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To think we need to speak up

301 replies

BigBillyButterBollocks · 13/10/2023 08:59

Loud. Fast.

I don't want to turn it into a Hamas is responsible/Israel is responsible. I don't want to turn it into a debate.

It takes 3 to 5 days to die from dehydration. Probably less for babies. Being stuck with 2 million people also desperate for water is gonna turn ugly. Then there are the bombings, no food, the lack of medical supplies.

When a journalist asked if the electricity cuts would impact babies in incubators, he was shamed for supporting Hamas beheading babies.

When a journalist asked if the siege was a war crime, the impact on civilians and why did all politicians present the attack as Islamist attack against Jews without any context about the Palestinian cause, he was shamed for supporting Hamas and the atrocities that happened.

When a journalist asked if the siege was legal, that labour lady whose name escapes me kept on repeating a rehearsed message of "Israel has the right to defend himself".

They all seem to have gotten a memo that you deflect any question with shaming and bringing up the atrocities against Israeli children.

Atrocities happened in Israel. It sickens me and saddens me deeply. There is no excuse for it. But it can't be used to avoid talking about what is happening in Gaza. I feel we are being gaslighted into not asking questions.

I want to believe they are secretely working on a deal but I don't think they are. And time is not on Gaza's civilians side.

AIBU to think we should be making a lot of noise for our politicians to stop defending the Gaza siege and start speaking up about this? NOW. Not in 3/5/10 days?

It is haunting me at the moment. I can't focus at work, I can't sleep. What the fuck are we letting happen?

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dontbenastyhaveapasty · 13/10/2023 13:13

AmazingSnakeHead · 13/10/2023 12:47

I'm struggling with this narrative. Why are you all angry at Israel, and not Hamas? We all seem to agree that: 1. Palestine is not the same thing as Hamas. 2. Palestinian civilians should not be harmed. Some of us also think that 3. Israeli civilians should not be harmed.

Why is the solution not that Hamas releases the hostages (including babies and children), and then Israel stop the seige?

Perhaps the reason is that there is just 0 point applying pressure to Hamas because they just give no shits about what the West think, but that Israel only exists because of US support? So Israel WILL listen to the West, but Hamas won't?

Civilians should not be harmed, absolutely. It doesn’t matter what their nationality or religion. Everyone agrees with you that of course the Israeli civilians taken hostage by Hamas should immediately be released unharmed. Everyone agrees that the things Hamas militants did were evil and wrong and utterly repugnant.

But you missed a big and important step in the way you set things out above. A siege. Imposed on purpose by the government of a modern first world country, which will lead to suffering and death of civilians - possibly including the Israeli hostages who we’re all desperately hoping making it home alive.

The Israeli government had a choice in how to respond to the atrocities. The choice they have taken is to destroy a densely populated civilian settlement where half the inhabitants are children. This wasn’t their only option, and it’s (in my view) an utterly cruel and immoral thing to do, and cannot be justified. Governments are not terrorist organisations and are supposed to be bound by internationally agreed standards of behaviour.

frustratedinlaw · 13/10/2023 13:15

Another person who seems to want the UK to be world police. I want our politicians to stay out of it. It’s not our fight.

Dulra · 13/10/2023 13:15

WHO have said it is impossible to evacuate ill patients in hospital. They have said they are currently living under a death sentence.

Ireland has always been pro Palestinian for obvious reasons so I do think we are getting more balanced news reporting over here and hearing more from inside Gaza

Dulra · 13/10/2023 13:18

UNICEF also pleading for Israel to step back and give them a chance to save children's lives. Stating it's a breach of international law

Pollyputhekettleon · 13/10/2023 13:18

@AmazingSnakeHead Sure. The other problem though is that opinion polls in recent times show that many, if not most, adults there do support Hamas.

EasternStandard · 13/10/2023 13:18

Dulra · 13/10/2023 13:15

WHO have said it is impossible to evacuate ill patients in hospital. They have said they are currently living under a death sentence.

Ireland has always been pro Palestinian for obvious reasons so I do think we are getting more balanced news reporting over here and hearing more from inside Gaza

The BBC covers it

RedCrossSupporter · 13/10/2023 13:29

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I highly doubt that they’d attack and kill their rescuers.

