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I understand why they are so set on destroying Hamas

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FebruaryOnMyMind · 12/10/2023 14:10

Having seen the stories of the women and girls raped at the festival (reportedly over their dead friends bodies) and the people taken off as hostage; I understand why Israel want to destroy Hamas. They have said that Hamas militants are dead men. They have said that they will go after them. The worst killing of Jewish people since the Holocaust and their 9/11 with death toll of over 1300 people.

The story of the women at the Music and Peace festival is here -

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12623023/Israeli-girls-raped-friends-bodies-Hamas-terrorists-carried-second-Holocaust-British-relatives-reveal-condemn-celebrated-atrocities-Gaza-Iran-London.html

Yet some people celebrated when the killings of Jewish people (they were from many different countries) at the festival was announced.

I feel sadness for everything going on in the middle east and for all the people who are innocent are are dying. Terrorists need to be stopped.

Hamas 'carried out a second Holocaust' in Israel British relatives say

Two British nationals, Noam Sagi and Sharon Lifschitz (pictured), spoke of how their elderly parents were torn from their beds and forcibly deported to Gaza by Hamas along with children

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12623023/Israeli-girls-raped-friends-bodies-Hamas-terrorists-carried-second-Holocaust-British-relatives-reveal-condemn-celebrated-atrocities-Gaza-Iran-London.html

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DownNative · 13/10/2023 00:01

Itllbefine6 · 12/10/2023 23:09

There is simply no comparison between Hamas and the IRA. The IRA had some standards - they would shoot you dead in front of your kids, but they wouldn't shoot your kids. They shot quite a few Catholic kids, but "only" in the knee caps. We know now that the British government were talking to them all along because they found the leaders intelligent and possible to have a rational discussion with. The Irish just aren't a very violent people.

Wow. Just wow!

What a way to blatantly minimise PIRAs brutality! Yes, PIRA were not as efficient at murdering people as their friends Hamas are....but PIRA did shoot kids! Deliberately.

An awful, horrifying example of that is Nivruti Islania who was just six months old when she was shot in the head by the IRA while in her father's car in West Germany in 1989.

Other kids were murdered by PIRA, including via bombings. Again, deliberately.

A Catholic child called Bernard Teggart, 15-year-old boy said to have a mental age of an eight or nine-year-old, was abducted from St Patrick's Training School in west Belfast in 1973. He was shot in the head by PIRA. His father Danny had been shot dead by the Parachute Regiment in Ballymurphy in 1971, along with 10 others.

PIRA also forced people to become human bombs. In October 1990, Patsy Gillespie was abducted from his home by the IRA. His family were told he would be back soon, while being held at gunpoint. Patsy was then chained to the driver’s seat of a van filled with explosives and forced at gunpoint to drive that van to a nearby Army base. The IRA then remotely detonated the bomb, killing Patsy and five soldiers.

I don't know how you had the GALL to claim PIRA "had some standards" and that they "wouldn't shoot your kids"!

As for the British Government talking to PIRA, no they didn't find PIRA reasonable at all in 1972 or the rest of the 1970s!

In fact, talks only produced a political settlement when PIRA was defeated. PIRA rejected Sunningdale 1973 and Anglo-Irish Agreement 1985 yet accepted Belfast Agreement 1998 which had many of the SAME provisions as the earlier ones PIRA said no Republican or Nationalist could accept! They ended up accepting the same bloody conditions as available in 1973.

No, a terrorist group must be defeated before political settlements can be achieved.

IslaWinds · 13/10/2023 00:12

mollyfolk · 12/10/2023 23:47

Your view is not supported by human rights groups like Amnesty international or human rights watch whose researchers say that the “warnings” are not consistent and the knock on the roof thing is not meaningful when people are surrounded by sounds of war. The UN are pointing out that Isreal’s siege is against international law. Hence the large numbers of innocents that die when Israel attacks Gaza. I don’t think they care about killing children at all actually. Children are killed at the hands of Israeli military in the Occupied Palestinian Territories all the time all in the name of security.

