Mn.

I am allowed to believe what I like.

Now run along and people bash someone else. Ive got to get ready for work and out the door.

You: "I because of that song try to be the best that I can and thats only down to listening it time and time again."

Me: "Seriously? You only try to be a good person because of a song?

From this post you sound simple minded"

Me now: I'm not being "highly toxic" or "abusive".

I'm incredulous that you credit this song as the reason you try to be a decent human being.

This was my only contribution to this thread. I chose your post to respond to as I feel it perfectly illustrates a feebleness of mind so prevalent in the MJ Is Innocent camp; a fanatic fervour so blind as to cloud independent, critical thinking, ie. you didn't decide to be a decent person for yourself - the self-proclaimed "King of Pop" told you to.

I wasn't "bashing" you in my first post - I was offering you an opportunity to reread and amend your statement - but because of your response, please take this as an official bash.

keylemon · 10/01/2024 16:10

@KarenNotAKaren Square One documentary available in Amazon prime. Whether true or not I was just making a point for clarification on your reply to the lawsuit early in the threat.

WingingItSince1973 · 10/01/2024 16:15

@ZoeCM very well summed up.

KarenNotAKaren · 10/01/2024 16:27

keylemon · 10/01/2024 16:10

@KarenNotAKaren Square One documentary available in Amazon prime. Whether true or not I was just making a point for clarification on your reply to the lawsuit early in the threat.

Ah the documentary commissioned by MJ’s people full of fallacies? Yeah I would t listen to word of that it proves nothing about the man’s so-called innocence

FredaFandango · 10/01/2024 16:56

An interesting discussion, and although I've always been convinced he was guilty, it's so mind blowing to see folk who dismiss the evidence found at Neverland.
Even more interesting is the point of view that it's just arrested development and he wanted to interact with children due to his horrendous childhood, including having a full sized funfair in his garden. If it was just a wish to have children's company, wouldn't he wish to interact with girls and boys, from what I see it was filtered to very specific ages, boys only, who looked a certain way, and if he merely wanted their company why ditch them when they got older and outside his filter age?

Talented man, not my music taste, but in his personal life an absolute monster

keylemon · 10/01/2024 16:57

@KarenNotAKaren I personally think that MJ has too many red flags and looks guilty for being so weird with kids. However, let’s be clear that you can settled outside court even if you are innocent. Also, that wealthy people can be taken advantage this way for financial gains. Apparently, in 2023 Robson and Safechuck were given permission by court to move to trial so let’s see what happens next.

FredaFandango · 10/01/2024 17:27

Meant to add, I'm glad I don't judge entertainers moral code on the words they sing.....I love Alice Cooper who sang "I love the dead before they're cold"🤐

BayCityCoaster · 10/01/2024 17:40

I am exceedingly diverted by @App13’s claim to be so moved by MJ’s Man in the Mirror, and not even realising he didn’t write it. You can’t make this stuff up… Grin

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 17:57

ZoeCM · 09/01/2024 18:01

It's been a while since I saw Leaving Neverland, but from what I remember Joy Robson expressed at least some remorse. She said something along the lines of "Maybe one day I can forgive Michael if I realise he was sick, but forgiving myself is another thing." She also said that when Wade told her he had been abused, she admitted that she needed to take some of the blame for failing to protect him.

That being said, I don't think she fully understood quite how throughly she fucked up as a mother. As you say, she did seem shocked that her daughter-in-law wouldn't allow her in the house, suggesting she wasn't grasping how completely justified the anger was. The fact that she was even considering forgiving Jackson for sexually abusing her seven-year-old son disturbs me - I know people have different thresholds for forgiveness, but I got the impression she still had some residual fondness for him, even though their entire "friendship" had just been a ruse to get him access to her son. (Plus, I'm not keen on forgiving someone on another person's behalf - she wasn't the one he abused.) I got the impression she'd believed that Jackson was in love with her, actually.

Her behaviour does NOT add up. People do not talk in fond terms about someone who has supposedly abused their son, even if their original relationship was a happy one.

PrimalOwl10 · 10/01/2024 18:01

The fact people on this thread saying his innocent speaks volumes. Imagine some mega star celebrity taking you under their wing with the sole purpose to sexually abuse you. I suspect there is many more but too frightened to speak out against Michael because of his fans. Many came forward after Jimmy's death and they were believed. Jimmy was weird and didn't have the level of fame that Micheal so it's easier to accept. Micheal like Jimmy hid in plain sight.

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:06

PrimalOwl10 · 10/01/2024 18:01

The fact people on this thread saying his innocent speaks volumes. Imagine some mega star celebrity taking you under their wing with the sole purpose to sexually abuse you. I suspect there is many more but too frightened to speak out against Michael because of his fans. Many came forward after Jimmy's death and they were believed. Jimmy was weird and didn't have the level of fame that Micheal so it's easier to accept. Micheal like Jimmy hid in plain sight.

Have you weighed up the other side of the argument though? You can't just assume he was guilty and may I remind you he was tried in a court of law and found not guilty!

BayCityCoaster · 10/01/2024 18:12

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:06

Have you weighed up the other side of the argument though? You can't just assume he was guilty and may I remind you he was tried in a court of law and found not guilty!

