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To ask them to be quiet even though it's NYE

135 replies

Xmasdread22 · 01/01/2024 00:07

Next door are making so much noise that I can hear them through 3 rooms. Live in a flat. I know it's new years but AIBU to knock on and ask them to be quiet please? With all the fireworks making so much noise too, I just want to go to sleep.

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JANEY205 · 01/01/2024 00:48

What are the Scottish comments about?

OP yabu!

Glad my dog has zero reaction to fireworks! She sleeps right through! My parents spend all night telling their dog to shut up as he gets increasingly stressed out by the noise, so I refuse to go round there now as them doing that is more annoying than their dog 😂

Xmasdread22 · 01/01/2024 00:48

As for fireworks I really don't understand why more than 15 minutes is necessary

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Tiredanddistracted · 01/01/2024 00:48

Xmasdread22 · 01/01/2024 00:44

@flawlessandfearless oh god barking would do my head in. I feel sorry for your neighbours if their choice is between barking or loud washing machine and loud music.

Gosh, @BananaSplitsss can't win then can she? She isn't responsible for the fireworks and would surely stop them if she had the chance. So, really, if both options are equally upsetting to the neighbours, then go for the one that causes the dog the least distress?

Disclaimer: I have a dog who is terrified of fireworks but has, thankfully, been a lot happier tonight. Fuck knows why. Counting my lucky stars.

IwishIdidntlikesugar · 01/01/2024 00:52

My neighbours sometimes like to get home between 1am and 3 am and then start making noise. As in you can hear much of their conversations. People who say ‘but it’s NY’ probably never have to listen to more than muffled sounds from their neighbours.

auntyElle · 01/01/2024 00:57

That's awful, @flawlessandfearless. I guess you've tried Zylkene? If not you're welcome to my packet as my rescue cat is thankfully not bothered.

Howbizzare22 · 01/01/2024 00:59

Oh don’t be a bloody kill joy it’s NYE ffs! Do not knock on it’s only been 30 mins since the strike of 12!

Tiredanddistracted · 01/01/2024 01:00

Tiredanddistracted · 01/01/2024 00:48

Gosh, @BananaSplitsss can't win then can she? She isn't responsible for the fireworks and would surely stop them if she had the chance. So, really, if both options are equally upsetting to the neighbours, then go for the one that causes the dog the least distress?

Disclaimer: I have a dog who is terrified of fireworks but has, thankfully, been a lot happier tonight. Fuck knows why. Counting my lucky stars.

Ha! Meant to tag @flawlessandfearless here and not @BananaSplitsss. Alcohol may have been taken...

EveryOtherNameTaken · 01/01/2024 01:08

Of all days in the year, just take it!

Happy New Year!

Xmasdread22 · 01/01/2024 01:09

@Howbizzare22 as I put in an earlier post, the deadline for them to be quiet was quarter to one and they were so I didn't have to.

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Notcontent · 01/01/2024 01:09

I think everyone expects a bit of partying and noise on NYE but if you live close to other people you still need to show some curtesy and common sense - e.g. finish up by 12.30 or just after and not go on all night so that people can’t get any sleep. There are people who need to work the next day or have other responsibilities and commitments.

Scirocco · 01/01/2024 01:10

JANEY205 · 01/01/2024 00:48

What are the Scottish comments about?

OP yabu!

Glad my dog has zero reaction to fireworks! She sleeps right through! My parents spend all night telling their dog to shut up as he gets increasingly stressed out by the noise, so I refuse to go round there now as them doing that is more annoying than their dog 😂

New Year (also known as Hogmanay) is a Very Big Deal in Scotland.

Starryskies1 · 01/01/2024 01:13

My normally quiet neighbours have recently invested in a karaoke machine. Still going here! Keeping my kids up with their bad singing.

Hankunamatata · 01/01/2024 01:17

Foam earplugs and sleep phone playing white noise/rain/waves etc. I'm highest sleeper and this works wonders

bluetongue · 01/01/2024 01:22

My mostly lovely neighbours didn’t switch the loud music off until 1.30am. I’d see it as petty to complain about New Years music and noise.

Bringonthesunforthewashing · 01/01/2024 01:26

Omg. It’s nye!!!

i have no words. Once a year ffs!!

whe did people become so miserable seriously. I have spent since 5 making a buffet, eaten then played board games with the kids. I certainly wouldn’t consider tonight of all nights to knock on my neighbours door until at least 2.30!!

people are actually allowed to have fun and be happy you know

DragonMama3 · 01/01/2024 01:30

Hope u get some sleep soon x

Howbizarre22 · 01/01/2024 01:32

Xmasdread22 · 01/01/2024 01:09

@Howbizzare22 as I put in an earlier post, the deadline for them to be quiet was quarter to one and they were so I didn't have to.

They don’t have a deadline to be quiet. You are not the police.

Passingthethyme · 01/01/2024 01:33

YABU, it's NYE. Make a resolution to lighten up a bit!

sprigatito · 01/01/2024 01:35

You can't ask people to be quiet on NYE, no. You'll look ridiculous. Earplugs or put up with it.,My neighbours are having a massive knees-up tonight. I have earplugs in, I hate the feel of them but it's one night.

Cmonluv · 01/01/2024 01:39

Xmasdread22 · 01/01/2024 01:09

@Howbizzare22 as I put in an earlier post, the deadline for them to be quiet was quarter to one and they were so I didn't have to.

The deadline 🙄 there's something quite wrong with you

AloneIsGood · 01/01/2024 01:43

I think NYE is one night you just have to suck it up.

Shouldgetupearlier · 01/01/2024 01:45

Been in Scotland 20 years, and let’s face it, it’s just the same as English NYe except for the name.

Maddy70 · 01/01/2024 01:48

Jesus. Life is dukl enough without curtailing fun on nye. Get earplugs fir the future stip being so miserable. It could be one of theirs last nye

Get a grip

DeeLusional · 01/01/2024 01:51

Xmasdread22 · 01/01/2024 00:17

Think things might be finally starting to quiet down...everything crossed

Overwhelmed with not caring about this fake post.

Nttttt · 01/01/2024 01:56

Cmonluv · 01/01/2024 01:39

The deadline 🙄 there's something quite wrong with you

The deadline 😭😂 I’m laughing so much.

We spent tonight in watching TV and I’m heavily pregnant but I would never go round to the one pub next to us or one opposite and tell them they have a “deadline”. One of them is still going now, sounds like a right rave, wish I could go dance with them! 🕺💃