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To think there's too much left wing dissonance

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LefthandRight · 31/12/2023 00:19

Feminist but support women hating philosophies and cultures
LGBT friendly except for the L part
Want to make minorities feel safe except for the Jewish community
Believe in the NHS but go private when needed
Think we should continue atoning for colonialism but mention Germany and WW2 and its like....move on already
Hate unearned privilege but it's handy I'll be left a property
Applaud multiculturalism but seek out monoculturalism in my holidays
Avoid palm oil as it kills trees but I must have a Christmas tree
Eat vegan because factory farming is disgusting....except the stuff that goes into my rescue cat food
Believe women shouldn't kneel to the standards and demands of the patriarchy, but I still remove my body hair, its my choice after all

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DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:24

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/12/2023 17:08

My they referred to men, plural. It was not a pronoun thing. Lisa Nandy has her views, but it was the Tory government who actually locked these scumbags up with their victims. They are responsible. Not Lisa Nandy.

Both big political parties are pushing back against trans ideology. Both big political parties have their TRAs and those who oppose them.

Only one political party formed the government that brought the trans shitshow on our heads and that's the Tory party. It's one of the many ways they've fucked over British women for the past 13 years.

Yes but at least the Tories are rowing back on this horror show, Labour? Not so much. I have been watching this unfold since the days of Madigan being wooed by Corbyn and his cronies and not much has changed from the Left it seems.

Islandermummy · 31/12/2023 17:24

JaneyGee · 31/12/2023 17:08

I could not have a lower opinion of left-wing people. I find them utterly repellent: smug, arrogant, sanctimonious, hectoring, simple-minded and unbelievably intolerant. They remind me of religious fundamentalists. You know, the utter certainty that they are right, the need to convert others, the fury that not everyone agrees, etc. They reduce everything to black and white. Either you want mass immigration and an end to national identity or you are a Nazi and a bigot. I have plenty of leftish views (I'm a feminist, a vegan, militantly anti-royal, etc), but even when I agree with left-wing activists I can't bear them.

Ever noticed how you are allowed a national identity when it comes to the bad stuff (i.e I have to hang my head in shame over the Irish famine and African slavery), but when it comes to the good things about Britain (Shakespeare, Isaac Newton, Darwin, the discovery of DNA) then national identity is a load of nonsense? I've sat in a pub and watched a smug leftie flip from one the other without the slightest problem. One minute they're saying "we should be ashamed of colonialism," or "after what we did in Ireland it's no wonder they hate us." When someone replies "well, it's our literature that makes me most proud to be British" that same leftie will shoot them down: "what do you mean our literature? We didn't write it. I think national identity is absurd." What they really mean is that national identity is OK only when you're ashamed of it.

Is there a chance they were winding you up on purpose?

I've never heard someone say that. I suppose the argument is that "we" should acknowledge the injustice of colonialism because we benefit from it even today. But it sounds like they were taking it further than that, and annoyingly so... I'd also find what they said to be OTT/tosh. But you sound so anti-left-wing that they might find it funny to provoke you...?

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:26

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:23

I said It was Theresa May’s government that introduced the Self ID bill in 2017. Your own link supports that. I said “introduced”, not “passed”. I’m correct.

Fair enough but you did not then go on to say that it was dismissed did you? Just setting the record straight in case anyone thinks that this is Tory policy when it is absolutely not.

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:28

Yes but at least the Tories are rowing back on this horror show,

Good for them having produced it in the first place. Mordaunt and several other Tory women MPs take exactly the same stance as Nandy. And Mordaunt came a gnat’s whisker away from being PM, she’s still very popular with the grassroots - the 100,000 who’ll choose their next leader.

TempestTost · 31/12/2023 17:29

AmeliaEarhart · 31/12/2023 11:25

I think it's because if the NHS was our only option and was as fucked as it is now, we would see much more action and turmoil across society that could create change.

