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Am I the only person who thinks Victoria Beckham looked better in her early Spice Girl days...

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isittoolatetosay · 30/10/2023 23:39

...before all the weight loss, then she has since?

I don't get why she's so celebrated as a style icon for being skinny. She was lovely and had beautiful facial features in her early fame days

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whatweneedisweights · 01/11/2023 07:49

@NoNonsenseNelly you sound absolutely livid. Why are you so angry? Seriously? A whole day ahead of you and you want to start it like this.

Wow.

diol · 01/11/2023 10:25

isittoolatetosay · 01/11/2023 06:56

Lol at all of you. Her weight loss was in like 1999.

I think she looked better in 1995 before she skinnied herself into oblivion about four years later but you lot do you and please do take the opportunity to scream feminism while you call me fat and jealous.

Some of you need to take a long, hard look at yourselves.

I can't see the posts calling you fat, but that's unacceptable if so. However, you have wound people up somewhat with this thread then returning to 'lol'

NoNonsenseNelly · 01/11/2023 11:32

whatweneedisweights · 01/11/2023 07:49

@NoNonsenseNelly you sound absolutely livid. Why are you so angry? Seriously? A whole day ahead of you and you want to start it like this.

Wow.

Eh?

NoNonsenseNelly · 01/11/2023 11:33

Is that you op? NC fail?

fetchacloth · 01/11/2023 18:32

eurotravel · 30/10/2023 23:49

She's been a stick for years. No idea if stories of her eating very little & the same foods for years are true but if so it's very sad. Life is there to enjoy

I agree, enjoy life whilst you can.
Also stick women don't always age well in the face. Fine if you can afford the facelifts, botox and whatever, but not realistic for most.

BustyLaRoux · 01/11/2023 18:35

Not a very kind thread. Personally I think she looks much better now. But we all have different opinions on what looks good I guess. Maybe we shouldn’t be constantly scrutinising other women for the way they look. Calling her a stick is unnecessary. (Would it be OK to call
someone a blob if they were overweight?!) Calling her children basically failures because they didn’t get university degrees. Awful! A degree isn’t the be all and end all. I won’t be making my children go to university. Maybe they will have different/better plans. I went to university. I have not set the world on fire! She is a successful business woman and clearly a very strong and supportive family woman. Yes she has a personal trainer, home gym…you name it. I don’t begrudge her any of it. It’s sad how many people have nothing nice to say about her. So much scorn. So much judgement. Says more about our society than it does about her really.

Creepyrosemary · 01/11/2023 18:45

I think she looked stunning then and looks stunning now. Much better than me and most people that I know.

Yants · 01/11/2023 19:03

Not sure whether she has an eating disorder but she is clearly suffering from some form of psychiatric issue with regards to her utterly obsessive determination to never allow herself to be seen smiling in public.

I know plenty of women can have 'resting bitch face' but thats not the case with her, even in situations where it's entirely natural to smile she's obviously determined to not do so.

Ramalangadingdong · 01/11/2023 19:13

Bbq1 · 31/10/2023 04:39

She's not unwell though. It's a choice. Maybe it is her body etc etc but what about the messages she is giving her daughter? Or is it a case of her daughter so, raising her with an unhealthy relationship with food and her body is her choice too?

We don’t know if she is unwell. If she has an ED (and how are we to know?) then she has a serious mental illness.

ArethaQ · 01/11/2023 19:31

I think it's harsh mocking the sons for not 'having a degree between them.'

DarkDarkDark · 01/11/2023 20:22

ArethaQ · 01/11/2023 19:31

I think it's harsh mocking the sons for not 'having a degree between them.'

I agree - that kind of snobbery just doesn't go away. I was embarrassed for the poster who brought it up.

BustyLaRoux · 01/11/2023 21:46

DarkDarkDark me too. Shameful snobbery.

BustyLaRoux · 01/11/2023 21:48

Yants “clearly suffering from sort of psychiatric issue” because she doesn’t smile in photos. You sure about that..? My dad refuses to smile in photos. Is he clearly suffering from a psychiatric issue as well?

Scorchio84 · 01/11/2023 21:56

BackAgainstWall · 31/10/2023 00:03

Ffs, we all looked much better in the early spice girl days.

😂

I think she looks great now & I love her make up, just wish I could afford it more often 🙄Her look now is very "neutral" which is far better than the garish, not necessaarily just her but the rest of the 90's/2000's was very Footballers Wives

fetchacloth · 01/11/2023 21:57

ArethaQ · 01/11/2023 19:31

I think it's harsh mocking the sons for not 'having a degree between them.'

