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Storylines in mainstream films which are morally wild

130 replies

HairdryerMary · 17/12/2023 10:43

Big Daddy
Overboard
While you were sleeping

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AmeliaEarhart · 19/12/2023 10:09

Agree with Passengers. There’s a point in the film where Jennifer Lawrence’s character finds out that Chris Pratt’s character woke her deliberately, and she goes storming off to his room carrying a weapon (crowbar?) I thought the film was going in a different direction at that point; that she was going to stalk him round the ship until she got her revenge and that would have been cool. So disappointed that she forgave him 😭

cardibach · 19/12/2023 10:12

10yDrama · 17/12/2023 11:18

Yes to Grease.

"Your problem, teenage child, is that you're not slutty."

In fairness, he changes everything about himself too...

KimberleyClark · 19/12/2023 10:17

Blame it on Rio. Absolutely terrible film where Michael Caine gets off with his friend’s teenage daughter.

cardibach · 19/12/2023 10:19

LolaSmiles · 17/12/2023 12:05

Pretty Woman and Dirty Dancing make me wince now. Especially when I remember how soppy I was about them as a teenager
I feel the same about Grease.

I had a summer romance with this boy. We've bumped into each other again at school and he's decided to give me the cold shoulder because he's embarrassed by me, but I really like him. I know, I should change everything about myself and my style and start smoking so he'll want to date me.

While I agree changing yourself to
Make a boy like you isn't a good message, it's not quite what happens in Grease - he does like her. A lot. But he isn't able to break out of his 'rut' and acknowledge her. In the end he does at the same moment she also changes. Yes, I get that we think they'll both fall into his rut instead of hers, but even so...

Barmecide · 19/12/2023 10:25

cardibach · 19/12/2023 10:12

In fairness, he changes everything about himself too...

He puts on a cardigan, having achieved some mystifying athletic ‘letters’.

annestrawhat · 19/12/2023 10:47

CharliesAngels81 · 19/12/2023 09:26

I don't understand the issues with Big , it is a film and wouldn't ever happen in reality. So why be offended and if you are offended surely if it was to happen and a 12 year old boy would be in a man's body and working isn't this more like to be reality?

I think it was particularly them spending the night together. I don't think that would happen now, I don't think the scene would have happened even then then if it had been a girl.

annestrawhat · 19/12/2023 10:50

He puts on a cardigan, having achieved some mystifying athletic ‘letters’.

I didn't know how he managed that as he seemed hopeless.

I think she went back to her old style after that one day, and ended things with him. A good conclusion 😀

rickandmorts · 19/12/2023 10:53

Mrs Doubtfire 😬

Wellhellooooodear · 19/12/2023 11:01

CherriesInChocolate · 17/12/2023 12:38

Pretty woman originally was much darker and had a pretty bleak ending, but they rewrote it to fit with what was popular at the time.

Doesn't he leave her back on the street in the original ending? Would definitely be more realistic!

annestrawhat · 19/12/2023 12:12

I looked it up. I don't know how popular the film would have been with that ending, but I always found the 'fairy tale' ending more troubling.

"Instead of the Cinderella story that hit theaters in 1990 – becoming an instant classic and cementing Julia Roberts as a Hollywood star - screenwriter J.F. Lawton had conceived the story in the late 1980s as a dark, depressing drama centering on the dangers facing Hollywood sex workers at the time.
Instead of Richard Gere’s character’s swoon-worthy climb from his limousine to "rescue" Vivian from her fire escape, Julia explains that the film ended with her being thrown "out of the car, [he] threw the money on top of her, as memory serves, and just drove away, leaving her in some dirty alley."
The original ending left viewers with a final shot of Vivian on a bus with best friend and fellow prostitute Kit De Luca headed to Disneyland as she "stares out emptily ahead.""

Mills86 · 19/12/2023 12:34

Not morally wild but a local school did a production of Grease and I wondered how parents of teens then wanting to watch the film would respond to Sandy’s makeover (inc taking up smoking) for the benefit of a man. I am now also thinking about those who were Team SIL on the thread about the SIL who was trying to empower her 3yo old about gender stereotypes. .. 🙈

I do love Grease though and will watch with my DD when she’s old enough.

HairdryerMary · 19/12/2023 12:35

Just as a counter viewpoint. My friend was an escort who married a punter and ended up with a farm in the country, having his children. It can happen.

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Mills86 · 19/12/2023 12:38

American Beauty

Barmecide · 19/12/2023 12:40

HairdryerMary · 19/12/2023 12:35

Just as a counter viewpoint. My friend was an escort who married a punter and ended up with a farm in the country, having his children. It can happen.

That sounds like quite the story!

platinumplus · 19/12/2023 12:43

Cocktail

HairdryerMary · 19/12/2023 12:43

@Barmecide honest it happened. I think the circumstances are quite unique though, she was in her first few months of doing it, she was an estate agent before. He was a young man, who had just broken up with a long term girlfriend and had temporarily resorted to using an escort as he was too heartbroken to date apparently. So neither was either seasoned escort or habitual punter.

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FrippEnos · 19/12/2023 13:17

Any of the various Christmas kidnap stories.

annestrawhat · 19/12/2023 13:20

HairdryerMary · 19/12/2023 12:35

Just as a counter viewpoint. My friend was an escort who married a punter and ended up with a farm in the country, having his children. It can happen.

It's not a fairytale though is it. Your husband is the sort of person who uses prostitutes - and all that says about him and his views on women. It might be some sort of epiphany and he's never going to use them again, but even then...

KimberleyClark · 19/12/2023 13:21

Wellhellooooodear · 19/12/2023 11:01

Doesn't he leave her back on the street in the original ending? Would definitely be more realistic!

Don’t they sometimes make different endings and show them to test audiences and go with the most popular one?

LittleBearPad · 19/12/2023 17:10

Barmecide · 19/12/2023 10:25

He puts on a cardigan, having achieved some mystifying athletic ‘letters’.

Which he promptly takes off and throws on the floor.

I will die on this hill. It’s a crap ending and I much prefer @annestrawhat proposed plot.

Perfect28 · 19/12/2023 17:13

Grease

HardcoreLadyType · 19/12/2023 17:35

CliffsofMohair · 17/12/2023 11:12

Niche but … The Parent Trap . I know the Lindsay Lohan version was the remake of an old Disney film but parents of baby twins split, take one baby each , different continents, ….and never see either child ever again until they randomly bump into each other ….. AND THAT’S FINE???!

Edited

The Parent Trap (both versions) is based on a book called Lottie and Lisa by Erich Kästner. He makes the point in the book that children are expected to live through these things, but they are not considered suitable subject matter for children.

His analogy is that Shirley Temple was deemed too young to watch the films she starred in.

Brightredtulips · 19/12/2023 20:05

Summer of '42
Grease
Dirty Dancing
Maybe Bridget Jones and Love Actually, lots of "fat" jokes and the weird pretend porno scenes, meaning I can't watch with my daughter

Inthebleakmidwinter2 · 19/12/2023 20:14

Forest gump. I don't think it was right for Jenny to sleep with him.

Mothership4two · 20/12/2023 06:29

Many of the James Bond films!

I remember really cringing when Patrick Swayze took over Whoopi Goldberg's body in Ghost.