To think its disgusting that dh used my towel

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Bought myself a new bath towel recently, a lovely pink fluffy thing, a treat just for me. Dh used it this morning, stuffed it into the wash basket, and went off on his way. So I took it out to get it straight in the washing machine only to find he'd really given himself a good scrub and left the evidence behind 😠Anger level 1-10?

Another poster admitting to walking around with a shitty arse all day? Fml. Boak.

Bum gun?

Wasn't there a thread recently about shitty stains on sheets? Surely there's not more than one gross bag leaving shit stains behind?

I cannot believe there are people gross enough to do this. This can't be real!

Maybe he needs a rear view mirror to help check?

Many years ago, I used to live in Married Quarters, and we had one of those angled mirror on sticks to check under the car.

We kept it in the downstairs loo (as that was easiest place to put it after checking the car on the way out) and my Dad thought it was for checking your bum was clean.

Best autocorrect fail ever whilst typing whilst cooking 😂

That's disgusting but it is just a towel. Wash it and I would buy him his own one in a different colour

Keep the towel in a safe place. It’s just become even more special. Because when you’re going through all of the really difficult and crappy things that come with divorce, you’re feeling really low and wondering whether you did the right thing, you’ve now got that towel to remind yourself that you absolutely did do the right thing by leaving. That alone makes it worth it.

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@Meeting Why do you wash the towel after every use…?

Treat yourself to another new towel (and bedding) when you're out.

Well where are we supposed to put them? In the microwave..?

If he’s regularly getting shit on towels, it seems he is incapable of wiping his arse properly when he shits.

Regardless, I think you can rescue the towel. I would put neat biological washing liquid on the affected area, let it soak for a couple of hours, scrub with a toothbrush and rinse in cold water. Once you have the stain out, then put it on the hottest wash it’ll take and tumble dry it. It’ll be hygienic and unstained.

Water bottles to dampen tissue. But I try to avoid defecating in public toilets.

Maybe he used it to clean his bum after a poo? Were you out of loo roll??

Is there something wrong with his bowels?

scrub with a toothbrush

His toothbrush?

@rasellagirl What is?

I mean..........The post title doesn't match the post. You should have said "used my towel as toilet paper"

Bday - up there with Chester Draws.

I wouldn’t mind, but mine washes his arse so I don’t suppose it’s the same.

Wait, so not only can he not wipe his arse, he also evidently can't wash himself? Grim.

Sounds like he did it deliberately

That is absolutely revolting.

My ex boyfriend was from a family of 6 children, and they didn't have their own towels - there would just be 4/4 in the bathroom and you grabbed the first one to hand. SO disgusting and unhygienic. His argument was 'but you're clean when you use a towel', unaware that a damp towel is a breeding ground for bacteria.
OWN TOWELS, even among close family. I have just had conjunctivitis and have even insisted on separate hand towels/tea towels for the kitchen.

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I saw the title and thought you were being overly precious. Then read the full post... fucking gross!

Like others have said, it's not about using your towel, it's about him being disgusting, and showing a total lack of respect for you and your belongings.

ExH used to trash my stuff, then act all hard done by when I was annoyed. It was definitely a symptom of bigger issues.

DP accidentally shrunk my sock the other day while he was doing the laundry. He apologised and went online to find a replacement (I stopped him, it's just a sock) But he cares and respects me enough that if something is important to me, it's important to him. He's also capable of wiping his arse properly, thank god!