I agree with this on an ideological level. On a practical, immediate level I question what I can actually do about there being no NHS dentist available for my children. I can write to my MP, or organise a protest maybe. I can certainly vote for whoever promises to properly fund the NHS in the next election (and I will!), but I’m sceptical that there are people so wedded to a political ideology that they’d let their children’s health suffer when they have the means to do otherwise.

I am not so sure this works in practice. Here in Canada there is usually little or no private provision, and out healthcare system is as fucked up as the NHS. In quite similar ways, which is interesting.

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:30

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:28

Yes but at least the Tories are rowing back on this horror show,

Good for them having produced it in the first place. Mordaunt and several other Tory women MPs take exactly the same stance as Nandy. And Mordaunt came a gnat’s whisker away from being PM, she’s still very popular with the grassroots - the 100,000 who’ll choose their next leader.

I am hoping that KB will be more popular but yes if Mordaunt was to get the leadership I would be very worried.

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/12/2023 17:32

I freely admit I'm one of those leftwing monoculture holiday makers. I'm poor so the only holidays me and my family get on have been at my sister's caravan, 30 miles from where we live.

It's so monocultural that I often bump into neighbours and school parents when I'm there.Grin

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/12/2023 17:36

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:24

Yes but at least the Tories are rowing back on this horror show, Labour? Not so much. I have been watching this unfold since the days of Madigan being wooed by Corbyn and his cronies and not much has changed from the Left it seems.

But at least the Tories are rowing back from this horror show

I've been hearing that line for years. It's up there with "at least the Tories know what a woman is". They talk out of both faces and they are responsible for the trans shitshow.

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:43

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/12/2023 17:39

And quite possibly the party’s next leader. The Tory I live with is desperate for her to lead his party and was gutted he didn’t get the chance to vote for her in the final two. The membership is predominantly middle aged/elderly men who think she’s Thatcher and Boadicea combined.

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:46

No I don't think they are responsible for it taking hold - I think that a lot of organisations got 'ahead' of the law encouraged by loons like Stonewall and an organised infiltration by (mostly) men who wanted to push the queer agenda.

Organisations such as the College of Policing, the NHS, universities have all swung behind this misogyny and homophobia and are not listening when told to stop.

I agree that the current government have not done enough to stop it and protect women and girls but under Labour it will be allowed (encouraged even) to flourish and our rights will disappear.

Women are a sex class in our own right and this does not include men, however they identify and the only Labour politician who dares to says this is Rosie Duffield and she is ostracised by her party (including Starmer) and sent death/rape threats daily by left wing men.

DeadbeatYoda · 31/12/2023 17:47

Humans are multi-faceted, the left is not one organism. I can agree with a person about some of their views but not others. This is perfectly normal. What is your point?

EasternStandard · 31/12/2023 17:47

I’d like to deal with captured institutions. The hold they have via the law and the GRA makes it harder for women - and children

They are also unaccountable to the public unlike a voting system

At some point voter pressure will change it all, likely coming from the US though

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:47

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/12/2023 17:39

Yes she is an idiot.

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:51

The membership will never elect Badenoch in a million years.

EasternStandard · 31/12/2023 17:52

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:49

On the other hand the Tories also have Kemi Badenoch who is clear and precise on this nonsense and has made some excellent speeches.

https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/kemi-badenoch-brings-sense-to-the-sex-and-gender-debate/

Kemi stands out on this issue

Gender ideology will take hold even more if Labour get in, they’ll align with captured institutions and TRA media

TempestTost · 31/12/2023 17:53

AwfullyWeeBillyBigchin · 31/12/2023 13:49

Sex in humans is binary. It is determined by the x and y chromosomes which moderate hormone production and responses to those hormones. The existence of differences in chromosomes (XO, XXY, XYY etc), mutations in hormone receptors and differences in sexual development don't change that.
Intermediate and 3rd sexes don't work in evolutionary terms which is why they don't exist.

