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To ask you to show me your normal home…

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Noseyneeps · 22/12/2023 12:53

Fed up with the Instagram showing perfect homes, when the real world is much messier..: so show me your normal homes… here’s my messy (and a bit dated) kitchen

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kerrycgeorgie · 23/12/2023 14:50

Wet towel on chair, laundry to be put away, random toys on floor, this is tidy for me

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JorisBonhson · 23/12/2023 14:57

Freshair1 · 23/12/2023 13:11

Christ that's creepy! Misses point of thread

😂

As you can see, my kids take after their dad 🥲

dontcallmelen · 23/12/2023 15:00

BIossomtoes · 23/12/2023 14:27

Love all the colour @Definitelylivedin. What a pretty room.

Yy & yours Blossom
I certainly have never or have a six figure income.
Am more than aware many people on MN & the U.K. are facing real hardship & difficulties obtaining secure housing, escalating cost of of our most basic needs it’s shameful how many people are suffering & worrying but this thread is a lovely distraction & I admit I’m nosey right move is my guilty pleasure, also enjoy repurposing worn out furniture & painting/decorating & generally wasting time thinking about interiors.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 23/12/2023 15:05

Seadreamers · 23/12/2023 08:19

A few years ago my friend told me that I should be living in a much nicer house for our household income, so I won’t be posting photos. It’s amazing how much a comment can affect your confidence in your home; I’ve never invited anyone to my home again after that.

What a nasty comment to make and I'd certainly not regard this person as a friend. You don't need to attach any more significance to this just live life.

Notsurehwhattdo · 23/12/2023 15:15

GrouchyKiwi · 23/12/2023 13:07

This is my lounge right now. It is in need of a tidy and vacuum but that will have to wait till I'm well again.

This is our everyday chaos.

No problem with the lounge, but a TV overhanging the stand on both sides makes my face twitch 😆. Hope you are well again soon 🙏

PTSDBarbiegirl · 23/12/2023 15:15

SussexLass · 23/12/2023 09:34

View from the sofa this morning. DS has just rolled in after his work Christmas party…. We have people coming in a hour. Sofa looks quite nice in this photo but in reality is a sort of shitty mustard colour. Also can’t see the dog hair tumbleweed.

A very familiar scene, is that a 'sick' bucket?!

GrouchyKiwi · 23/12/2023 15:17

Notsurehwhattdo · 23/12/2023 15:15

No problem with the lounge, but a TV overhanging the stand on both sides makes my face twitch 😆. Hope you are well again soon 🙏

Heh, we had a much smaller TV then DH decided he wanted a bigger one. Hmm One day we'll get a new unit and send that one upstairs to the games room. Grin

And thank you!

Youcannotbeseriousreally · 23/12/2023 15:24

So many gorgeous homes here. Mine is a spotless show home type I’m afraid. Mainly because my anxiety can’t deal with mess. Kids are older so it’s easier than it used to be to keep it perfect. BUT everyone else thinks I’m obsessed and I constantly try to be more relaxed! I’d love to be more comfortable

Woolabaloo · 23/12/2023 15:27

Ok so here’s my ‘show off’ ‘stealth boast’ kitchen I posted earlier, taken right now. Oodie on the back of the chair, wrapping stuff on the worktop, dead flowers pushed aside, shopping and pressies waiting to be wrapped on the table, cups by the sink and a scruffy pup next to me! It will be put back to ‘insta’ if that’s what you want to call it tonight once we’re done wrapping, not for social media, but because I’m proud of what I’ve managed to save for and want it to look nice as often as possible.

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NotASingleClearSurface · 23/12/2023 15:35

Youcannotbeseriousreally · 23/12/2023 15:24

So many gorgeous homes here. Mine is a spotless show home type I’m afraid. Mainly because my anxiety can’t deal with mess. Kids are older so it’s easier than it used to be to keep it perfect. BUT everyone else thinks I’m obsessed and I constantly try to be more relaxed! I’d love to be more comfortable

Some of us just feel chuffed for anyone who likes their nest, no matter how scruffy/fancy, big/small, messy/tidy they happen to be. ❤️

Definitelylivedin · 23/12/2023 15:58

BIossomtoes · 23/12/2023 14:27

Love all the colour @Definitelylivedin. What a pretty room.

Thank you @BIossomtoes . I love your fireplace. Nice to see someone else with a cream coloured stove!

elp30 · 23/12/2023 16:24

I've been in the same house for 15 years so it's had my children, three cats and now my grandchildren all put their crap, I mean, their stamp on it.

The whole place is mismatched with no matching style, whatsoever.

Next year, my husband and I will be downsizing to an apartment and I can't wait for the place to be with just our stuff.

No doubt that it will still look mismatched but well...

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BIossomtoes · 23/12/2023 16:51

Definitelylivedin · 23/12/2023 15:58

Thank you @BIossomtoes . I love your fireplace. Nice to see someone else with a cream coloured stove!

Thank you, it was the star of the show when we viewed the house 24 years ago. The stove had to be cream, black would have vanished in there.

LimeJellyforBrains · 23/12/2023 16:54

A long way back now, but @ThatshallotBaby , could you tell me what that gorgeous wall colour is please? It reminds me of a colour I had in a previous house about 20 years ago - Dulux Natural Straw - which I absolutely loved but is sadly discontinued.

TheRussiansHackedMyKitchen · 23/12/2023 17:01

A teen appeared, dumped a can on the worktop and started cooking quesadillas between photos 1 and 2.
The kitchen was redone recently but we still need to skim the walls and replace the radiator in the dining room, so it all currently looks a bit odd.

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ThatshallotBaby · 23/12/2023 17:06

@LimeJellyforBrains
Ive got a feeling that’s what is was! I’ll double check as I copied my aunt, she might remember.

thelongroad · 23/12/2023 17:20

This is my favourite thread ever. I LOVE all these homes, as one PP put it, so cosy and inviting, and REAL. Thank you OP, great idea for a thread!

PicturePerfectPoppy · 23/12/2023 17:37

You can tell I hate doing dishes 😂 (also my username is the complete opposite of who I am)

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BarelyCoping123 · 23/12/2023 17:42

Oh my god OP - I had the same thought as you the other day! I'm so sick of perfect homes in adverts, theyre even on Munsnet and other sites aimed at mums/families - sooooo unrealistic it drives me insane 😖

BarelyCoping123 · 23/12/2023 17:43

But my house is way too horrific to share 😭

upsidedownbasket · 23/12/2023 17:52

My very normal small kitchen.

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mrsgingamunki · 23/12/2023 17:54

There is stuff for Christmas everywhere!! 🤦🏽‍♀️ I've given up this week.
A lived in and loved kitchen - just won't ever be tidy as long as my husband or kids are in the house 🤣

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LimeJellyforBrains · 23/12/2023 18:07

Oh no @ThatshallotBaby I hope not! I am hoping it's something else that I could actually buy! Xmas Grin I can't understand why they stopped it - when we were selling the house, everybody who came to view said how lovely it was, and a couple of people said they recognised it as they had it and loved it themselves.

Thriving30 · 23/12/2023 18:15

I love this thread, having a good nosey in everyone's homes!!! They all look 'homely' rather than cluttered so I'm afraid I can't share mine 🙃

moaningmyrtr · 23/12/2023 18:20

I love that chair! Where’s it from?