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To be upset dentist said this about my teeth (pics included)

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Teethproblems · 02/11/2023 15:43

Hi,
Not even sure why I’m posting, just in case someone can help.
I have my NHS dentist (been with him for almost 10 years) who is absolutely brilliant and never had any issues with my teeth other than the odd filling, but no issues with the layout or structure of them. However I was also at a private dentist during the in between lockdowns when dentists could open but the NHS check up backlog was so long, so I went to a private dentist to get a check up. He was fab too, however he pointed out so many issues with my teeth and gave me a quotation of around 5k (bleaching, composite bonds and some kind of brace too), ever since then I’ve absolutely hated my teeth. He pointed out that I have a huge overbite or overjet (can’t remember exactly which one) and something to do with the layout of my bottom jaw being too far back and I could get surgery if I wanted to fix it. I said I’d never noticed it and he said if I take some side profile pictures I’ll see it. So I did, and ever since then, I’ve hated my face. My bottom jaw is so far behind my top jaw it looks awful. And when I smile it looks like my teeth are projecting forwards and sticking out. He said it’s a combination of 25 years worth of nail biting and just the layout of my jaw.

I had train tracks as a teen for the straightness and I’m fine with the straightness of my teeth now, but now I absolutely despise my face because of how ridiculous it looks having my jaw that far back and my teeth sticking out, it looks like I’ve got buck teeth. I don’t want to get surgery on my jaw either but ever since he said that I’ve never got it out of my head. Looking at my side profile, does it look so far from normal? Is it completely obvious that my bottom jaw is really far back and my top teeth stick out? When I went back to my NHS dentist and told him he was appalled and said it’s slightly lower back but not awfully so and he would never have flagged it as a problem, and obviously I trust him, but it’s so hard to stop feeling self conscious about it now

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Gatekeeper · 02/11/2023 15:45

I can't see any photos op?

iatealltheminieggs · 02/11/2023 15:49

I'd say it was in a private dentist's best interests to suggest you need a load of expensive work done. It doesn't mean you need it!

Crooklodge · 02/11/2023 15:50

Course the private dentist said it. He would get a fuck ton of cash doing the work. Stick with your lovely NHS dentist and let it go.

Teethproblems · 02/11/2023 15:50

Sorry, for some reason the photos wont attach! going to turn my phone off and on and try again

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Gettingbysomehow · 02/11/2023 15:52

What nonsense, they all do this in a bid to rob you of your money.

Just ignore it.

Themermaidspool · 02/11/2023 15:55

No pics! But who cares? I am a dentist and I have awful squiffy teeth and a class 2 malocclusion and I drink faaaar to much red wine and coffee. Only other dentists notice it and I don't give a rat's arse! You're focusing on this as a negative instead of a positive! It makes you who you are. He's Def quoting you for the Invisalign etc and that's ok because it's his job to do so! You don't have to listen to him! I bet with pics wed all say you were gorgeous anyway!

XenoBitch · 02/11/2023 15:55

I had no idea I had quite a cross bite until I saw a private dentist. He also tried to make a big fuss out of a teeny tiny chip on a corner of a tooth that I have had for years.

The private dentist is just praying on your insecurities to make money. It is disgusting.

Rosiiee · 02/11/2023 15:56

Aw i have an overbite and I hate it too but I did look into the surgery and I don’t think it’s worth it really. They literally break your jaw and reset it- it seems quite violent and a long recovery! I also feel self-conscious about it and I can’t wear lipstick because my lips don’t really align either.

Teethproblems · 02/11/2023 15:59

Think the pictures are working now. I’m happy with my teeth from the front- it’s just the side profile I absolutely hate now. It’s crazy because it’s not something I would have ever noticed before but now I’m paranoid about how it looks.

I knew I had a small jaw (i was told this when I got my train tracks) and I’ve got TMJ (my jaw cracks everytime it opens) but I didn’t realise quite how big the overbite/overjet is. Apparently it would need surgery and then braces afterwards to properly fix/align and I really don’t want that but I’m so paranoid of my smile and my face from the side now.

and although I’m happy with them from the front, Another thing he pointed out is that from the front my top and bottom jaw don’t seem to align or something like that because the middle of my top teeth isn’t in line with the bottom teeth, although this doesn’t bother me as much as the overbite/overjet thing

To be upset dentist said this about my teeth (pics included)
To be upset dentist said this about my teeth (pics included)
To be upset dentist said this about my teeth (pics included)
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snickersandmarsandbounty · 02/11/2023 16:00

Gorgeous teeth

littlebirdieblu · 02/11/2023 16:01

Your teeth are beautiful, if they were mi e id be delighted. Honestly they are lovely!

FeckArseIndusty · 02/11/2023 16:01

I have an overbite and hate it, but realised the resultant 'man jaw' I'd get from resetting would be far less attractive than less than perfect teeth.
Have been bullied for my teeth all my life, to me and my husband, most people I'm close to they don't even see an issue. But the horrible things I've had shouted in the street by anyone from high school bullies to wide boy thugs is amazing. You'd think I'm Quasimodo.

I just kind of think how could I look my children in the eye and say they're beautiful as they are, don't let the bullies get to you if I got anything done.

Just keep hygiene up and sort any problems that cause you pain.

TedMullins · 02/11/2023 16:01

A private dentist did this to me once as well. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your teeth or jaw, you look perfectly normal and have lovely teeth. They’re just trying to make as much money as possible!

SugarPlumpFairy3 · 02/11/2023 16:01

Oh gosh, I was expecting far worse! You have beautiful teeth (and smile). It sounds as though this dentist has picked up every tiny imperfection with the hope of you spending money to put it ‘right’. Appalling!

FeckArseIndusty · 02/11/2023 16:01

Your overbite is much smaller than mine.

KimberleyClark · 02/11/2023 16:02

Nothing wrong with your teeth. He’s trying to rip you off.

Pottedpalm · 02/11/2023 16:03

I wish I had your teeth! He is after your money.

WhereDoYouGo1 · 02/11/2023 16:04

Your teeth are lovely and from the side your smile looks very attractive. I wouldn’t even know that was an overbite.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 02/11/2023 16:04

He’s wanting a nice expensive holiday somewhere warm.

op you are lovely to look at and your teeth are making me quite jealous!

Fairtobefairohhhhhc · 02/11/2023 16:04

Op he's just out to get money from you. you look gorgeous and have wonderful teeth.

Ibravedaflood · 02/11/2023 16:05

Sounds like a scammer..

Ibravedaflood · 02/11/2023 16:06

Tell him if you wanted absolutely perfect teeth you would go to Turkey.. Yours are gorgeous..

Taylorswiftserastour · 02/11/2023 16:06

You've got lovely teeth! Think the private dentist is trying to rinse you 💰💰💰(and not with that weird mouth wash stuff)

WhereDoYouGo1 · 02/11/2023 16:06

Imagine having jaw surgery for a lovely smile and teeth like you have. That would be madness!

Merryoldgoat · 02/11/2023 16:08

Your teeth are fabulous.

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