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Not to feel sorry for David Walliams?

157 replies

TheSpikySpinosaurus · 18/10/2023 19:15

And to think that if he's going to be rude and indecent while wearing a microphone on set that you don't have an expectation of privacy?

And suicidal thoughts, my arse.

He's just sorry he got caught.

OP posts:
Thedogscollar · 18/10/2023 20:01

Always reminded me of Jimmy Saville. Something off with him.
Boo hoo I've lost a million. Not one grain of sympathy from me.

LuckySantangelo35 · 18/10/2023 20:01

What did he say about the contestants?

Boundoverbyacat · 18/10/2023 20:06

I'm pretty sure he has pulled other guys' trousers and pants down on stage, against their wishes. Vile man

he pulled a 16yr old child’s trousers and pants down and kissed his bottom on stage. He’s a sick fuck.

Trampley · 18/10/2023 20:06

Thedogscollar · 18/10/2023 20:01

Always reminded me of Jimmy Saville. Something off with him.
Boo hoo I've lost a million. Not one grain of sympathy from me.

I completely agree. Something very off about him.

Never liked him.

Tapasita · 18/10/2023 20:06

Meh. BGT was always a horrid show, with dubious morals and poor behaviour, a bit of a circus if you ask me. Never liked it, never liked the concept

Tiredmum100 · 18/10/2023 20:08

Ktime · 18/10/2023 19:26

Couldn’t have happened to a nicer guy.

In light of Russel Brand, misogynistic and sexist presenters need to be stamped out.

Edited

I agree!

bemorelemmy · 18/10/2023 20:10

It's not about money though- it's the feeling that everyone hates you- the feeling of being a social pariah. Friends ghosting, worrying if your kid's going take some flack. whether you agree with the punishment or not, surely we can understand why he might feel suicidal- and to mock that is pretty low.

re the contestant- female- (he said) "'slightly boring girl you meet in the pub that thinks you want to f* them, but you don't'." also he called an elderly contestant a cunt. i mean, so fkn what! i've called someone a cunt today- can't remember who- thank god there's no sanctimonious sound engineer around to send my life into a tailspin.

MrsTerryPratchett · 18/10/2023 20:11

LuckySantangelo35 · 18/10/2023 20:01

What did he say about the contestants?

"Cunt. She thinks you'd want to fuck her but you don't."

Vile, misogynist shit. And in classic fashion, is sad because he got caught, not because he said it.

Thedogscollar · 18/10/2023 20:11

@LuckySantangelo35 Google it. It was all over the Internet, on TV and in the newspapers.
He is not a nice person.

Antst · 18/10/2023 20:13

I don't feel even a little bit sorry for him. He's one of those men who thinks he's owed, who sees women as status symbols, and who bullies.

He reminds me a lot of certain men I work with, who are horrible to other people and make sure to give each other the best jobs, but then scream "depression" as soon as they have to deal with a setback or are called out.

BiscuitsandPuffin · 18/10/2023 20:14

bemorelemmy · 18/10/2023 20:00

going against the grain but there's something truly sinister about sound engineers (or whoever it was) leaking private conversations. Of course you're going to say off the cuff things during an entire day- you're not going to be fully on your guard- and you shouldn't have to be.
What he said about the female contestant was horrible but I'd argue that we all say nasty things- it's human nature to gossip and sometimes rather brutally if to friends.
Imagine someone told you they'd recorded everything you'd said today and intended to publicise it? I know I wouldn't be feeling very relaxed!

No this is definitely a you problem. I don't say anything out loud that would embarrass me if repeated, especially at work. I recommend it for an easy life.

And if a sound engineer hears a man making sexually inappropriate comments to a woman, they absolutely should report it. In this case, they're more likely to be believed than if the woman who was the victim hears and reports it (if she even feels able to, with the power imbalance). We really need to collectively cultivate a culture that makes sure this sort of shit doesn't fly.

