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AIBU?

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Original poster

To play AIBU F.R.I.E.N.D.S version?

396 replies

HvalaALot · 05/11/2023 21:04

I’ll start super easy: My best friend plays guitar. She’s absolutely awful but thinks she’s great and is now insisting on playing at my wedding. Should I tell her she’s awful or let her play?

Say who I am then post your own AIBU…

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GodDammitCecil · 09/11/2023 08:20

Michael!

AIBU to think that with her face, and her chest, I could really put something together?

RealOP · 09/11/2023 08:21

Rachel?

AIBU to bring home the stunning models I photograph amd throw parties with them over the weekend?

Cakeorchocolate · 09/11/2023 09:09

AIBU to think that with her face, and her chest, I could really put something together?

Estelle

AIBU to bring home the stunning models I photograph amd throw parties with them over the weekend?

Eric

I like to give people friendly punches. My boyfriends friend punched me back - hard, then kicked me too! AIBU for limping out on him when he didn't say anything?

x2boys · 09/11/2023 11:09

Katie( had to.google!)
Aibu,to have a third nipp!e?

JustJoinedRightNow · 09/11/2023 11:23

Chandler.

AIBU - I lost my car keys when I stopped for a coffee and couldn't find them for a good few days. Turns out some random weirdo was using them to pretend he drove a Porsche (the car I drive). AIBU to think that's so weird and who does that??

x2boys · 09/11/2023 11:46

Joey?a
Aibu ,to wear a hat made from real.fruit when watching my son ( play sport?) At high school.and then after the game hand out the fruit as a healthy snack?

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 09/11/2023 17:22

Chandler’s dad?

AIBU to want to be buried at sea? It looks like fun!

x2boys · 09/11/2023 17:32

Jack.Geller
I met a guy called Ken Adams and he told about the time he went hiking in western Europe
It made me fall for him and one thing led to another
I told my friend Rachel about it...

dapsnotplimsolls · 09/11/2023 18:25

x2boys · 09/11/2023 17:32

Jack.Geller
I met a guy called Ken Adams and he told about the time he went hiking in western Europe
It made me fall for him and one thing led to another
I told my friend Rachel about it...

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Phoebe

AIBU to say that the coffee cups might as well have nipples on them?

dapsnotplimsolls · 09/11/2023 18:27

Ok, just read it more carefully - not Phoebe!

dapsnotplimsolls · 09/11/2023 18:34

Irene!

LittleBear21 · 09/11/2023 20:05

Yellownotblue · 09/11/2023 00:17

Oops, wrong quote. Joey doesn’t share food!

AIBU not to leave without my fish?

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Eddie! The rebound roommate

LittleBear21 · 09/11/2023 20:08

CloudsNeverStayTheyAlwaysGoAway · 09/11/2023 00:18

I like to dress up in ladies clothes and hats, drinking tea on the lawn and calling myself Bea. My friends won't dance around with me . My sister teases me about it. Who is being unreasonable here?

Ross

I am Bea, I drink tea, won't you dance around with me? 😆

AIBU to think this was totally inappropriate? My parents used to sing Baby Got Back to make me laugh as a baby. I didn't care at the time; but now I'm grown up I don't think it was right.

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 09/11/2023 20:39

Emma

AIBU to blackmail a tenant into teaching me to ballroom dance?
I recently found out that two women I know are illegally subletting a rent controlled apartment in one of their grandmother’s names. They are nightmare tenant anyway and when I called them out on their behaviour one of cried and their friend shouted at me. Am I being unreasonable to say the friend should give me ball room dancing lessons, or I’ll report them for illegally living in the apartment? I really want to impress a woman at the ball!

Maverickess · 09/11/2023 22:30

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 09/11/2023 20:39

Emma

AIBU to blackmail a tenant into teaching me to ballroom dance?
I recently found out that two women I know are illegally subletting a rent controlled apartment in one of their grandmother’s names. They are nightmare tenant anyway and when I called them out on their behaviour one of cried and their friend shouted at me. Am I being unreasonable to say the friend should give me ball room dancing lessons, or I’ll report them for illegally living in the apartment? I really want to impress a woman at the ball!

Mr Treeger (sp)

My new gf is a guitar player/singer/song writer and I got her a gig singing for kids, we were thinking nursery rhymes etc but some of the songs are........ Inappropriate! But although the parents don't like it at all, the kids love it! I don't think it's appropriate but I also don't want to hurt her feelings or disappoint the kids, WIBU to say something to her?

Yellownotblue · 09/11/2023 23:38

Maverickess · 09/11/2023 22:30

Mr Treeger (sp)

My new gf is a guitar player/singer/song writer and I got her a gig singing for kids, we were thinking nursery rhymes etc but some of the songs are........ Inappropriate! But although the parents don't like it at all, the kids love it! I don't think it's appropriate but I also don't want to hurt her feelings or disappoint the kids, WIBU to say something to her?

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Chris Isaac!

AIBU to also wonder, what ARE they feeding me?

x2boys · 10/11/2023 08:05

Smelly cat!
Im.a submariner,and spend most of my time under the sea I have recently resurfaced and about to meet up.with my friend with benefits but she has chicken pox!

LittleBear21 · 10/11/2023 11:52

x2boys · 10/11/2023 08:05

Smelly cat!
Im.a submariner,and spend most of my time under the sea I have recently resurfaced and about to meet up.with my friend with benefits but she has chicken pox!

Ryan

AIBU to be upset at how my new business is going? I've recently embarked on a new self employed career. It's something I'm really good at and feel passionate about. I just know I can make a difference doing this. Yes, sometimes my advice is pretty blunt; no, I probably won't remember my customers names; and yes, sometimes I'm going to recommend painful procedures. But this is what is needed to get results, and the younger you learn that the better. Honestly, it's like some people don't want to be told their babies are ugly!

x2boys · 10/11/2023 12:02

Amy Greene!
Aibu not to.date someone because they have a big head?

dapsnotplimsolls · 10/11/2023 17:45

x2boys · 10/11/2023 12:02

Amy Greene!
Aibu not to.date someone because they have a big head?

Chandler!

AIBU to say that the coffee cups might as well have nipples on them?

x2boys · 10/11/2023 18:43

dapsnotplimsolls · 10/11/2023 17:45

Chandler!

AIBU to say that the coffee cups might as well have nipples on them?

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Had to.cheat Roger
My friends son is in the same class as Stings son Aibu to.use his influence to.get tickets to see him.in concert !

Notts90 · 10/11/2023 19:33

x2boys · 10/11/2023 18:43

Had to.cheat Roger
My friends son is in the same class as Stings son Aibu to.use his influence to.get tickets to see him.in concert !

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Phoebe!

AIBU in thinking my gf shouldn't get annoyed when I shut down restaurants she likes? Even when I spot health violations?

GellerYeller · 10/11/2023 20:53

Larry the health inspector!
AWBU to be cute, we are doctors who are cute…

x2boys · 10/11/2023 22:19

The Drs from.ER?
Aibu it tell my girlfriend to.go.long in a game of American football?

Sellingbedtime · 10/11/2023 23:03

Ross.

AIBU to make a pass at my stepdaughters husband the day after their wedding?? I just think he is delicious!