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Too wonder why people shop on temu Shein etc

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HappySunday1 · 20/11/2023 17:32

When we know how bad the environment is how much plastic and stuff ends up in land fill how poor the workers conditions are why are we supporting them. I see so many people doing big hauls of stuff. I know it’s cheap and maybe it’s all people can afford by you buy cheap you buy twice.

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TinkerTiger · 20/11/2023 20:05

Necessitynamechange · 20/11/2023 20:00

Where does buying shit from Shein sit on Maslow's hierarchy of needs? 🤣

I think keeping your body warm warm and covered is a most basic need, but that’s just me

LolaSmiles · 20/11/2023 20:07

This is a mumsnet fallacy: you can only question a person's environmental credentials if every single life choice you have made is carbon negative. It's lazy bullshit in my opinion and she doesn't have to be an offgrid vegan to question why people buy unnecessary tat from known polluters that are appalling for the climate

Agree with this.

I also would like to know if there's prizes because I predicted this would be the direction of travel on page 1!

Wexone · 20/11/2023 20:08

Don't shop on temu. there is actually reports that the website uses your data and can hack into your bank account at moment.
I don't shop from shein bohoo pretty little things etc either. every company is bad however shein is the worse. also look up the recent BBC documentary on boohoo and their practices. delivery's about to arrive and they demanding a 10 per cent cut on the invoices before they even pay them product that has been produced and paid for all ready and staff to be paid for and bohoo demanding a reduction in price. a shocking practice.
people have lost the idea of what products actually cost. consumerism has put pressure on retailers to drove their prices down. so you get clothes now made of poor materials (polyester etc) and made in different factories all the time instead of one factory supplying all clothes hence you get the mis mash of sizing. there is nothing wrong with products made in China. some China factotories are the best in thr world and also have a clear supply chain and all information produced when asked (unlike shein). websites shouldn't offer discounts all the time discounts should be twice a year like was before summer and January sales.
You also don't actually really need so much clothes marketing plays a part in the constant emailing advertising and influences to get you to buy
also see boohoo how wrong they are to offer a love island winner 500k to do a lone of clothing but refuse to pay their vendors 20k what they are owed
I was on e of those shoppers who wardrobe was bulging and bought new every time and donated bags upon bags to over flowing charity shops. covid made me take a good hard look at. it's taken me over 2 years but I have reduced my wardrobe by 70 per cent. I changed who I follow on insta. one tells you to add up each month how much you have spent on clothes (it was an eye-opener) if yoi can afford to spend that amount every month then that is yoir budget for one thing and one thing only each month. If you can't afford it reduce it. you identify what you need and that's what you buy every month. if yoi don't need anything then don't buy but you save that money.
another is Andrea chong who goes to shops of all budgets and examines the clothes of how they are made etc. an eye opener.
I now only buy when need buy second hand when possible and always examine the material and how its made. have a black tie awards even next week and I am actually renting my dress. something will do more often now for occasions

LolaSmiles · 20/11/2023 20:12

another is Andrea chong who goes to shops of all budgets and examines the clothes of how they are made etc. an eye opener.
If she's the person I'm thinking of she did an eye opening reel, possibly about Zara, and how fabric quality and finishing differs on different colourways of the same item. Both versions have the same name and cost the same but one is cotton and the other is a synthetic one with awful finishing.

Oliotya · 20/11/2023 20:13

TinkerTiger · 20/11/2023 20:05

I think keeping your body warm warm and covered is a most basic need, but that’s just me

If anyone is truly without clothing, ordering from China is hardly the most efficient option. People might want new fashionable stuff, but that's not a need.

Mountainhowl · 20/11/2023 20:15

I hate how much money Temu has to spend on ads, I try and Google for a product and 90% of the sponsored/shopping suggestions are bloody temu, I don't want to shop at Temu! Show me results from the UK, ideally small UK businesses, but the little guys (like me, I run a small business) just can't compete because they've got so much money to throw at ads

Im pretty poor, but I won't support them, and I'm always amazed when I get links to Temu sent to me from people who I know via ethical clothing/toy/cloth nappy groups - I can't wrap my head around being so into sustainable, ethical products and 6 months later showing off a tonne of absolute rubbish off Temu.