Iwantitidontwantit · 13/10/2023 13:29

I don't know but agree we need to do something. I've written to my MP & cancelled my labour membership because of their unequivocal support of the war crimes Israel are committing. Its not enough, but I feel lost as to what we can actually do.

Freepo · 13/10/2023 13:29

Why is the solution not that Hamas releases the hostages (including babies and children), and then Israel stop the seige

Are you seriously suggesting that if the hostages are released Israel will simply call the whole thing off?

Even if that were remotely credible, the hostages won’t be released because of the siege and Israel knows that full well. Same way it knows you cannot evacuate that many civilians in 24h.

Freepo · 13/10/2023 13:31

Why is it those countries’ job? Should countries only take refugees of the same ethnicity and religion?

fioritura · 13/10/2023 13:32

The Palestinian Red Crescent Society in North Gaza:

”Despite the occupations threats to shell, the decision has been made. We have not and will not leave. Our medics will carry on their humanitarian duties. We will not leave people to face death alone.”

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Pollyputhekettleon · 13/10/2023 13:32

RedCrossSupporter · 13/10/2023 13:29

I highly doubt that they’d attack and kill their rescuers.

For people you feel so much sympathy for, you don't seem to be particularly interested in listening to or understanding them.

LifeExperience · 13/10/2023 13:35

Israel says it will turn on the power when Hamas returns the hostages. The humanitarian disaster is 100% the fault of Hamas.

BigBillyButterBollocks · 13/10/2023 13:35

Saudi, Egyptian, Algerian, Iraqi, Qatari & UAE statement:

"We do not accept the genocide targeting Gaza...if the bombing does not stop by 5 p.m. today, we will begin withdrawing our ambassadors from Washington, London, Paris & all countries supporting the Israeli war on Gaza"

Friday 13 October 2023, the West has lost the moral high ground forever. No matter those countries motivation, they spoke the words that need to be spoken.

The West is lead by little, weak, cowardly genocide apologists. I hope they end up one day in front of a tribunal for their participation in war crimes. I will never forget. I am absolutely fuming.

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BigBillyButterBollocks · 13/10/2023 13:36

LifeExperience · 13/10/2023 13:35

Israel says it will turn on the power when Hamas returns the hostages. The humanitarian disaster is 100% the fault of Hamas.

Hamas has 150 hostages, Israel 2 millions. They can both go fuck themselves to the deepest end of Hell.

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Pollyputhekettleon · 13/10/2023 13:36

Freepo · 13/10/2023 13:31

Why is it those countries’ job? Should countries only take refugees of the same ethnicity and religion?

Countries shouldn't take refugees from places where a majority of the population believes that country is allied to one which is at war with them, not only at war but engaged in a genocide of them. That's something only insane people do, which is why most western countries have done it for decades. Which in turn is why many Jewish children in the UK are being kept home from school today.

RedCrossSupporter · 13/10/2023 13:37

Pollyputhekettleon · 13/10/2023 13:32

For people you feel so much sympathy for, you don't seem to be particularly interested in listening to or understanding them.

I think your lack of sympathy for civilians in Gaza to the point you claimed
”Some of the refugees would try to kill the crew” if we tried to rescue some by ship would shows you have zero understanding and have not listened to their voices at all.

Tell me, how many RNLI and U.K. Coast Guards have been killed by Iraqi, Afghan, Syrian and Libyan refugees in all the channel boats they’ve rescued? Oh, what’s that? Fucking ZERO.

Refugees do not kill their rescuers.

LifeExperience · 13/10/2023 13:39

Your anger undermines your argument. Hamas surprise-attacked Israel. None of this needed to happen, but if you start a war against a superior adversary, this is the logical result.

BigBillyButterBollocks · 13/10/2023 13:40

LifeExperience · 13/10/2023 13:39

Your anger undermines your argument. Hamas surprise-attacked Israel. None of this needed to happen, but if you start a war against a superior adversary, this is the logical result.

War crimes are the logical results?

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Pollyputhekettleon · 13/10/2023 13:41

RedCrossSupporter · 13/10/2023 13:37

I think your lack of sympathy for civilians in Gaza to the point you claimed
”Some of the refugees would try to kill the crew” if we tried to rescue some by ship would shows you have zero understanding and have not listened to their voices at all.

