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Trans women do not have periods.

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zaazaazoo · 19/12/2023 18:12

According to period pants maker Modibodi, transwomen can have 'periods'. Periods which are just as valid apparently.

Whilst I'm not going to suggest I know what hormone treatment tied to a trans woman, I can confidently say that no, they don't have periods. Periods involve blood. Trans women don't bleed.

Modibodi seem to acknowledge that there is no bleeding involved I transwomen's 'periods' but bizarrely under a section on how to manage their periods, trans women should wear period pants. For the life of all God's WHY???! Wtf would wear period pants if they didn't have to?

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HootyMcBooby · 21/12/2023 13:40

For fucks sake.

Honestly, this is how this shite is able to flourish in the shadows.

Nobody actually BELIEVES this shite can be possible, ergo, it isn't.

Why don't people actually read both the website and the whole thread before they give us a drive-by finger wagging.

Baldieheid · 21/12/2023 13:42

Cos that's no fun!

MargotBamborough · 21/12/2023 13:44

HootyMcBooby · 21/12/2023 13:40

For fucks sake.

Honestly, this is how this shite is able to flourish in the shadows.

Nobody actually BELIEVES this shite can be possible, ergo, it isn't.

Why don't people actually read both the website and the whole thread before they give us a drive-by finger wagging.

I think you're right, you know.

A lot of people who say "trans women are women" and "be kind" and "stop reading the Daily Mail" don't know the half of what is actually happening, and because it's too ridiculous to be true (e.g. Modibodi marketing period pants to biological males) they assume that we are just frothing about nothing.

Helleofabore · 21/12/2023 13:46

sendinthefrownz · 21/12/2023 13:31

@LittleMG

Read the thread! here is just one link

Do trans women have periods?
Many trans women have periods. Some trans women don’t have uteruses, so they won’t bleed as part of a monthly menstrual cycle. But the hormonal experience of menstruation can still be very real.
Some trans women undergo gender-affirming treatment in the form of feminising hormones. These hormones can result in a range of physical and emotional symptoms, including:
• Anxiety
• Appetite changes
• Bloating due to water retention
• Cramping
• Tiredness and fatigue
• Listlessness
• Mood swings
These symptoms may occur at the same time each month, just like premenstrual syndrome (PMS). For many trans women, this is their period.
Having a period feels totally normal and fine for many trans women. Some even find it deeply cathartic and validating. But if your period symptoms are upsetting you, chat with your doctor about adjusting your hormonal regime so that it doesn’t trigger a noticeable cycle.
Your ovarian cycle and menstrual cycle phases explained
Curious to learn more about your menstrual cycle and ovarian cycle? Find out what happens in your body during the four menstrual phases.
https://www.modibodi.co.uk/blogs/wo
Period fatigue:what it is and how sleep hygiene can help
Do you get tired before your period? Period fatigue might be to blame. Discover 9 science-backed strategies for nipping pre-flow drowsiness in the bud.
https://www.modibodi.co.uk/blogs/womens/period-fatigue

You are doing great work.

I often find that if you post something like this on each page automatically, eventually people will get the point and read it.

sendinthefrownz · 21/12/2023 13:50

@Helleofabore
God forbid I'll get accused of spamming! 😁

WestendVBroadway · 21/12/2023 13:50

Well, we all seem to be arguing about whether or not Modibodi are perpetuating the lie(your words) that that transwomen have periods. We have now come to the conclusion that the feminists will now boycott these products. I am sure Modibodi will not be crying into their reduced profits.

sendinthefrownz · 21/12/2023 13:55

WestendVBroadway · 21/12/2023 13:50

Well, we all seem to be arguing about whether or not Modibodi are perpetuating the lie(your words) that that transwomen have periods. We have now come to the conclusion that the feminists will now boycott these products. I am sure Modibodi will not be crying into their reduced profits.

Do you mean they won't be crying like Ben and Jerry's, Bud Light and Target?
That kind of not crying 😭

MargotBamborough · 21/12/2023 13:57

WestendVBroadway · 21/12/2023 13:50

Well, we all seem to be arguing about whether or not Modibodi are perpetuating the lie(your words) that that transwomen have periods. We have now come to the conclusion that the feminists will now boycott these products. I am sure Modibodi will not be crying into their reduced profits.

