Would you be bothered if your partner/spouse made this sort of comment?
He was working with a 22 year old lady, in a hospitality type setting. He's 30 and I'm 33. He has a friend who's around 45, and he was relaying a conversation to me between him and this friend.
Apparently this friend said to him about the barmaid Sally: "If I were 20 years younger, I'd be asking Sally out on a date no question!"
Then bf added to me quietly 'She is really good looking.'
I didn't say anything, like yeah I get it, you fancy her too, I know men are programmed to find young women attractive bla bla bla. I just thought it was a bit unnecessary to add that comment on to me at the end. She's a decade younger too.
I didn't say anything about it and just changed the subject. It's not the end of the world but I just felt it was a bit unnecessary to make his attraction clear to me, AIBU?
Also I'm sure this barmaid comes to do her job, not to have older men leering at her.