QueenBitch666 · 18/10/2023 20:15

I'm trying to find the worlds smallest violin for this Creepy Scrofulous Sleezebag

MrsTerryPratchett · 18/10/2023 20:15

bemorelemmy · 18/10/2023 20:10

It's not about money though- it's the feeling that everyone hates you- the feeling of being a social pariah. Friends ghosting, worrying if your kid's going take some flack. whether you agree with the punishment or not, surely we can understand why he might feel suicidal- and to mock that is pretty low.

re the contestant- female- (he said) "'slightly boring girl you meet in the pub that thinks you want to f* them, but you don't'." also he called an elderly contestant a cunt. i mean, so fkn what! i've called someone a cunt today- can't remember who- thank god there's no sanctimonious sound engineer around to send my life into a tailspin.

I think you're talking bollocks but I was trying to work out why. Then I did.

I work in social housing. I have vastly more power, privilege and resources than anyone who lives in the housing. So if I called a tenant a cunt at work, it would be a horrible misuse of my power. If I still worked at a call centre and some awful caller with all the power called and was as terrible as they usually were, calling them a cunt is proportionate and actually OK.

DW is rich, in charge, and has all the typical markers of privilege. Him saying those things is additionally nasty because of that.

Plus, he's vile.

Tambatamba · 18/10/2023 20:15

I've never liked him. Little Britain was always vile. It's obvious he doesn't like women.

happylittlesloth · 18/10/2023 20:16

Not sure he is asking for sympathy? Just money

Simonjt · 18/10/2023 20:16

Boundoverbyacat · 18/10/2023 19:47

Disgusting man. His kids books should be banned - they’re borderline racist and laugh at the fat, the poor and single mums. Trying to produce a generation of kids as ignorant as he is.

He can fuck off to the far side of forever

Yep. I’m pleased it has finally given producers an excuse not to hire him, sadly him being a sex pest wasn’t reason enough.

RubyBoozeDay · 18/10/2023 20:19

He is disgusting. I think his behaviour was one of the reasons his wife divorced him.

Spidey66 · 18/10/2023 20:22

Ktime · 18/10/2023 19:26

Couldn’t have happened to a nicer guy.

In light of Russel Brand, misogynistic and sexist presenters need to be stamped out.

Edited

After the RB allegations came to light, i thought at the time Walliams would be next,

MouseMinge · 18/10/2023 20:23

The thing is anyone who's worked in television for any length of time knows that when you're mic is on everything you say is heard and recorded. If you don't want what you're saying to be heard and recorded you turn your mic off. He thought that because he is the big I am he could say anything and nothing would come back to bite him.

I'm sure the others say some nasty stuff too although I'm guessing nothing as nasty as he said but my guess is that they treat the crew well and he doesn't. That the others are liked and he isn't hence the leak. He deserved it. I hope the rest of the skeletons are out of the closet soon because he really is a vile little shit.

PitySheWasAWhore · 18/10/2023 20:25

The fact this carbuncle on the scrotum of humanity ever thought he was 'edgy' or 'funny' is the funniest thing I've read all day.

LuckySantangelo35 · 18/10/2023 20:25

MrsTerryPratchett · 18/10/2023 20:11

"Cunt. She thinks you'd want to fuck her but you don't."

Vile, misogynist shit. And in classic fashion, is sad because he got caught, not because he said it.

@MrsTerryPratchett

absolutely. Disgusting misogynist.

ArcticBells · 18/10/2023 20:28

He's creepy and deserves all that comes to him

Emotionalsupportviper · 18/10/2023 20:29

Totalwasteofpaper · 18/10/2023 19:32

He has always come across as a creepy perv.
So much so I thought he was credible as the mystery celeb before Russell brand story broke.

Agree it couldn't have happened to a nicer guy....

Same here, to all your post.

He's always struck me as being a very unpleasant individual, and I also thought it was him who was going to be named, not RB.

Trampley · 18/10/2023 20:29

Deserves just as much sympathy as Lawrence Fox.

bemorelemmy · 18/10/2023 20:30

I get it, I'm in a minority of one!
as I say, it's just something unsavoury about leaking it all
by all means escalate to managers - I don't dispute the power imbalance- but if we publicised the ramblings of everyone we consider vile, thereby ruining their lives, there'd be no-one left.
I'll say again- he has a child- they'll google this and see a tonne of pure conjecture amid the genuine (albeit leaked) quotes "something off about him"- intimations of sexual assault.
@BiscuitsandPuffin you don't say anything out loud that could be used against you- ever?- not to good friends in the pub, not to a close colleague at work? wow!

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