The question was, how do you determine biological sex? Clearly you can't use chromosome combinations alone or reproductive organs alone, which shows it is not a purely binary thing.

You are failing to look at it developmentally.

You have people whose systems are oriented biologically to produce eggs, and people's who are oriented to produce sperm. And then a few of these of these who have had some kind of developmental interruption, which in most cases means they can't reproduce at all.

"Intersex" people, - though that is not a proper term nor one people with DSDs like - still, like the rest of us, are oriented one way or the other. The fact that there was a developmental issue does not mean they are neither male nor female, any more than a man having an accident where his penis is destroyed means he is not a man. Or for that matter, that a fetus born without legs in on some kind of "limbed spectrum."

TheThingIsYeah · 31/12/2023 17:55

@Mummyford

But I would definitely put myself in the category of someone who holds dissonant views. I'm very politically liberal, but we're very financially secure and securely housed, but on the other hand, I left a very high paying job in the legal sector and now work for a non-profit and donate my salary back. We use private medical care but on the other hand, had ourselves taken off of non-dom status before we needed to (unlike Rishi Sunak's wife) because we believe in funding society through paying tax. Send our kids to private school but will vote labour regardless of the VAT issue. We do fly back to the US several times a year to see family but drive and electric car and try not to take any other air travel holidays. I do try to avoid palm oil due to the habitat destruction but we do have a Christmas tree (I've done some research and am not convinced it's worse than an artificial tree), etc. etc.

Good satire, this has cracked me up 😂

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:56

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:51

The membership will never elect Badenoch in a million years.

You are wrong on this - she is very popular.

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:58

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:56

You are wrong on this - she is very popular.

Not with pale, stale males, she isn’t. And they’re the ones who choose.

EasternStandard · 31/12/2023 18:01

DewHopper · 31/12/2023 17:46

No I don't think they are responsible for it taking hold - I think that a lot of organisations got 'ahead' of the law encouraged by loons like Stonewall and an organised infiltration by (mostly) men who wanted to push the queer agenda.

Organisations such as the College of Policing, the NHS, universities have all swung behind this misogyny and homophobia and are not listening when told to stop.

I agree that the current government have not done enough to stop it and protect women and girls but under Labour it will be allowed (encouraged even) to flourish and our rights will disappear.

Women are a sex class in our own right and this does not include men, however they identify and the only Labour politician who dares to says this is Rosie Duffield and she is ostracised by her party (including Starmer) and sent death/rape threats daily by left wing men.

You’ve summed it up well. It’s the GRA that provides the legal basis for men to challenge more each year. Plus if anyone looks outside the U.K. to other western democracies they’ll see similar over the last few decades

A few politicians are trying to undo this but invested TRAs and institutions will fight hard. The U.K. could lead on turning the tide but it won’t after the next GE if Labour win. Some are keen for that loss of women’s sex based rights unfortunately.

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/12/2023 18:04

@DewHopper, those loons from Stonewall you mention were given multiple contracts by the Tory government to go into our schools, NHS etc. The same Tory government that drew up the guidance for trans prisoners in 2014 that locked rapists up with women. The same Tory government that wrote genderwoo bollocks into a Maternity Bill. The same Tory government who repeatedly appointed TWAW believers to Head of Education. The same Tory government that introduced Self ID in the first place.

I don't think you'll find it surprising that the head of Stonewall was a Tory party donor when the Tory party were championing them and filling their coffers. Stonewall's grip has now loosened thanks to Stephen Nolan and the BBC. Not the Tory party.

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/12/2023 18:09

BIossomtoes · 31/12/2023 17:43

And quite possibly the party’s next leader. The Tory I live with is desperate for her to lead his party and was gutted he didn’t get the chance to vote for her in the final two. The membership is predominantly middle aged/elderly men who think she’s Thatcher and Boadicea combined.

Yep. And given PM Sunak will be gone after the GE, it is scary to think she could be leader within a year.

She is very popular among party members.

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