Are we actually arguing about that?

I think it's pretty clear by now that Modibodi say on their website that trans women have periods, which is a lie.

Merrymouse · 21/12/2023 14:23

WestendVBroadway · 21/12/2023 13:50

Well, we all seem to be arguing about whether or not Modibodi are perpetuating the lie(your words) that that transwomen have periods. We have now come to the conclusion that the feminists will now boycott these products. I am sure Modibodi will not be crying into their reduced profits.

I think you will struggle to find anyone who really believes that trans women have periods, unless you are co-opting period to mean something else.

I am talking about the societal impact of putting pressure on women to affirm what another group would like to be real, at the expense of having language to protect their own rights.

IamfeelingSad · 21/12/2023 14:59

Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused · 21/12/2023 09:44

I am a woman. Born that way. I am taking HRT to deal with peri symptoms. I get period like symptoms with no bleeding during my two weeks on progesterone. I get cramping, I’m full of rage, feel emotional, get bloated and windy. But don’t bleed. I then get my natural period at the end of the progesterone two weeks. All the same symptoms but with a bleed too. Hurrah! I am trying to sort it out so the progesterone times better with my natural cycle because it’s miserable! But that aside…

I came on to post this to say that I don’t know what the addition of female hormones would do to a male body, but hormones are pretty powerful. So may be that is the experience of trans women? May be you can have some menstrual symptoms from taking female hormones when you have a male body with no uterus? My female friends following an hysterectomy still have cycles and feel the ebb and flow of their hormones. Im not an expert but I think it sounds possible, but haven’t researched it.

It looks to me like the blurb about period type symptoms is unnecessary and a bit virtue signalling, (but nowhere near as awful as the greenwashing I see everywhere I look) but the marketing
of the pants is aimed at ‘anyone that menstruates’ and seems focused on trans men to me - which makes sense.

Whether or not you agree with people being trans is a separate question. I’m in the ‘live and let live’ camp and want everyone to be able to express their ‘true selves’ as long as it doesn’t interfere with the safety and well-being of others. But in terms of this company and it’s marketing - I can’t get too het up about it TBH. I get more angry about greenwashing and marketing at children.

Sorry you missed the bit in the very long modibodi article on transwomen where modibody advises transwomen on how to manage their periods including buying period pants for their (bloodless) periods…

sendinthefrownz · 21/12/2023 15:19

@Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused

This article

This is from their blog page under the section ‘Tips on navigating your period as a trans woman’

They are explicitly marketing period underwear to TW.
All Gender Period Underwear | Leak-free |
Our All Gender period underwear is inclusive by design. Made to be worn and loved by all people who menstruate. Shop the full collection at Modibodi today!
https://www.modibodi.co.uk/collections/all-gender

All Gender Period Underwear | Leak-free |

Our All Gender period underwear is inclusive by design. Made to be worn and loved by all people who menstruate. Shop the full collection at Modibodi today!

https://www.modibodi.co.uk/collections/all-gender

Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused · 21/12/2023 15:27

HootyMcBooby · 21/12/2023 09:58

" So may be that is the experience of trans women? May be you can have some menstrual symptoms from taking female hormones when you have a male body with no uterus"

But transwomen who claim to "get their period" also complain of all the typical female symptoms associated with that, INCLUDING CRAMPING.

WHAT THE FUCK IS CRAMPING?
This is itself proves that this is at best, psychosomatic, and at worst, delusion or pisstaking or "thou that shall not be named" on this site.

If you watch some of the videos on popular video sharing sites of these people, a lot of them even have a huge grin on their faces while writhing around on a bed with about water bottle clamped to their imaginary uterus. And no I'm not joking, go and have a look and then come back and tell me this isn't a colossal appropriation of womanhood.

It can be both/and. Some of it is appropriation of womanhood by a few trans women AND trans women can experience some menstrual symptoms. Doesn’t have to be either/or. My cramps don’t always feel related to my uterus. I get digestive issues too (FFS! Drives me mad).

