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There is no Southern Ireland

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Needeyebrows · 13/10/2023 21:34

So sick of hearing people say say Southern Ireland when referring to anywhere outside of Northern Ireland. Any place outside of Northern is the Republic of Ireland. We do not have southern Ireland..

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OliveToboogie · 14/10/2023 20:30

My dad from Donegal. They call it The Republic of Ireland .

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:31

Why is anyone using an Irish word speaking English?
Well exactly @Shopgirl1

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:34

Shopgirl1 · 14/10/2023 20:30

Why is anyone using an Irish word speaking English?
Just call Ireland Ireland when speaking English.…

What? Are you saying why is an english speaking person speaking Irish? Maybe they want to learn the language.

Also a lot of people who live in England have Irish parents, so maybe they want to learn the language for that reason

Why did you do french or German at school in Ireland . People learn other languages

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:34

Nice try @Mooshamoo

Splitscreened · 14/10/2023 20:35

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:29

Shh @Splitscreened we need a breather

You are right, as ever @JaneJeffer. Beidh mé ciúin.

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:36

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:31

Why is anyone using an Irish word speaking English?
Well exactly @Shopgirl1

That makes no sense whatsoever.

People from one country learn and use other languages. And most people never get them perfectly right.

I recently went to France with my friend who goes to adult french classes once a week. We were walking round france and she was trying out the language. She definitely butchered a lot of words, but the local french people were happy she tried

Doteycat · 14/10/2023 20:38

Do not mention the word Try.

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:38

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:34

Nice try @Mooshamoo

Nice try?

She said "why is anyone using an Irish word speaking English".

That makes no sense whatsoever.

What does she even mean by that.

That people in England shouldn't speak Irish at all? Why? We in Ireland learn and speak German and french

Shopgirl1 · 14/10/2023 20:39

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:34

What? Are you saying why is an english speaking person speaking Irish? Maybe they want to learn the language.

Also a lot of people who live in England have Irish parents, so maybe they want to learn the language for that reason

Why did you do french or German at school in Ireland . People learn other languages

No, that’s not what I am saying. I think you need to read back over the thread. If people want to learn Irish they are welcome to. But if speaking English, then the country is called Ireland.

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:40

I was just talking about the rugby @Mooshamoo <innocent face> and oh yes the English have historically been very interested in learning Irish haven't they? How could that have slipped my mind.

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:42

Doteycat · 14/10/2023 20:38

Do not mention the word Try.

How about now?

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:43

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:40

I was just talking about the rugby @Mooshamoo <innocent face> and oh yes the English have historically been very interested in learning Irish haven't they? How could that have slipped my mind.

Only the poshos like rugby @JaneJeffer ! 😂 No one I know is watching it, except my one friend that went to a very posh private school. You must be posh!

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:43

I am exceedingly posh @Mooshamoo just ask my butler

Shopgirl1 · 14/10/2023 20:43

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:38

Nice try?

She said "why is anyone using an Irish word speaking English".

That makes no sense whatsoever.

What does she even mean by that.

That people in England shouldn't speak Irish at all? Why? We in Ireland learn and speak German and french

Not sure why it’s so confusing for you. When I speak German, I refer to Deutschland, but when speaking English, it’s Germany. When speaking Spanish I refer to España, but when speaking English, it’s Spain. The same concept applies with Ireland.

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:45

Shopgirl1 · 14/10/2023 20:43

Not sure why it’s so confusing for you. When I speak German, I refer to Deutschland, but when speaking English, it’s Germany. When speaking Spanish I refer to España, but when speaking English, it’s Spain. The same concept applies with Ireland.

But we can mix in and out of languages.

Again it's not something in any way to get offended about.

I work with a German man. He wouldnt give a shit if I said Germany or deutschland.

We need to not be perpetually offended at things in Ireland.

Doteycat · 14/10/2023 20:45

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:42

How about now?

NOW YOURE TALKING !!!!!