But that doesn’t convince people of anything.

He was found ‘not guilty’ because successful prosecutions in sexual assault cases are virtually impossible.

It is one person’s word against another’s. There are never any witnesses to call upon. It doesn’t take much for a reasonably adept defence lawyer to sow the seed of reasonable doubt, and then it’s impossible for a jury (or even a judge acting alone) to convict.

That doesn’t mean they are innocent (or the word ‘innocent’ would be used).

And unfortunately - you cannot legislate people’s thoughts.

MJ may have been found not guilty, but that doesn’t stop anyone with a couple of brain cells to rub together from knowing he posed a threat to - or, at least, wasn’t safe to leave alone around - young boys.

FredaFandango · 10/01/2024 18:13

One wonders why he paid squillions to families if he wasn't culpable, as a nice gesture?

Why only befriend only boys of a certain age and look

I could list a lot of other points but they've been posted already

Isittimeformynapyet · 10/01/2024 18:20

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:06

Have you weighed up the other side of the argument though? You can't just assume he was guilty and may I remind you he was tried in a court of law and found not guilty!

I think people are fully aware of the other side of the argument and have weighed it up accordingly.

You will find examples of criminal cases that have resulted in innocent people being convicted and being incarcerated, and of guilty people being acquitted who go on to commit further crimes, so "not being found guilty" is not the winning argument you wish it was.

FredaFandango · 10/01/2024 18:23

OJ for example

Killed two people and had a shit hot defence team

BigMandsTattooPortfolio · 10/01/2024 18:23

BayCityCoaster · 10/01/2024 17:40

I am exceedingly diverted by @App13’s claim to be so moved by MJ’s Man in the Mirror, and not even realising he didn’t write it. You can’t make this stuff up… Grin

I came across someone on YT who claimed they were good friends with MJ’s spirit and that he’s innocent because he told them. They then went on to say that MJ lived a previous life on a planet in a different star system to ours, where it was perfectly acceptable to have relationships with children. I cannot get my head round that amount of delusive grandiosity.

KarenNotAKaren · 10/01/2024 18:28

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 17:57

Her behaviour does NOT add up. People do not talk in fond terms about someone who has supposedly abused their son, even if their original relationship was a happy one.

This is why I think if she was very honest she’d say the abuse was worth what they all got from the association. She spoke with more passion and affection about Jackson than she did about her own family

KarenNotAKaren · 10/01/2024 18:31

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:06

Have you weighed up the other side of the argument though? You can't just assume he was guilty and may I remind you he was tried in a court of law and found not guilty!

I’ve weighted it up and I don’t have the slightest shred of doubt about his guilt, and I haven’t seen a scrap of information that would support his innocence.

Can I ask why YOU think someone who wasn’t a pedophile was acting so very much like a pedophile?

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:54

KarenNotAKaren · 10/01/2024 18:31

I’ve weighted it up and I don’t have the slightest shred of doubt about his guilt, and I haven’t seen a scrap of information that would support his innocence.

Can I ask why YOU think someone who wasn’t a pedophile was acting so very much like a pedophile?

Ok...how about the fact that they have never found an ounce of child porn and searched his house/belongings from top to bottom? Because that's usual isn't it! Not like they have 100s or 1000s of images on their hard drive.

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:55

I have never EVER heard of a Paedophile who didn't have 100's or thousands of indecent images on their hard drive.

StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 10/01/2024 18:56

I still don't know what to think but I enjoy researching cases and looking at court documents so this might be next on my list.

I was thinking regarding McCauley Culkin. He is Paris' godfather and is very close to Paris so even if something did happen to him, he would be unlikely to speak about it as he wouldn't want to hurt Paris.

Loopytiles · 10/01/2024 19:00

Child abuse, not ‘porn’.

Isittimeformynapyet given the tiny proportion of sex offenders who are tried and convicted it’s improbable there are many innocent men convicted for these offences.

Mirabai · 10/01/2024 19:01

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:55

I have never EVER heard of a Paedophile who didn't have 100's or thousands of indecent images on their hard drive.

How many have you actually heard of? Only the few that make the National news.

Not even one who was surrounded by 100s of live boys?

KarenNotAKaren · 10/01/2024 19:06

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:54

Ok...how about the fact that they have never found an ounce of child porn and searched his house/belongings from top to bottom? Because that's usual isn't it! Not like they have 100s or 1000s of images on their hard drive.

No maybe but not so much in 2005.

And they did find naked pictures of boys FWIW

God I could never imagine giving someone credit for not having electronic indecent images of children (please do not call it child porn BTW) but behaving in literally every other way like a great big massive disgusting nonce. WTAF is it with the nonce’s fans?!

Like when they say “yes he was charged and in court but he wasn’t found guilty” like being charged for child molestation is something that is totally normal and easy to happen.

People like this is why pedophiles get away with their crimes.

KarenNotAKaren · 10/01/2024 19:07

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 10/01/2024 18:55

I have never EVER heard of a Paedophile who didn't have 100's or thousands of indecent images on their hard drive.

I have. And in 2005 online indecent images of children were much rarer than they are now.

What do you think about the fact he had photos of naked boys in his home?

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