Tell me, how many RNLI and U.K. Coast Guards have been killed by Iraqi, Afghan, Syrian and Libyan refugees in all the channel boats they’ve rescued? Oh, what’s that? Fucking ZERO.

Refugees do not kill their rescuers.

I don't engage in childish sympathy pissing contests. Actual Hamas supporters are available to you on twitter at any time and will be happy to explain to you what they'd do if given that opportunity.

EasternStandard · 13/10/2023 13:42

RedCrossSupporter · 13/10/2023 12:57

Egypt wants to send in humanitarian aid but Israel has been bombing the Rafah border crossing to prevent that. They have convoys of aid ready to go just across the border in Sinai. However, Egypt isn’t letting any people out of Gaza.

I think Israel will force Egypt to take all of the survivors. Strategically, they massed 360,000 troops on the northern border to Gaza, they bombed in a N to S pattern. Now that water, food, electricity and fuel (including for generators) have run out, they have announced for civilians to evacuate S towards Egypt.

This order includes everyone, even UN, Red Cross/Red Crescent and Press, and even injured in hospital/health clinics- that’s one of the reasons the UN has called it an impossible order. It is clear they are herding the Palestinians towards the Rafah border crossing to Egypt and will kill with little discrimination as they go because they’ve basically implied anyone N of the evacuation line in Gaza may be deemed a Hamas terrorist by saying it is for “their safety”. They might intend to keep pushing south in stages until Egypt lets people flee across Rafah.

Gaza will be a pile of rubble.

I fear this because the rhetoric coming from the Israeli government has been alluding to changing the Middle East forever- that often means wiping entire places off the map and redrawing borders.

I think Israel will force Egypt to take all of the survivors.

How would they force it? Egypt may well say no?

BMW6 · 13/10/2023 13:42

What war crimes? Have the UN declared that the Israeli bombing of Gaza is a war crime?

Who defines and calls it? You?

SnowflakeCity · 13/10/2023 13:43

BigBillyButterBollocks · 13/10/2023 13:35

Saudi, Egyptian, Algerian, Iraqi, Qatari & UAE statement:

"We do not accept the genocide targeting Gaza...if the bombing does not stop by 5 p.m. today, we will begin withdrawing our ambassadors from Washington, London, Paris & all countries supporting the Israeli war on Gaza"

Friday 13 October 2023, the West has lost the moral high ground forever. No matter those countries motivation, they spoke the words that need to be spoken.

The West is lead by little, weak, cowardly genocide apologists. I hope they end up one day in front of a tribunal for their participation in war crimes. I will never forget. I am absolutely fuming.

I feel you. I am incredibly angry and upset today. Those poor people. I just cannot understand how anyone could support it. I'm in Ireland so our government doesn't but seeing some of the most powerful countries in the world turn their backs, it's horrific.

I'm going to have to stop mumsnet for the day because it is so upsetting and infuriating seeing people justifying what is happening. There are no excuses for genocide. None. Ever.

BigBillyButterBollocks · 13/10/2023 13:43

AmazingSnakeHead · 13/10/2023 12:37

The good side?? Mate, this isn't a marvel film. Israel are not "the bad side". They have just had 1,300 people slaughtered overnight, including children, by a terrorist organisation. The military presence is to prevent further attacks from Hamas, and the other surrounding countries that have been urged to attack Israel in response.

Many western countries have urged restraint. Did you see Macron's and Blinken's speeches? Not the UK, in fairness. But equally, Israel have said that they will let aid in if hostages are released. Hamas won't, because they want the escalation.

I am sort of with you. I don't think that the UK government should support the siege, and I don't think that Israel should do... whatever they are planning to do to North Gaza in 24 hours' time. But I equally think that calling Hamas "the good side" is delusion at best, and terrorism support at worse.

The good side is refusing to participate in a war crimes that consists of cutting food and water supply to 1 million children. I will die on that mountain.

Mate...

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AmazingSnakeHead · 13/10/2023 13:44

BMW6 · 13/10/2023 13:42

What war crimes? Have the UN declared that the Israeli bombing of Gaza is a war crime?

Who defines and calls it? You?

The UN have told Israel to rescind the order to relocate out of North Gaza on the grounds that it is impossible, and would have disastrous consequences.