Shein I can kind of understand, people require clothing, I personally use vinted and I only buy to replace worn things, not because I just fancy a new pair of jeans, so only spending a few £ at a time, I couldn't afford to do a big shein shop even at their prices!

TinkerTiger · 20/11/2023 20:16

Stroopwaffels · 20/11/2023 18:07

@HomeBird43 - you'd be surprised. What are they stuffed with, do they meet the standards for being fire-resistant, what sort of chemicals have been used to treat the fabric/stuffing, how secure is the stitching etc etc etc.

All toys sold in the UK should be safety tested. Chinese fakes are not tested and are therefore cheaper. You do not know what risks you are taking buying fakes on Temu.

This reminds me of the poster who created a thread outraged at the dangers of children eating Dairy Leas

LoveHeartsFan · 20/11/2023 20:20

I wouldn’t touch either Temu or Shein with the proverbial bargepole - environmental ethics (plastic tat and air miles); humanitarian reasons (forced labour); product safety and quality, including banned goods; copyright concerns (knock-off goods take money from people that had the original idea or design) and data privacy concerns (data breaches, malware planting, data harvesting, targeting of a younger and more naïve market).

Eyebrows are being raised worldwide by both authorities and the press, who continue to question Temu’s practices, tactics and ethics. Some examples:

https://amp.theguardian.com/money/2023/nov/17/weapons-banned-in-uk-apparently-found-on-shopping-app-temu-which

https://www.snopes.com/news/2023/06/05/temu-shopping-app-scam-china-spyware/

https://madame.lefigaro.fr/style/news/qu-est-ce-que-temu-l-inquietante-application-shopping-la-plus-telechargee-en-france-20231024

Avec ses millions d’utilisateurs, Temu est l’application shopping gratuite la plus téléchargée en France. Faisant de l’ombre à Shein et Amazon.

Qu'est-ce que Temu, l'inquiétante application shopping la plus téléchargée en France ?

Elle est classée numéro 1 sur l’AppStore en France : Temu, la nouvelle application virale d’ultra-fast fashion, a tout d’une grande et cartonne en France. Mais à quels prix ?

https://madame.lefigaro.fr/style/news/qu-est-ce-que-temu-l-inquietante-application-shopping-la-plus-telechargee-en-france-20231024

vernatheraven · 20/11/2023 20:20

Lots of the shein stuff is on Amazon and Temu but more expensive

RiderofRohan · 20/11/2023 20:20

Agree it's all fast fashion and keeping up with the latest trends for image or social media. Many people have become quality-blind and so think they are getting great deals rather than tack.

Mountainhowl · 20/11/2023 20:32

PurpleWisteria1 · 20/11/2023 18:33

The thing that people don’t realise about these sites (in particular temu) :-

  1. Not only are they using slave enforced and child labour - which if you actually give it a moment to think why would you even want to touch a product knowing that a slave child has packaged it / made it? No matter how ‘poor’ you are. Very few to none of us in the UK are actually poor. The very fact that you are living here means you have options that the majority of the world don’t.
  2. Even if you don’t give a shit that a 6 year old slave made your window stickers for you (or whatever) Temu’s sister company is being implicated and investigated for spy ware, data collection and by virtue it’s highly likely that Temu are also doing the same. And by that I don’t mean just a few details about your shopping habits. I mean code placed on your phone, bypassing phone security to monitor apps, texts, hack your Facebook and other accounts by changing passwords, monitoring emails and using that email to access passwords to other sites, cloning your identity and stealing your funds. I already know several people who’s Facebook was hacked not long after downloading the Temu app. Google it if you think I’m making it up.
  3. Even if you really don’t care about all of that, Temu and shein are having a severe effect on UK sellers. I own a small business selling personalised gifts online and myself and thousands of other sellers are having all their business taken because we can’t sell products for £1. Not to mention that thousands of us are getting our product photos directly stolen and placed on one of these sites where they will try to reproduce our handmade goods (and they will be 100% shit). These sites are not only taking from small sellers. They are spending such huge marketing amounts that large brands are getting completely wiped off searches. If you want to keep British brands, shops we know and love online and high street, if you want interesting goods by small sellers, if you want the money to go back into the UK to benifit YOU, your kids and grandkids, please please don’t use these sites. Yes I know they are cheap- but I would explore you to buy quality, buy less rather than have cheap crap shipped directly from these sites, before that’s all there is left.