MargotBamborough · 21/12/2023 15:31

Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused · 21/12/2023 15:27

It can be both/and. Some of it is appropriation of womanhood by a few trans women AND trans women can experience some menstrual symptoms. Doesn’t have to be either/or. My cramps don’t always feel related to my uterus. I get digestive issues too (FFS! Drives me mad).

They aren't menstrual symptoms if they're happening to a trans woman though.

Most likely they are just constipated because progesterone (which has no reason to be in their body) slows your digestive system down to allow for more through extraction of nutrients from your food to nourish a potential baby.

sendinthefrownz · 21/12/2023 15:55

@Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused

Cambridge Dictionary

menstruate
verb [ I ] formalUK /ˈmen.stru.eɪt/ US   /ˈmen.stru.eɪt/
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When someone menstruates, blood comes from their uterus (= the organ in which a baby develops before birth) for a few days every month.

menstrual
adjectiveUK /ˈmen.strʊəl/ US   /ˈmen.strəl/
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connected with the time when someone menstruates (= blood comes from their uterus):

Symptoms trans women experience are a direct result of the hormones they are taking nothing to do with menstruation.

Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused · 21/12/2023 16:17

sendinthefrownz · 21/12/2023 15:55

@Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused

Cambridge Dictionary

menstruate
verb [ I ] formalUK /ˈmen.stru.eɪt/ US   /ˈmen.stru.eɪt/
Add to word list
When someone menstruates, blood comes from their uterus (= the organ in which a baby develops before birth) for a few days every month.

menstrual
adjectiveUK /ˈmen.strʊəl/ US   /ˈmen.strəl/
Add to word list
connected with the time when someone menstruates (= blood comes from their uterus):

Symptoms trans women experience are a direct result of the hormones they are taking nothing to do with menstruation.

Edited

Well yes, but you knew what I meant.

Helleofabore · 21/12/2023 16:35

I disagree. In no way do these male people experience anything resembling a period. Tying in symptoms relating to artificial hormone changes to be in anyway like a woman’s natural hormonal changes throughout a cycle and the symptoms of this is like comparing a vagina with a pouch tucked into the pelvis and saying it is similar.

Call it what it is. Those male people experience symptoms driven by their artificial hormonal changes. Nothing to do with a menstrual cycle at all.

It is harmful to let them think their artificial hormone cycle is anything like a menstrual cycle.

Merrymouse · 21/12/2023 16:42

Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused · 21/12/2023 16:17

Well yes, but you knew what I meant.

I think that it’s important that people are very clear about symptoms and their causes and it’s dangerous, not kind, to do otherwise.

Vaguely writing off symptoms as something unrelated can be fatal.

sendinthefrownz · 21/12/2023 16:50

Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused · 21/12/2023 16:17

Well yes, but you knew what I meant.

I still don't know what you mean because it makes no sense to me.
You wrote that "some trans women can experience some menstrual symptoms." This is an impossibility.

And that is the point of language. We cannot use words that already describe something else. The words 'menstrual symptoms' already mean something, Not all biological women get them but ONLY biological women can get them.

We have to use correct language, trans women can have side effects from taking synthetic oestrogen and progesterone and those symptoms are x y z. but they are not menstrual symptoms.

HootyMcBooby · 21/12/2023 16:51

Let's be clear.
Trans women do not experience ANY menstrual symptoms because they do not menstruate.

No ovaries, no uterus, no cervix, no endometrium.
No blood. No clots. No cramping.

Anything they experience is either psychosomatic or digestive issues caused by artificial cross sex hormones.

There is no need for them to be holding a hot water bottle against where they imagine a uterus to be, and their "symptoms" are entirely exaggerated for social media clout/views or they are in fact so far down the rabbit hole that they have actually convinced themselves.

Nowhere in the sphere of medicine is a delusion actively encouraged the way it has been in "trans" affirming care. If an anorexic were to ask for diet pills or fat busting injections, do you think the doctor would say "sure, you're looking a bit porky, here you are"!, or if a paranoid schizophrenic described hearing voices from the TV, do you think they psychiatrist would agree with them that it was in fact real? Should mental health workers agree that their patient is in fact Queen Victoria or Jesus?

It does absolutely no favours to someone to affirm a fundamentally unreal belief.
Agreeing that trans women can have "periods" or "menstrual symptoms" of ANY sort is exactly the same.

