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I understand why they are so set on destroying Hamas

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FebruaryOnMyMind · 12/10/2023 14:10

Having seen the stories of the women and girls raped at the festival (reportedly over their dead friends bodies) and the people taken off as hostage; I understand why Israel want to destroy Hamas. They have said that Hamas militants are dead men. They have said that they will go after them. The worst killing of Jewish people since the Holocaust and their 9/11 with death toll of over 1300 people.

The story of the women at the Music and Peace festival is here -

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12623023/Israeli-girls-raped-friends-bodies-Hamas-terrorists-carried-second-Holocaust-British-relatives-reveal-condemn-celebrated-atrocities-Gaza-Iran-London.html

Yet some people celebrated when the killings of Jewish people (they were from many different countries) at the festival was announced.

I feel sadness for everything going on in the middle east and for all the people who are innocent are are dying. Terrorists need to be stopped.

Hamas 'carried out a second Holocaust' in Israel British relatives say

Two British nationals, Noam Sagi and Sharon Lifschitz (pictured), spoke of how their elderly parents were torn from their beds and forcibly deported to Gaza by Hamas along with children

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12623023/Israeli-girls-raped-friends-bodies-Hamas-terrorists-carried-second-Holocaust-British-relatives-reveal-condemn-celebrated-atrocities-Gaza-Iran-London.html

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Baaaaaa · 12/10/2023 20:55

DottieMoon · 12/10/2023 15:09

You're very one sided, ridiculous and ignorant. Hamas and Israel government are both guilty of murdering innocent civilians, both murdering women and children. Israel have actually murdered more innocent Palestinian civilians than Hamas. Hamas are terrorists but although no UK media is not saying it, Israel actions should also be ladled as terrorism not defence. Of course there would be retaliation to the horrific actions of Hamas, but what Israel are doing is just as horrific. I feel for all the victims as a result of these two awful powers.

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I'm off the fence I'm afraid. No one is squeaky clean, but you must be able to understand the difference between civilians (human shields) getting caught in the cross fire in attempts to combat guerilla warfare, and targeting civillians deliberately, repeatedly and viciously.

The Israelis are between a rock and a hard place. Where are they supposed to go. Hammas are nutters.

They withdrew from Gazza at one point. Dismantled settlement, forcibly removed their own citizens. Didn't work

Itllbefine6 · 12/10/2023 20:59

Lastchancechica · 12/10/2023 20:54

I think it’s being pointed out that Israel have the backing of the worlds biggest super power backing them. They have access to warfare and resources.

Israel has the backing of the US so their neighbours can't succede in their aim of wiping them out. If my drunken, foul mouthed husband kept beating me up and raping me, am I privileged to have the backing of a women's aid centre and the police.

Itllbefine6 · 12/10/2023 21:01

Baaaaaa · 12/10/2023 20:55

I'm off the fence I'm afraid. No one is squeaky clean, but you must be able to understand the difference between civilians (human shields) getting caught in the cross fire in attempts to combat guerilla warfare, and targeting civillians deliberately, repeatedly and viciously.

The Israelis are between a rock and a hard place. Where are they supposed to go. Hammas are nutters.

They withdrew from Gazza at one point. Dismantled settlement, forcibly removed their own citizens. Didn't work

Yes, I was on the fence too, but withdrawing from Gaza hasn't worked. I'm guessing their plan is to retake it and strengthen their position in the region.

JustJess90 · 12/10/2023 21:05

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EasterIssland · 12/10/2023 21:07

Baaaaaa · 12/10/2023 20:55

I'm off the fence I'm afraid. No one is squeaky clean, but you must be able to understand the difference between civilians (human shields) getting caught in the cross fire in attempts to combat guerilla warfare, and targeting civillians deliberately, repeatedly and viciously.

The Israelis are between a rock and a hard place. Where are they supposed to go. Hammas are nutters.

They withdrew from Gazza at one point. Dismantled settlement, forcibly removed their own citizens. Didn't work

Unfortunately not all those killed by Israel were caught in the cross fire. Many of them were directly targeted and killed.

EasterIssland · 12/10/2023 21:10

Itllbefine6 · 12/10/2023 20:59

Israel has the backing of the US so their neighbours can't succede in their aim of wiping them out. If my drunken, foul mouthed husband kept beating me up and raping me, am I privileged to have the backing of a women's aid centre and the police.

In your scenario you’re powerless. But if the police had lend you a Kalashnikov then maybe … you would be more strong when your drunk husband was beating you. Israel has got the power to destroy Gaza, Gaza doesn’t have the power to destroy Israel or wipe out all the Jewish people

Lastchancechica · 12/10/2023 21:19

Itllbefine6 · 12/10/2023 20:59

Israel has the backing of the US so their neighbours can't succede in their aim of wiping them out. If my drunken, foul mouthed husband kept beating me up and raping me, am I privileged to have the backing of a women's aid centre and the police.

I think it’s okay to acknowledge the superior military resources Israel have whilst understanding the need for that protection, and appreciating this makes Israel safer and less at risk from those choosing to harm them.

Weddingpuzzle · 12/10/2023 21:19

StowOnTheWold · 12/10/2023 20:53

You are very naive to say:

All I can see is a misplaced 'Isreal have a right to defend herself' rhetoric that's helping nobody.