Number 3 is so so important. We can't complain about our economy and how shit it is and then spend all our money with Chinese companies instead of supporting British ones. It doesn't make any sense

I'm also own a small business, I can't compete with Temu on either price or marketing spend, I'm having to push the fact that my products are made in the UK and are high quality to try and attract the type of consumers who will choose my shop over Temu. 5 years ago we were able to support our family reasonably comfortably, now we rely on UC to survive.

I want to try Google ads but is there any point? Temu have so much ad space I don't think I'd get a look in!

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 20/11/2023 20:39

Chicken absolutely agree that for many people there isn't the luxury of choice. Get that 100%.

I think however if you do have choices then we all have a responsibility to do as well by others/the planet as we can. I think all the little things can help. Buying endless amounts cheap crap that's ultimately destined for landfill is slowly killing is all.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 20/11/2023 20:42

autumnpumpkinlattes · 20/11/2023 19:58

And more....

Good grief Confused

Trinity65 · 20/11/2023 20:47

meisafairy · 20/11/2023 17:56

Same item, lower price on Temu, I purchased four for a Xmas window display, battery operated.

That's lovely

Can you tell Me how they look when they arrive plz as I was thinking of getting one of these
TIA

BloodandGlitter · 20/11/2023 21:05

Diamonde · 20/11/2023 19:40

Mmm actually... I use Temu and Shein and care about the environment, I offset my use of those websites by not eating meat daily, never going on an aeroplane, nobody in my house driving. I take my balance where I can.

You'd rather have a piggy pencils sharpener amongst other things, than ever go on holiday? Really? I'm not sold with this, sorry.

If you had such strong principles, you'd just not buy from there.

Are you doing everything environmentally correct, then? This is how people get put off the idea they think they have to be perfect rather than doing what they can.
I can't afford a holiday, but I can afford to buy a cheap hobby related item from Temu every so often to still bring me some joy. Or since I'm poor, should I just shut up and have nothing?

Diamonde · 20/11/2023 21:14

@BloodandGlitter

So it's not a choice then?

My original post said Shein buyers are not skipping steak and flights to offset their footprint- you're not making a choice to not go on holiday.

Ok then.

You don't have to do everything right, no. You can in fact buy from Shein and use things for ages and repair them. So... over got the wrong end of the stick with me.

I take issue with people like pp who don't give a budgie about anyone or anything else, and gloat about using these places. Someone buying a shein dress as a little morale boost once in a while, but who recognises their impact - fair enough.

CrapGoat · 20/11/2023 21:43

Quality isn't always reflected on price. I've had some nice-quality items from Shein. I also have a pair of trainers that retail at £600+ that have started falling apart after about twenty wears.

PurpleWisteria1 · 20/11/2023 21:45

ithinkthatmaybeimdreaming · 20/11/2023 19:09

Oh, do get off your high horse! I prefer to have as little "stuff" as possible myself, but other people like plastic crap, and they are entitled to like it, and to buy it. Some people have shit lives, and if buying this stuff gives them a bit of pleasure then good on them.

I have a couple of friends who buy from such sites. One has a terminally ill adult child, the other never managed to find the partner and have the children she always wanted. I wouldn't dream of judging them, nor of policing what anyone else wants to buy.

