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To ask if you view 29 as young

155 replies

User7777000 · 02/12/2023 17:57

Young as in young in life.

OP posts:
AvengedQuince · 02/12/2023 23:11

BlueGrey1 · 02/12/2023 23:05

@SwordToFlamethrower

Yep, a baby adult. Nit yet fully matured brain

Wouldn't agree with this comment at all, they are a fully grown mature adult, of course they have a matured brain….why on earth would you even think this

The adolescent brain is not fully matured at 18 but this is not necessarily a bad thing, it's just different and there are benefits to it too. Teens at work pick things up quickly.

ThomasinaLivesHere · 02/12/2023 23:11

Yes 29 is young, because if 29 isn’t young then that means I’m not young as I’m older than that 😅

Drlate · 02/12/2023 23:11

I overheard my students saying they’re glad they still get ID’d because 25 is so old. I’m only 30 myself so I died a bit inside! Honestly don’t remember thinking of 25 or even 30 as old at 19/20 but there you go…

I think you’re technically a young adult until 35 and that’s when middle age begins which is kind of depressing but there you go.

Paddleboarder · 02/12/2023 23:15

Well I do these days - it's an everchanging perspective!

RuthW · 02/12/2023 23:15

Young is under 40. Old is over 80

HamBone · 02/12/2023 23:27

SwordToFlamethrower · 02/12/2023 22:42

Yep, a baby adult. Nit yet fully matured brain

I thought 25 was the age when the adolescent brain had fully matured into an adult brain?

Obviously we’re still learning at 29 (we do lifelong tbh) but I believe that we’re “full adults” by 29.

BlueGrey1 · 02/12/2023 23:35

@AvengedQuince

The poster is 29 though, not 18

AvengedQuince · 02/12/2023 23:40

BlueGrey1 · 02/12/2023 23:35

@AvengedQuince

The poster is 29 though, not 18

I've read mid to late 20s for the brain to mature fully.

The brain is just different though, doesn't mean anyone is a 'baby' adult or not capable of working and making decisions as an adult and raising children.

UsingChangeofName · 03/12/2023 00:08

Young adult 22-26
Full adult 27-40
Middle aged 40-60
Older adult 60-75
Aged 75+

This
Good summary by @Ponoka7

To directly answer the OP's question of course, we'd need the context.
I'm about to retire, but in one hobby I do, I am definitely considered 'young', however, obviously in many other contexts - including work, family, my friendship group, and going by the "ooof" noise I make when one of my knees doesn't work when I get out of the chair, I am clearly getting on a bit.

FreshWinterMorning · 03/12/2023 00:13

I'm mid 50s and would say

18-23 - very young adult.
24-30 - young adult.
31-41 - adult.
42-52 - middle aged.
53-69 - senior.
70-85 - elderly.
86+ - very elderly.

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MargaritaHargitaysLittleSister · 03/12/2023 00:15

When I was 29 I was old. Now I'm 55 and 29 is very young 🤣🤣

SheIsStuck23 · 03/12/2023 00:16

I’m 40 and I would give anything to be 29 again! 😢

HamBone · 03/12/2023 00:22

AvengedQuince · 02/12/2023 23:40

I've read mid to late 20s for the brain to mature fully.

The brain is just different though, doesn't mean anyone is a 'baby' adult or not capable of working and making decisions as an adult and raising children.

Yes, @AvengedQuince , I think that’s why I baulk when ppl suggest that a 29-year-old has a “baby” adult brain as that implies that they still need looking after in some ways.

Unless they have additional needs, 29-year-olds are perfectly capable of being independent adults and I’d be really frustrated if one of my children still expected me to parent them in the way I did when they were 18, for example. I wouldn’t do it!

Mine are 18 and 15 and I expect them to be fully adulting in 11 and 14 years respectively.

TheFairyCaravan · 03/12/2023 00:30

DS1 is 29 in a couple of weeks but I still see him as a teenager. He reminds me all the time that he’s “a grown ass man”. He’s still young imo. I feel sometimes that he’s younger than I was when I was 29, but maybe that’s because he’s my child.

Cantrushart · 03/12/2023 00:33

Young to be retiring, old to be learning to read.

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 03/12/2023 01:53

Whattheflipflap · 02/12/2023 18:00

Young up to 30
middle 30-65
old 65 plus
maybe

I'll be 65 in 4 years. I work 52 hrs a week, I ran a half marathon this year and go to festivals.

I won't be old in 4 years!

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 03/12/2023 01:54

Gwenhwyfar · 02/12/2023 18:14

Of course.

Young - 0-30 or 35
35-40 - no category
40-60 middle aged
60+ old

😂😂😂 60+ Old?!
Are you a teenager?!

Ocani · 03/12/2023 02:00

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 03/12/2023 01:53

I'll be 65 in 4 years. I work 52 hrs a week, I ran a half marathon this year and go to festivals.

I won't be old in 4 years!

Well you will, because you'll have been alive for 65 years. That means you're old. You may be old and fit in which case good for you, but you're old. The age you are now you're old as well btw. Doing well, but old. It's a descriptor, one of many, not a cuss word.

StarlightLady · 03/12/2023 02:16

YABU to expect sensible answers when not providing context.

Prob young for me to shag someone (I’m 40s) but on the other hand … But not particularly young for a friend.

QueenofTerrasen · 03/12/2023 02:22

GenZer · 02/12/2023 18:34

I’m early 20s. To me it’s something like

16-21 very young
22-29 younger adult
30-44 adult
45-65 middle aged adult
66-79 older adult
80+ elderly
90+ very elderly

This is perfect imo

Nofilteritwonthelp · 03/12/2023 03:26

Young-ish, but getting old. Only a few years to sort your life out depending on what you want to do

Gwenhwyfar · 03/12/2023 10:02

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 03/12/2023 01:53

I'll be 65 in 4 years. I work 52 hrs a week, I ran a half marathon this year and go to festivals.

I won't be old in 4 years!

Fine. Then I presume you won't be taking your free bus pass, pension or any discount related to your age since you're not old apparently.

Gwenhwyfar · 03/12/2023 10:04

QueenofTerrasen · 03/12/2023 02:22

This is perfect imo

Nah.
Why begin at 16. Youth begins at 0. If you're talking about adults, start at 18.
40-44 year olds are definitely middle aged and the 60+ or at least 65+ are all old.
'Older' is subjective. We're all older than someone and its use as a euphemism for old is bullshit.

ellie09 · 03/12/2023 10:07

30 did feel really depressing for me (I turned 30 in April)

I think its because its the age that is engrained into you that fertility starts decreasing etc so you realise your youth is starting to fade!

I have started to feel "older" the past year or so. The toll of single parenthood, working full time and ASD child has aged me a LOT.

Beezknees · 03/12/2023 10:07

Not really. I think of 18-25 as a young adult. 26-45 just an adult. 46-65ish middle aged. 66-80 old. Anything above 80 very old.

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