I agree, unnecessary really.
Besides a degree doesn't necessarily guarantee a good job these days anyway.

BarelyCoping123 · 02/11/2023 00:59

Some of you need to take a long, hard look at yourselves.

OP, given that you started and continued this thread with your appalling posts, I think you're the one who should be taking a long, hard look at yourself

Startagainjanuary · 02/11/2023 01:12

VB carried four healthy babies herself I respect her for this alone as she didn’t go down the surrogacy route. She’s rich and famous and has made the most of her opportunities and had a lot of hate for it. I respect her more each year and her eyeliner is the best.

Yants · 02/11/2023 06:53

BustyLaRoux · 01/11/2023 21:48

Yants “clearly suffering from sort of psychiatric issue” because she doesn’t smile in photos. You sure about that..? My dad refuses to smile in photos. Is he clearly suffering from a psychiatric issue as well?

Is your dad in the public eye as much as VB? How often does he get photographed, both with and without his consent?

For her to ensure she's literally never seen to be smiling regardless of the situation must take a huge amount of will power and mental energy from her, to the point where I'd say it is obsessive and all consuming.

I'd say a suitable description of a psychiatric issue is when something results in such obsessive, all consuming behaviour.

Yants · 02/11/2023 06:56

BustyLaRoux · 01/11/2023 21:48

Yants “clearly suffering from sort of psychiatric issue” because she doesn’t smile in photos. You sure about that..? My dad refuses to smile in photos. Is he clearly suffering from a psychiatric issue as well?

Is your dad in the public eye as much as VB? How often does he get photographed, both with and without his consent? As frequently as VB?

For her to ensure she's literally never seen to be smiling regardless of the situation must take a huge amount of will power and mental energy from her, to the point where I'd say it is obsessive and all consuming.

I'd say a suitable description of someone having a psychiatric issue is when they display such obsessive, all consuming behaviour.

BustyLaRoux · 02/11/2023 07:33

Yants you’re not a diagnostician (or are you? Is this your job perhaps?). She has decided smiling in photos is not for her. It’s just her look. She’s just posing for the cameras. She smiles IRL. I don’t think you can say with such “knowledge” that her behaviour is either obsessive, all consuming or indicative of some deep psychiatric issue. How do you actually know that for sure. You’ve just thrown some random generalised “diagnosis” out there with very little to qualify it. We should stop judging this woman. And all women. Stop scrutinising them. Stop the negativity. Stop judging her children. Her look. What she must eat. Stop diagnosing her with EDs or psychiatric issues. It’s nasty. It perpetuates the idea that woman are there to be judged. It is unhealthy and this thread and many of the people on it should be ashamed.

And yes her make up is really lovely. Both what she wears and sells.

ArethaQ · 02/11/2023 07:36

I think it's just part of her trademark, like Anna Wintour's sunglasses.

happinessischocolate · 02/11/2023 08:16

Yants · 01/11/2023 19:03

Not sure whether she has an eating disorder but she is clearly suffering from some form of psychiatric issue with regards to her utterly obsessive determination to never allow herself to be seen smiling in public.

I know plenty of women can have 'resting bitch face' but thats not the case with her, even in situations where it's entirely natural to smile she's obviously determined to not do so.

I've just googled Victoria Beckham smiling, there's plenty of photos, both posed and natural

Maybe you should do a bit more research before diagnosing someone with psychiatric problem 😂

Sartre · 02/11/2023 08:19

I remember David posting a story on Instagram mocking her for only ever eating fish and steamed veg. I thought he was taking the piss but then watched the docu and when he made the family Sunday dinner, she just had fish…

I think she looks lovely in both pics though fwiw, she is naturally slim although admittedly much slimmer now than she was in the 90s. Age can do that to some people though tbf.

Yants · 02/11/2023 09:05

happinessischocolate · 02/11/2023 08:16

I've just googled Victoria Beckham smiling, there's plenty of photos, both posed and natural

Maybe you should do a bit more research before diagnosing someone with psychiatric problem 😂

Yes there are various photos of her smiling when she was much younger in her early Spice Girl days... try finding one from the last couple of decades.

Maybe you should do a bit more research before making a bit of a dick of yourself.

VanityDiesHard · 02/11/2023 13:14

Creepyrosemary · 01/11/2023 18:45

I think she looked stunning then and looks stunning now. Much better than me and most people that I know.

You must not know many people. She isn't 'stunning' by any stretch.