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:46

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:43

I am exceedingly posh @Mooshamoo just ask my butler

Well Jane ! You are funny

JaneJeffer · 14/10/2023 20:46

@Doteycat ☘️

Shopgirl1 · 14/10/2023 20:52

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:45

But we can mix in and out of languages.

Again it's not something in any way to get offended about.

I work with a German man. He wouldnt give a shit if I said Germany or deutschland.

We need to not be perpetually offended at things in Ireland.

I don’t think “we” are perpetually offended at things in Ireland, we are actually pretty easy going.

LizzieAnt · 14/10/2023 20:57

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 14/10/2023 20:17

You're missing the point. She is teaching them to use the accents correctly. She is saying that if people make a mistake in Spanish and get it wrong, no one gets offended.

Thank you. It's the assumption that people must be deliberately getting things wrong in order to cause offence that I find sad. And the extreme vitriol when there are gaps in people's knowledge about certain things. I guess I'm used to teaching people things without getting angry that they didn't already know them.

There is no assumption people are deliberately getting things wrong. I haven't seen any extreme vitriol on this thread or in real life. When people have said Southern Ireland to me I understand why (as I said upthread). I don't challenge or embarrass them.
I suppose I do wonder why you are questioning what people are saying on here? Most people are making simple mistakes because they've never heard of any preferred usage. But it's a bit different in your case - the reasons behind the preferred use of Ireland as the country name have been explained on this thread a few times now but you still say you don't understand and I'm not sure why.
Half-time @JaneJeffer 😉

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 14/10/2023 20:58

All I was trying to say was that there is normally nothing inherently bad, offensive or even that odd about using a country's own name for itself even if you do not speak that language. And nothing offensive about making genuine errors with accents. So anyone who is not aware of the politically-loaded nature of the name Éire might be pretty confused at the strong insistence on the English name being used. Maybe you find that lack of knowledge as unacceptable as deliberate offence though.

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:59

LizzieAnt · 14/10/2023 20:57

There is no assumption people are deliberately getting things wrong. I haven't seen any extreme vitriol on this thread or in real life. When people have said Southern Ireland to me I understand why (as I said upthread). I don't challenge or embarrass them.
I suppose I do wonder why you are questioning what people are saying on here? Most people are making simple mistakes because they've never heard of any preferred usage. But it's a bit different in your case - the reasons behind the preferred use of Ireland as the country name have been explained on this thread a few times now but you still say you don't understand and I'm not sure why.
Half-time @JaneJeffer 😉

A lot of people in Ireland definitely don't speak Irish fluently or perfectly.

So if we don't, why do we expect others to.

No one I know in ireland ,bothers to learn Irish , or use it.

We all know that's true.

Gooseysgirl · 14/10/2023 21:00

YANBU, I always politely correct people when they say 'Southern'. It's rarely intentional in their part but I'm happy to clarify it for them!

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 21:01

LizzieAnt · 14/10/2023 20:57

There is no assumption people are deliberately getting things wrong. I haven't seen any extreme vitriol on this thread or in real life. When people have said Southern Ireland to me I understand why (as I said upthread). I don't challenge or embarrass them.
I suppose I do wonder why you are questioning what people are saying on here? Most people are making simple mistakes because they've never heard of any preferred usage. But it's a bit different in your case - the reasons behind the preferred use of Ireland as the country name have been explained on this thread a few times now but you still say you don't understand and I'm not sure why.
Half-time @JaneJeffer 😉

Ah leave her alone. She made a perfectly well made point.

People make mistakes in languages. We all do! Do you even speak Irish perfectly yourself?
Then why hold others to such high standards

Shopgirl1 · 14/10/2023 21:01

Mooshamoo · 14/10/2023 20:59

A lot of people in Ireland definitely don't speak Irish fluently or perfectly.

So if we don't, why do we expect others to.

No one I know in ireland ,bothers to learn Irish , or use it.

We all know that's true.

Whether we want to or not, we all learn Irish in school so not sure why you say we don’t bother to learn it.
Thats not really the point being discussed here though.