The UN are pointing out that Isreal’s siege is against international law.

Yes, and not only illegal, but a crime against humanity.

“Besides this appalling language that dehumanises the Palestinian people, especially those who have been unlawfully “imprisoned” in Gaza for 16 years, we condemn the withholding of essential supplies such as food, water, electricity and medicines. Such actions will precipitate a severe humanitarian crisis in Gaza, where its population is now at inescapable risk of starvation. Intentional starvation is a crime against humanity,” the experts said.
https://www.ohchr.org/en/press-releases/2023/10/israeloccupied-palestinian-territory-un-experts-deplore-attacks-civilians

DownNative · 13/10/2023 00:20

EasterIssland · 12/10/2023 22:17

im basque so I know what ETA is and that’s why I feel so identified with people from Gaza. Thinking that the Spanish government could have wipe us out every time eta committed a terrorist attack if they had behaved like Israel is behaving at the moment. ETA(btw not sure where you’re getting that it was backed by Iran as this is only supported by Spanish far right supporters) or IRA were not destroyed and reduced by killing civilians by the government. The government directly attacked and fought against the terrorists and sat down with them to reach an agreement of cease of fire. At no point the Spanish militars were killing kids for fun in the Basque Country or kicking us out of our houses. There is two ways to approach a terrorist group (btw at some point decades ago Israel put cash on Hamas , what they were thinking about! ) and definitely the way Israel is approaching it is a war crime.

You might be Basque, but it's clear you don't really have much knowledge about the international terrorist network. After all, you had no idea Iran also backed ETA!

See my attachment which is from 1994. British intelligence spent a year tracking PIRAs links with Iran which also discovered the other groups the Iranians were supporting.

As for Hamas, I'm afraid you don't really know what you're talking about.

The UN states Hamas AND the Palestinian Authority use children as soldiers.

"Both the PA and Hamas routinely indoctrinate Palestinian children to aspire to martyrdom through armed confrontations with Israel. According to Palestinian Media Watch (PMW), “the PA operates a systematic and institutionalized policy and program to recruit child soldiers/terrorists.”

In its reports to the United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF) on this issue, PMW accused the PA of indoctrinating Palestinian children to admire and emulate terrorists and noted that “The PA openly admits, that the child terrorists are not acting in a vacuum, but rather they consider them to be the PA’s soldiers who the PA has sent to carry out a mission.”

The United Nations below:

"PA television (TV) broadcast quizzes children on songs with “value and meanings” which PA considers expression of Palestinian “national identity.” One of the songs depicts Israel as the “enemy” and encourages armed attacks: “I'm coming with my rifle… I'm coming towards you, my enemy… with cleavers and knives.” (January 2021).

• Official PA TV children’s program commemorated cartoonist Naji al-Ala, by sharing several cartoons encouraging violence among children, including one where Fatima (Palestinian woman cartoon character) presents an AK47 to Handala (the Palestinian refugee cartoon character) and one of her handing rocks to children. (August 2020).

• Fatah Facebook page promotes child soldiers by sharing video of Jordanian boy in military uniform holding slingshot and rifle. He wants to “shoot Jews” who killed terrorist Omar Abu Laila (killed Israeli soldier, stole his weapon and shot to death Israeli father of 12). (February 2020).

• Hamas TV children’s program interviews young children dressed in military fatigues. One child says he wants to be an engineer when he grows up “so that I can blow up the Jews.” The child host responds “Keep waging Jihad…when you grow up you will wage resistance against the Jews…” (September 4, 2015).

More from the United Nations:

"In addition, PA and Hamas educational programs routinely portray terrorists as role models and incite children to violence. For example, every year Hamas runs summer camps in which it trains children in military tactics and weapons use.

Likewise, summer camps run by Fatah and the Palestine Liberation Organization (PLO) teach children to venerate famous Palestinian martyrs like Abu Jihad, who was responsible for terror attacks in which 125 Israelis were killed.

