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Neighbour borrowing my electricity

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SuffolkQueen82 · 10/12/2023 18:55

So… I have a recluse neighbour, probably in her 60’s, we speak regularly and are neighbourly to the extent we’ll put each others bins out etc. Her electric sockets stopped working in her house 6 days ago and asked if we could run an extension lead so she can keep her phone charged, with the promise she’ll call an electrician the next day.

obviously we don’t want someone to be without power so we obliged. 2 days later she sees me
walking past, explains that she has an electrician coming and gives me £20 for the electric asking that we don’t unplug it yet. at this time I warn her I am going away with work and the house will be empty for a significant time during the day so it will need to be sorted before I leave as it’s a security risk.

2 days later still nothing I knock on her door yesterday evening to say I am away Monday and it needs sorting. She says the electrician is coming round today (Sunday) and it should be fixed. She then comes round 30 mins later to tell me the main electric has now tripped and my extension lead is her only
source of power. I mention getting a petrol generator as I can’t have a cable sticking out of an open window while I’m away.

she has been ignoring me all day today, I am leaving in the morning and will be unplugging the lead as I leave. I don’t want someone to be without power but she’s had nearly a week to sort this, I have told her. AIBU?!

I know for a fact her house is in a state of disrepair and her wiring is definitely not up to standard so the house most likely will need to be completely required, she doesn’t even have central heating or double glazed windows.

but:

  1. it’s a fire hazard as she could have a number of leads running from that 1 extension
  2. it’s a security risk, esp at Christmas when I have a lot of footfall in front of the house and the cable is visible.
  3. least importantly it’s plugged into the only socket free for our Christmas lights which has put a dampener on an already difficult Christmas season.
OP posts:
LikeTheMorningDew · 14/12/2023 07:47

She's probably dirt poor and can't afford to have it fixed.

Are you on close enough terms that you could check it on her today and see how the situation stands?

I am sure she'd have central heating and nice warm windows put in if she had the means.

Beautiful3 · 15/12/2023 07:22

Is your neighbour okay? Did she get it sorted yet? I worry she's been using candles at night and they can be a real fire hazard.

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