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You shouldn't be driving to the office when there will be a red weather warning

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mandydandy · 18/10/2023 16:29

We are in the north east of Scotland. Tomorrow is supposed to be an Amber weather warning for wind and rain most of the day. Later it will apparently be even worse and turning to a red weather warning.
I suggested to my DH that he should maybe work from home tomorrow.
However, his bosses have said they need everyone in the office for a big project. Not likely to get home before the weather warning goes red either.
DH has to drive a pretty awful road to get home. Any other routes would have even more trees and are really twisty.
Surely they should work from home if the weather is going to be that bad?

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JenniferBooth · 18/10/2023 20:11

Jesus some employers really couldnt give a fuck about their employees.

PabloandGustheGreySquirrels · 18/10/2023 20:12

Look after yourselves op. Stand in front of the door if you have to or hide his keys!

Also please report back on how the weather turns out. I'm curious now

SkinnyMalinkyLankyLegs · 18/10/2023 20:27

Coolblur · 18/10/2023 18:37

I know what you're saying OP, but many have to travel because they work in jobs that can't be done from home or just shut down for the day.
I think perhaps your DH's employer should consider working on the project on Teams or similar if possible for the day

I'm a nurse, I'm based in the Angus area and I have to travel to work. However that's different, I do have to physically be there, there isn't any option to WFH for me (I'm based on a ward). I agree with your Teams suggestion, it doesn't sound like it would be unreasonable to let OPs DH work from home.

OP, he's just going to have to say no, sorry, I'm not prepared to go against official advice and travel in this weather. Happy to do whatever from home and stay logged into teams all day but I won't be physically present in the office.

Gottaworkwhatever · 18/10/2023 20:29

Sawaranga · 18/10/2023 20:01

What do you do @Gottaworkwhatever ?

I’m a surgeon, a very disillusioned one! I have a list, I can’t not go in. I won’t not go in. Will it be appreciated? No. Will the NHS care about my safe journey or the fact that I have to leave my family? No.
As someone upthread said, no job is worth it

Sawaranga · 18/10/2023 20:31

I hope you get in and home safely tomorrow and Friday. It's bloody awful.

Anyone who can stay off the roads and WFH should stay off the roads and stop being so bloody stupid.

Gottaworkwhatever · 18/10/2023 20:31

why is the safety of health workers worth less than anyone else’s?

SkinnyMalinkyLankyLegs · 18/10/2023 20:33

Barnabyagain · 18/10/2023 18:33

Yikes - we are planning on driving from Skye to edinburgh tomorrow. None of the route takes us through Angus and Aberdeenshire, but amber routes a plenty. Need to be back in edinburgh for work - but this thread making me wonder if should try and postpone?? I don’t know the area at all. Anyone got any advice? Sorry to derail thread

Please don't travel, postpone if possible.

Longlive · 18/10/2023 20:34

We are heading from Wiltshire to Knutsford tomorrow, then Knutsford to Stirling on Friday morning.

DS and DDIL are heading Oxford to Stirling overnight Friday, can anyone tell me how bad it's likely to be then please.

TheLovleyChebbyMcGee · 18/10/2023 20:34

Or leave now?

Gottaworkwhatever · 18/10/2023 20:35

If you’re driving for pleasure/ social. I wouldn’t

SkinnyMalinkyLankyLegs · 18/10/2023 20:35

Gottaworkwhatever · 18/10/2023 20:31

why is the safety of health workers worth less than anyone else’s?

It always seems to be the case and we get no more thanks for putting ourselves at risk and carrying on as usual.

BCCoach · 18/10/2023 20:38

This is what a read weather warning means. The Met Office don’t issue one lightly and when they do they really aren’t fucking around. He should refuse to travel in as his job is (I presume) non-essential.

You shouldn't be driving to the office when there will be a red weather warning
Gottaworkwhatever · 18/10/2023 20:39

SkinnyMalinkyLankyLegs · 18/10/2023 20:35

It always seems to be the case and we get no more thanks for putting ourselves at risk and carrying on as usual.