Therefore, it is no surprise that Palestinian children perpetrate violent attacks against Israelis and participate in violent confrontations with the goal of harming Israeli soldiers and civilians."

There is absolutely NO doubt that Palestinian children ARE taught to hate Israelis. Even worse, they're TRAINED to murder Israelis!

I understand why they are so set on destroying Hamas
octaurpus · 13/10/2023 02:07

My mate at uni attended a very conservative Jewish secondary school, in Australia. The day after Bush invaded Iraq (in 1990) the entire student body were chanting 'Kill the Arabs!' The teachers did nothing.

I think there's been a pretty effective 'dehumanisation of the other' program operating for quite sometime among the children of both these populations.

Lastchancechica · 13/10/2023 04:57

octaurpus · 13/10/2023 02:07

My mate at uni attended a very conservative Jewish secondary school, in Australia. The day after Bush invaded Iraq (in 1990) the entire student body were chanting 'Kill the Arabs!' The teachers did nothing.

I think there's been a pretty effective 'dehumanisation of the other' program operating for quite sometime among the children of both these populations.

Would you kindly link that to some kind of evidence please? There is no way any Australian teachers stood by potentially with Muslim children in the class and did nothing. Nor can I imagine any child saying that in Australia.

Lastchancechica · 13/10/2023 05:13

IslaWinds · 12/10/2023 22:52

Please read a bit of history because Hamas have also repeatedly supported the two state solution to Israel and been refused.

In 2006 after the Gaza election, Hamas leader sent a letter addressed to George W. Bush where he among other things declared that Hamas would accept a state on the 1967 borders including a truce. However, the Bush administration did not reply.

In July 2009, Khaled Mashal, Hamas's political bureau chief, stated Hamas's willingness to cooperate with a resolution to the Arab-Israeli conflict, which included a Palestinian state based on 1967 borders, provided that Palestinian refugees be given the right to return to Israel and that East Jerusalem be recognized as the new state's capital.

In March 2012 Mahmoud Abbas stated that there were no political differences between Hamas and Fatah as they had reached agreement on a joint political platform and on a truce with Israel. Commenting on relations with Hamas, Abbas revealed in an interview with Al Jazeera that "We agreed that the period of calm would be not only in the Gaza Strip, but also in the West Bank," adding that "We also agreed on a peaceful popular resistance [against Israel], the establishment of a Palestinian state along the 1967 borders and that the peace talks would continue if Israel halted settlement construction and accepted our conditions."

March 2015, Netanyahu PM of Israel declared that a Palestinian state would not be established during his administration (he is still PM)

The 2017 Hamas charter presented the Palestinian state being based on the 1967 borders. The text says "Hamas considers the establishment of a Palestinian state, sovereign and complete, on the basis of the June 4, 1967, with Jerusalem as its capital and the provision for all the refugees to return to their homeland."

Between 2018 and 2019, Hamas participated in "the Great March of Return" along the Gaza border with Israel. The 2018–2019 Gaza border protests, also known as the Great March of Return (Arabic: مسیرة العودة الكبرى, romanized: Masīra al-ʿawda al-kubrā), were a series of demonstrations held each Friday in the Gaza Strip near the Gaza-Israel border from 30 March 2018 until 27 December 2019, during which a total of 223 Palestinians were killed by Israeli forces. In late February 2019, a United Nations Human Rights Council's independent commission found that of the 489 cases of Palestinian deaths or injuries analyzed, only two were possibly justified as responses to danger by Israeli security forces. The commission deemed the rest of the cases illegal, and concluded with a recommendation calling on Israel to examine whether war crimes or crimes against humanity had been committed, and if so, to bring those responsible to trial.

