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To worry about DH????

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dhworry · 13/11/2023 21:31

So dh has this thing where he forgets conversations we have had. So I might say "oh the shopping is being delivered Wednesday " then come Wednesday I'll say " don't forget the shopping is coming" and dh will deny the conversation took place and be annoyed I've not said anything sooner. If others are there they will back me up but generally it's my word again his a d he's adamant the conversation did not take place. It winds me up as I find it ignorant. I'd say it happens 3-4 time a week where he forgets specific things we have discussed.

Today he forgot a conversation that took place on Friday about a plumber coming . This is usually something he would want to be involved in so it's surprising he forgot. Is this normal? Dh is 36, he is quite stressed as a general rule.

Is there anything I can do or is him being lazy?

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Dinnerladyposhschool · 16/12/2023 09:34

Ex-H used to do this all the time.
The amount of times I was so bloody exasperated I'd say "I'm going to start recording our bloody conversations so I can play them back to you!!!"
He's an intelligent man working in a job that requires following alot of rules & regulations and responsibility for public safety so its definitely not memory problems or any medical conditions!
It was just that he didn't respect me and he couldn't be arsed with the boring minutae of family life
He's an Ex now....

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