We get less!!

mandydandy · 18/10/2023 20:39

Moved the bins round to the garage. My mum is in a real flood risk area. They have flooded several times so I'm away to help them move as much as they can to the upstairs.
The council has delivered sandbags.
The cats are being annoying because they want out but I want to keep them in.
DH has told his boss that either he works from home tomorrow or he will take a days holiday. He is supposed to be off next week anyway so it would just be moving things forward.
I'm hoping that the storm quickly moves out to sea.
Hopefully it won't be as bad for Laurencekirk as predicted.

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pollyglot · 18/10/2023 20:40

Some years ago, in Hertfordshire, a severe weather warning was issued and all local government workers were sent home by 2 pm. I was concerned about the risks of being stuck in my workplace (a day/boarding school) and requested that the head close the school and allow early release of staff and kids. Denied. By school closing time (5 pm), the snow was lying thick and a blizzard was blowing. Parents were not informed of what the school was doing, and many were stuck on the roads trying to pick up kids. I set off home, but after being stuck in the snow-bound traffic for hours and chilled to the bone, managed to make it back to the school. The head had buggered off to his warm and cosy house adjacent to the school, and chaos reigned. Half of the staff and a number of kids needed to be fed and accommodated. Not enough beds, insufficient food, no means of soaking contacts, no heavy-duty sanitary products or change of underwear. Not the head's problem, apparently. Never ignore weather warnings.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 18/10/2023 20:42

Well done to your dh Mandy. Sensible man.

EvilElsa · 18/10/2023 20:44

Years ago I had a boss who insisted I come in when the forecast was heavy snow. Duly went and kept an eye on what was happening outside. I had to put my foot down when it started absolutely belting down and even then she was bitching and moaning about me leaving. Took me NINE HOURS to get the 8 miles home in the end including having to leave my car on the outskirts of our village and hike though the snow. Hope your DH boss sees sense!

Gottaworkwhatever · 18/10/2023 20:45

I hope my boss does too!!

carddino · 18/10/2023 20:48

Gah. Management sometimes is so crap. Beast from the east. I was a new partner, first female.
Emailing round. Let's close tomorrow (Friday) transfer phones tonight, put something in place.

Was shouted out the door. A week later we were back.

Kweenbee · 18/10/2023 20:51

Some bosses are utter twats and on a constant bloody power trip (more and more of them these days, I genuinely don't know where they're being manufactured, if I did I'd probably sabotage the factory). Those of you in medical, education jobs etc, it's appalling how little employers care these days. Anyone remember the days when accommodation would often have been available on site for you?

SoAndSoSaidSo · 18/10/2023 20:59

We're working from home the next 2 days. Luckily it was not an issue, we were just told.

BelleSauvage9 · 18/10/2023 21:15

Totally off topic sorry but just curious - hockerill @pollyglot ??

PickAChew · 18/10/2023 21:24

Gottaworkwhatever · 18/10/2023 20:29

I’m a surgeon, a very disillusioned one! I have a list, I can’t not go in. I won’t not go in. Will it be appreciated? No. Will the NHS care about my safe journey or the fact that I have to leave my family? No.
As someone upthread said, no job is worth it

Unless your patients are needing emergency or time critical surgery, I expect many of them would rather not travel in such dangerous conditions, either.

NamelessNancy · 18/10/2023 21:32

@Gottaworkwhatever I also do a job I have to be physically present for and involves emergency work. I understand your frustration. That said neither you nor I benefit from people who could usefully WFH being forced into the office when conditions are dangerous. In fact I'd go so far as to say I'd feel safer travelling on the roads in dangerous conditions knowing that as many as possible were keeping off them and out of my way.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 18/10/2023 21:35

OnlyFannys · 18/10/2023 17:00

Personally I would refuse to.travel in any red weather warnings. I'm not risking my life for the whims of a manager on a power trip

Absolutely this. Does he have two years' service? If so, I'd tell the boss he's not going in.

It's more difficult with less than two years' service as there is no protection against unfair dismissal. This is why there should be day one protection in my view, to stop this sort of nonsense.

Red warnings mean stay at home unless your job is critical.

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