In 2021, after tensions escalated in Sheikh Jarrah and the al-Aqsa mosque compound in Jerusalem, Israel and Hamas clashed in Gaza once again. After eleven days of fighting, at least 243 people were killed in Gaza and 12 in Israel. https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2021/6/18/israeli-forces-storm-rally-in-support-of-prophet-at-al-aqsa

Public opinion has generally been in favour of a two state solution
“In a 2002 poll conducted by PIPA, 72% of both Palestinians and Israelis supported at that time a peace settlement based on the 1967 borders so long as each group could be reassured that the other side would be cooperative in making the necessary concessions for such a settlement.[59]

A 2013 Gallup poll found 70% of Palestinians in the West Bank and 48% of Palestinians in Gaza Strip, together with 52% of Israelis supporting "an independent Palestinian state together with the state of Israel"

Hamas did offer to stop attacks on civilians if Israel would do the same shortly before taking over Gaza and the Israeli response was to assassinate the Hamas leader that made the offer

”According to Tristan Dunning, Israel has never responded to repeated offers by Hamas over subsequent years for a quid pro quo moratorium on attacks against civilians'.[137] It has engaged in several tadi'a (periods of calm), and proposed a number of ceasefires.[137] In January 2004, Hamas leader Ahmed Yassin, prior to his assassination, said that the group would end armed resistance against Israel for a 10-year hudna.[l] in exchange for a Palestinian state in the West Bank, Gaza Strip, and East Jerusalem, and that restoring Palestinians' "historical rights" (relating to the 1948 Palestinian expulsion and flight) "would be left for future generations". His views were quickly echoed by senior Hamas official Abdel Aziz al-Rantissi, who added that Hamas envisaged a "phased liberation".[139] Israel's response was to assassinate Yassin in March in a targeted Israeli air strike, and then al-Rantisi in a similar air strike in April.[140]”

So what do you think of the Saudi led peace agreement that was very close to a peaceful resolution with Israel and the US before this happened? If Israel are not prepared to come up with a solution why were they there at the table?

Israel have been remarkably restrained given the provocation and the open racism and hate they have had to live with.

What would you expect to happen if a small fraction attempted such a thing in a nearby Arab state for instance? I can tell you now they would be blown to smithereens in less than 24h and that would be the end of it. Closed down immediately. That’s why you don’t see it very often.

I have spent a lot of time in the Middle East. Leniency is received as weakness. Death can be seen as martyrdom and we have to really understand the differences.

Perfect28 · 13/10/2023 06:09

@1jan2020 how can you say that 2.2 million people should be obliterated, what is actually wrong with you?

Itllbefine6 · 13/10/2023 06:46

DownNative · 13/10/2023 00:01

Wow. Just wow!

What a way to blatantly minimise PIRAs brutality! Yes, PIRA were not as efficient at murdering people as their friends Hamas are....but PIRA did shoot kids! Deliberately.

An awful, horrifying example of that is Nivruti Islania who was just six months old when she was shot in the head by the IRA while in her father's car in West Germany in 1989.

Other kids were murdered by PIRA, including via bombings. Again, deliberately.

A Catholic child called Bernard Teggart, 15-year-old boy said to have a mental age of an eight or nine-year-old, was abducted from St Patrick's Training School in west Belfast in 1973. He was shot in the head by PIRA. His father Danny had been shot dead by the Parachute Regiment in Ballymurphy in 1971, along with 10 others.

PIRA also forced people to become human bombs. In October 1990, Patsy Gillespie was abducted from his home by the IRA. His family were told he would be back soon, while being held at gunpoint. Patsy was then chained to the driver’s seat of a van filled with explosives and forced at gunpoint to drive that van to a nearby Army base. The IRA then remotely detonated the bomb, killing Patsy and five soldiers.

I don't know how you had the GALL to claim PIRA "had some standards" and that they "wouldn't shoot your kids"!

As for the British Government talking to PIRA, no they didn't find PIRA reasonable at all in 1972 or the rest of the 1970s!

In fact, talks only produced a political settlement when PIRA was defeated. PIRA rejected Sunningdale 1973 and Anglo-Irish Agreement 1985 yet accepted Belfast Agreement 1998 which had many of the SAME provisions as the earlier ones PIRA said no Republican or Nationalist could accept! They ended up accepting the same bloody conditions as available in 1973.