MrsTwatInAHat · 21/12/2023 17:06

Also I suspect TW aren't actually having any kind of monthly hormonal cycle as a result of taking estrogen per se. They are either imagining one, or creating one by deliberately using hormones in a particular pattern.

Otherwise, post-menopausal women on HRT would be experiencing this too, and I've never heard of that and don't think it's a thing.

You get a period and a menstrual cycle because of the cycle of material changes happening to the ovaries and uterus. Is there any evidence that female hormones in themselves result in a "cycle" of different emotions or physical sensations? Because if there's not. then we know this is bollocks.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 21/12/2023 17:09

Merrymouse · 21/12/2023 16:42

I think that it’s important that people are very clear about symptoms and their causes and it’s dangerous, not kind, to do otherwise.

Vaguely writing off symptoms as something unrelated can be fatal.

This.

For some women, their menstrual cycles cause symptoms such as headaches, abdominal pain and bloating.

Men may also suffer from conditions (or drug side effects) that cause headaches, abdominal pain, or bloating. But these are not menstrual symptoms - they are just symptoms. If they are severe, regular or prolonged they may need investigating, as any symptoms do - they could be a sign of IBS, various cancers, appendicitis or any number of other things, or that the dosage or types of any medicines they are taking need adjusting. Time spent investigating their periods instead of these other options is wasted.

It's bad enough that women get symptoms of serious illness dismissed because 'Oh, it's probably just your period'. Theres no need to start doing it to men as well. That is not kindness or progress.

zaazaazoo · 21/12/2023 19:13

@HootyMcBooby @sendinthefrownz

I agree no trans woman can experience menstruation. They can experience hormonal induced symptoms but that does not equate to a period or menstruation

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Helleofabore · 21/12/2023 20:21

MrsTwatInAHat · 21/12/2023 17:06

Also I suspect TW aren't actually having any kind of monthly hormonal cycle as a result of taking estrogen per se. They are either imagining one, or creating one by deliberately using hormones in a particular pattern.

Otherwise, post-menopausal women on HRT would be experiencing this too, and I've never heard of that and don't think it's a thing.

You get a period and a menstrual cycle because of the cycle of material changes happening to the ovaries and uterus. Is there any evidence that female hormones in themselves result in a "cycle" of different emotions or physical sensations? Because if there's not. then we know this is bollocks.

What some endocrinologists do is create a cycle with differing levels of estrogen and progesterone through a 28 day cycle.

It really is quite cruel to do this and tell these male people that they now have a ‘period’. When they clearly do not.

Slightlyboredandseverlyconfused · 21/12/2023 20:32

HootyMcBooby · 21/12/2023 16:51

Let's be clear.
Trans women do not experience ANY menstrual symptoms because they do not menstruate.

No ovaries, no uterus, no cervix, no endometrium.
No blood. No clots. No cramping.

Anything they experience is either psychosomatic or digestive issues caused by artificial cross sex hormones.

There is no need for them to be holding a hot water bottle against where they imagine a uterus to be, and their "symptoms" are entirely exaggerated for social media clout/views or they are in fact so far down the rabbit hole that they have actually convinced themselves.

Nowhere in the sphere of medicine is a delusion actively encouraged the way it has been in "trans" affirming care. If an anorexic were to ask for diet pills or fat busting injections, do you think the doctor would say "sure, you're looking a bit porky, here you are"!, or if a paranoid schizophrenic described hearing voices from the TV, do you think they psychiatrist would agree with them that it was in fact real? Should mental health workers agree that their patient is in fact Queen Victoria or Jesus?

It does absolutely no favours to someone to affirm a fundamentally unreal belief.
Agreeing that trans women can have "periods" or "menstrual symptoms" of ANY sort is exactly the same.

To be honest there is no need for anyone to be writhing around in a vIdeo, holding a hot water bottle for cramps. It’s just bonkers. All I want to do is say ‘fuck off’ to the world and retreat. Not broadcast the fact that I’ve got cramps! Quite incomprehensible to me, regardless of sex/gender.

Baldieheid · 21/12/2023 20:53

I suspect the hot water bottle is mainly used for hiding their "euphoria/validation".

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