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DP has messed up the painting and thinks I'm over reacting for being annoyed

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Wouldyoube · 16/10/2023 21:53

I bought a tin of paint for the living room wall, a dark green (bottle green from dunelm to be precise) in a matt finish. My existing (magnolia) paint job is completely flat with no shine at all as was intended.

I opened the tub and took a tiny bit from the top of the lid onto a cutting in brush, in front of him, and did a little 2 x 2 patch just to make sure I was happy with the colour before he started. I was.

Long story short he didn't bother to mix the paint or even read the tin (even though I had already told him the type I wanted and the type I bought)

2 coats later the job is done and after drying every square inch of the wall has a shiny sheen, the opposite to matt.

Confused, I looked online and the verdict was that the paint can't have been mixed properly so I asked him if he'd mixed it and he said no, I asked why not and he finally said "I thought you did"

When was I supposed to have mixed the paint? I think he's just saying that to avoid owning the mistake anyway.

He got really defensive and said I'm over reacting by being annoyed, why would he need to read the tin before starting, there's nothing wrong with it, he has never heard of "shiny" paint being a problem and it's not as if the wall is crumbling down (?)

But am I being unreasonable to be annoyed? I have a hospital appointment on Thursday which I'm quite worried about so may be a bit more touchy than usual, I don't know.

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Wouldyoube · 19/10/2023 17:27

If you are very particular about colour and finish I would paint it yourself

Yeah, that might be a bit difficult right now as I'm in hospital, bed bound and 6 hours post major surgery.

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Choccie92 · 19/10/2023 19:21

some of these responses are harsh and makes me feel sad :(. My friend carried out getting her house done up after being told she had six months max to live and had two young kids and a big family. And clearly other more important things on. Not everyone forgets about all the little problems just because they have a bigger one, in fact a coping mechanism is often focusing on the things you can fix. Please be kind you don’t know what other people may be going through.

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