No, a terrorist group must be defeated before political settlements can be achieved.

I'm massively oversimplifying, of course. Don't get me wrong - I think PIRA are scumbag. But the people who wanted to terrorise had to keep predending to their recruitment pool that they were only after 'legitimate targets' or they wouldn't have had enough support amongst the local population. It's well know that the main reason for the peace process was that the various terrorist organisations had lost their grassroots support. Sure, It's frustrating to listen to deluded followers saying 'I'm so upset that bomb I was carrying went off early and killed those children', but people seem to really believe it.

Itllbefine6 · 13/10/2023 07:06

Also, for context, I was replying to a poster trying to claim "the British negotiated with PIRA so why can't the Israeli's negotiate?" Which is ridiculous. Nothing like the violence of what Hamas just did has happened in Ireland since the seventeenth century. I think we should save our condemnation of PIRA for the "PIRA bad" threads.

SurprisedWithAHorse · 13/10/2023 07:09

octaurpus · 13/10/2023 02:07

My mate at uni attended a very conservative Jewish secondary school, in Australia. The day after Bush invaded Iraq (in 1990) the entire student body were chanting 'Kill the Arabs!' The teachers did nothing.

I think there's been a pretty effective 'dehumanisation of the other' program operating for quite sometime among the children of both these populations.

Before I can accept that "both sides do this as much as the other", which is the clear implication, I'm going to need more than an account from octaurpus on Mumsnet whose friend in Australia claims to have seen kids shouting something in an obscure school 33 years ago.

Lastchancechica · 13/10/2023 07:35

What is obvious here is that many pp are very happy to corrupt the facts.

What did Hamas expect exactly when they ordered this massacre?

Alexandra2001 · 13/10/2023 07:42

Lastchancechica · 13/10/2023 07:35

What is obvious here is that many pp are very happy to corrupt the facts.

What did Hamas expect exactly when they ordered this massacre?

What Hamas have done is beyond evil but i do suspect this is exactly what Hamas wanted.

The expulsion of 1.1m people within 24hrs from North to South Gaza will lead to a huge death toll, either through the exodus of peoples or when the IDF go into Gaza.

Seems to me that Israel want to remove the Palestinians from Gaza, pushing them back either into Egypt or as far south as possible.

pleasehelpwi3 · 13/10/2023 07:49

StowOnTheWold · 12/10/2023 21:58

That is what is going to happen though. Hamas will be destroyed. Maybe perhaps Hezbollah.

Then perhaps parties can sit down to look at a two state solution. Because it needs the radicals including the Iranian regime to be out of the equation before 'the lion and the lamb can sit together'.

Isn't your valid post entirely circular?

The whole conflict has been circular since the 1940s

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You ll have to show me the evidence that IDF soldiers went into Gaza, raping beheading, torturing Palestinian civilians, women, children, machine gunning babies.

The awful violence now in Gaza is as a direct response to Hamas, they choose to attack a music festival, killing over 260 young people in the most barbaric way.

Had they not attacked Israel, then all the deaths in Gaza would never have happened.

octaurpus · 13/10/2023 08:08

Lastchanceechia and SurprisedWithAHorse You may not be able to imagine this incident taking place in an Australian school, but that has no relevance as to whether the incident actually occurred. Apologies it was '33 years ago' - I can't help my age! I was very close to this friend at the time (as a law student in the 90s), and for many years after. She herself was extremely disturbed by the anecdote she recounted. I said in my previous post that she attended a 'conservative Jewish secondary school' - all students were Jewish, so I'm not sure where pp got the idea there would potentially have been Muslim students in attendance. All teachers were Jewish. My friend and I were discussing the conflict, and as she was a brilliantly intelligent young woman from a deeply conservative Jewish community, and I was not, I was very interested in her perspective.

Some of these young people go on to do military service in Israel, as permitted by the Australian government.