No. That is where you are wrong. They are not entitled to it. Absolutely No one is entitled to useless plastic crap make by a child slave.
Good lord. Is this what we’ve come to? The sheer entitlement of people in developed countries makes me despair (and I count myself in that but opinions like those in this quoted post are on another level) 😞

PurpleWisteria1 · 20/11/2023 21:47

PurpleWisteria1 · 20/11/2023 21:45

No. That is where you are wrong. They are not entitled to it. Absolutely No one is entitled to useless plastic crap make by a child slave.
Good lord. Is this what we’ve come to? The sheer entitlement of people in developed countries makes me despair (and I count myself in that but opinions like those in this quoted post are on another level) 😞

And yes, it absolutely should be policed. Something should be done.
Guess what- 2023 is not the first year where people have been poor and we managed well enough without tons of cheap plastic crap shipped directly from the wretched hand of a poor child slave.

ithinkthatmaybeimdreaming · 20/11/2023 22:09

PurpleWisteria1 · 20/11/2023 21:45

No. That is where you are wrong. They are not entitled to it. Absolutely No one is entitled to useless plastic crap make by a child slave.
Good lord. Is this what we’ve come to? The sheer entitlement of people in developed countries makes me despair (and I count myself in that but opinions like those in this quoted post are on another level) 😞

So I am assuming that you are whiter than the driven snow in your purchasing habits, and research every detail to see where your purchases are made and who are making them? If so I applaud you, but you must have more time on your hands than the average person.

I do hope you don't have, or plan to purchase, an electric car.

None of us are "entitled" to probably most of our purchases, but I still defend the right of people to spend their money how, and where, they wish without being judged by those who perceive themselves to hold the moral high ground.

Enjoy your despairing - it really isn't going to make one iota of difference!

ithinkthatmaybeimdreaming · 20/11/2023 22:13

PurpleWisteria1 · 20/11/2023 21:47

And yes, it absolutely should be policed. Something should be done.
Guess what- 2023 is not the first year where people have been poor and we managed well enough without tons of cheap plastic crap shipped directly from the wretched hand of a poor child slave.

Do you seriously think that everything we purchased prior to recent years was made by a well paid adult, whose employers cared for their welfare and made sure their working conditions were top notch?

Oh, to be so naive.

Mademetoxic · 20/11/2023 22:31

Iloveechocolate · 20/11/2023 18:41

I have twin babies so it's more affordable for me to shop on these sites right now. The clothes have always been quite good quality imo.

Charity shops have loads of children's/baby clothes.

AddGif · 20/11/2023 22:51

listsandbudgets · 20/11/2023 18:32

I won't do it as long as questions remain about whether or not they're using forced labour by Uyghur Muslims in their supply line. They don't deny it just say it was not responsible for third-party sellers using its platform.

China is committing genocide against the Uyghur. I can not support a company that does not deny using forced labour when asked.

Yes this.

I bought some stuff from Shein a few years ago as my teenage daughter wanted some stuff. The stuff we bought was fine. I then read about the Uyghurs in China. I don’t know if it is true or not, but I didn’t want to take the risk, so I deleted the app. Would not try Temu now either.

I’m sure I buy stuff from other companies that exploit people too. However, this one felt that it could well be true so no more shein for me. I don’t live on a strict budget though which helps.

Wexone · 20/11/2023 23:21

LolaSmiles · 20/11/2023 20:12

another is Andrea chong who goes to shops of all budgets and examines the clothes of how they are made etc. an eye opener.
If she's the person I'm thinking of she did an eye opening reel, possibly about Zara, and how fabric quality and finishing differs on different colourways of the same item. Both versions have the same name and cost the same but one is cotton and the other is a synthetic one with awful finishing.

I say it possibly is. it's been a real eye opener for me and have also bought her book. I like the fact she does lower end brands plus higher end. she recently did sienna's range with marks and it wasn't good. when you see what she says clothes are nkt good. ialways check labels etc now when buying. there is a blogger here in Ireland who has just launched a clothing range mix of dresses and cardigans. they look fab and are bright colours however when u read the description its all polyester and she selling them for around 200e. so disappointed

Trinity65 · 20/11/2023 23:36

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 20/11/2023 18:07

There’s really no excuse to be shopping from SHEIN, Temu OR the high street.

I fashion my own garments from weaving hay, menstrual blood and woad.

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