FebruaryOnMyMind · 13/10/2023 08:11

Alexandra2001 · 13/10/2023 08:08

You ll have to show me the evidence that IDF soldiers went into Gaza, raping beheading, torturing Palestinian civilians, women, children, machine gunning babies.

The awful violence now in Gaza is as a direct response to Hamas, they choose to attack a music festival, killing over 260 young people in the most barbaric way.

Had they not attacked Israel, then all the deaths in Gaza would never have happened.

Indeed the poster conviently forgets the points you make.

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FebruaryOnMyMind · 13/10/2023 08:13

Lastchancechica · 13/10/2023 07:35

What is obvious here is that many pp are very happy to corrupt the facts.

What did Hamas expect exactly when they ordered this massacre?

Indeed I dont imagine Hamas thought that there were be no response.

Actions have consequences Hamas.

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Thisisworsethananticpated · 13/10/2023 08:14

like every war ever it’s a fucking mess

What’s worse ? Gang rape versus being crushed under rubble and a hospital with no power

Anyway noones winning here

andtheworldrollson · 13/10/2023 08:16

So the method of killing babies is more important than the fact that they are killed on both sides?

The UN seems to believe that war crimes have been committed by Israel's soldiers - and I don't think this is the first time in recent years this has been claimed - hey they are obviously the right kind of war crime

FebruaryOnMyMind · 13/10/2023 08:24

StowOnTheWold · 12/10/2023 23:12

I have read a number of articles which are more sophisticated than your reasoning.

Egypt closed its main border crossing because - following Saturdays event you must understand - both Egypt and Israel carried out deeper due diligence on Hamas' tunnelling network close to the crossing. Tunnels spring up very frequently to smuggle weapons so it is natural gain intelligence updates. By mutual acceptance, Israel bombed the tunnels but in order to protect lives the crossing was closed.

You just need to replace 'because' with 'allowing'.

Indeed. Hamas tunnel and are able to get weapons in as required, shame they don't use the billions in aid on food, medicines and to make the lives of Palestinian people better. Just more and more weapons. The 5000 missiles launched into Israel on the night of their massive attack are expensive. Hamas don't care who dies they are evil.

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octaurpus · 13/10/2023 08:08

Lastchanceechia and SurprisedWithAHorse You may not be able to imagine this incident taking place in an Australian school, but that has no relevance as to whether the incident actually occurred. Apologies it was '33 years ago' - I can't help my age! I was very close to this friend at the time (as a law student in the 90s), and for many years after. She herself was extremely disturbed by the anecdote she recounted. I said in my previous post that she attended a 'conservative Jewish secondary school' - all students were Jewish, so I'm not sure where pp got the idea there would potentially have been Muslim students in attendance. All teachers were Jewish. My friend and I were discussing the conflict, and as she was a brilliantly intelligent young woman from a deeply conservative Jewish community, and I was not, I was very interested in her perspective.

Some of these young people go on to do military service in Israel, as permitted by the Australian government.

You are trying to convince us that Jews routinely radicalise their children to be murderous towards Arabs based on your second hand account: something that you didn't witness that supposedly happened 33 years ago in an obscure school somewhere in Australia.

Try harder.

Pollyputhekettleon · 13/10/2023 08:43

pleasehelpwi3 · 13/10/2023 07:49

The whole conflict has been circular since the 1940s

No it didn't start in the 1940's. Long before that.

Pollyputhekettleon · 13/10/2023 08:45

andtheworldrollson · 13/10/2023 08:16

So the method of killing babies is more important than the fact that they are killed on both sides?

The UN seems to believe that war crimes have been committed by Israel's soldiers - and I don't think this is the first time in recent years this has been claimed - hey they are obviously the right kind of war crime

People are saying that the motivation for it matters. You do know that. That's why in normal life, someone who accidentally hits a child with their car may not be even charged with anything. Whereas someone who intentionally kills them will hopefully be imprisoned for life. This is the same difference, applied to groups.