You clearly have no idea of the history of Jews. People always have a right to defend themselves. Particularly when there have been several diaspora of Jews over two thousand years. Romans, Visigoths, Ottomans, etc, etc. But you will at least have heard about Nazi Socialism?

And even today in the 21st Century there is State that wants to destroy Israel. It is the Iranian regime. More than 75 years after Hitler's death here we are again. Mass genocide against Jews.

Israel is not going to sit down with terrorists and paedophiles and discuss living together. That would be very misplaced.

I think you are naive to think that Israel can go ahead and break the rules of war and everyone will just nod their heads and agree with their actions. That is misplaced.

Hamas actions on Saturday were diabolical. Israel's actions since have been diabolical. Contravening statutory frameworks and conventions put in place to prevent genocide is illegal. You can't decry genocide in one population and be okay with it in another, it doesn't work like that.

StowOnTheWold · 12/10/2023 21:30

Weddingpuzzle · 12/10/2023 21:19

I think you are naive to think that Israel can go ahead and break the rules of war and everyone will just nod their heads and agree with their actions. That is misplaced.

Hamas actions on Saturday were diabolical. Israel's actions since have been diabolical. Contravening statutory frameworks and conventions put in place to prevent genocide is illegal. You can't decry genocide in one population and be okay with it in another, it doesn't work like that.

But I have never said those things you accuse me of. In fact those are your own words.

lillylovely1993 · 12/10/2023 21:36

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 12/10/2023 18:32

I honestly don't know where people are getting this from. Yes, there are some posts from pro-Palestine posters who don't seem to give a shit what happens to innocent people in Israel. But I have seen at least as many posts from pro-Israel posters who don't seem to give a shit what happens to innocent people in Gaza. However, the vast majority of people are capable of caring about human suffering on either side. Empathy for one community doesn't necessarily preclude empathy for another as well.

Personally, I have been really distressed by the images of the terrorist attack in Israel and by the heartbreaking testimonies of some of the survivors. As I said on another thread earlier, I had to pull over in the car yesterday because an interview with a bereaved Israeli couple whose son had been murdered upset me so much. I think any decent human being would have been appalled by the attacks at the weekend.

My horror at the atrocities in Israel doesn't make me immune to the suffering of innocent Palestinians though. And it doesn't convince me that Israel are right to cut off basic necessities from innocent people, including children, who have no power to stop the violence or even flee to safer territory.

It is possible to have compassion for the innocent victims on both sides, you don't have to pick a team. They are all just people as far as I'm concerned.

Exactly this ! Any innocent human being butchered or tortured is bloody shocking ,regardless of where you were born or what your religion is !
I personally am not watching the news because I don’t want those images in my head .

JustJess90 · 12/10/2023 21:46

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DownNative · 12/10/2023 21:51

Stompythedinosaur · 12/10/2023 20:21

The conflict was started by the UK in 1917 by the Balfour Declaration.

Inaccurate distortion of history.

The following excerpts have been taken from the United Nations website:

www.un.org/unispal/history/

"Palestine was among former Ottoman territories placed under UK administration by the League of Nations in 1922. "

You can see in this link which countries were members of the League Of Nations in 1922 when Palestine was placed under UK administration.

www.britannica.com/topic/League-of-Nations/Members-of-the-League-of-Nations

"UK considered various formulas to bring independence to a land ravaged by violence. In 1947, the UK turned the Palestine problem over to the UN."

Under British administration, Palestine was NOT partitioned, but you will often hear people talking as though it was!
So, we move on to the actual partition itself:

"After looking at alternatives, the UN proposed terminating the Mandate and partitioning Palestine into two independent States, one Palestinian Arab and the other Jewish, with Jerusalem internationalized (Resolution 181 (II) of 1947)."

As we can see, the partition of Palestine was not caused by the British Government alone.

The collective members of the United Nations made that decision.

"One of the two envisaged States proclaimed its independence as Israel and in the 1948 war involving neighbouring Arab States expanded to 77 percent of the territory of mandate Palestine, including the larger part of Jerusalem. "

The Office Of The Historian in the United States says the following:

"The Arab-Israeli War of 1948 broke out when five Arab nations invaded territory in the former Palestinian mandate immediately following the announcement of the independence of the state of Israel on May 14, 1948."

history.state.gov/milestones/1945-1952/arab-israeli-war

Whether you believe it was Israel or the five Arab nations who started the conflict, it is clear that the United Kingdom is not to blame for the partition as it didn't enact that plan.

Partition was a United Nations collective plan.

Personally, I would argue it was the FIVE Arab States who kickstarted the Arab-Israeli aka Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

BlurredEdges · 12/10/2023 21:51

Vintagecreamandcottagepie · 12/10/2023 17:38

What is the end game here?!?

Rightly or wrongly, and understandably heated opinions being given on both sides, what is Israel's objective?

How will this stop? When? What objectives need to be met for this siege to end?

They have said they will switch everything back on if the hostages are returned. It's not that complicated

pleasehelpwi3 · 12/10/2023 21:51

An Israeli peace activist, whose mother was killed by Hamas last week said this evening on Channel 4 news something along the lines of ' Do dead Palestinian babies make up for dead Israeli babies?'

By all means destroy Hamas, but without a fair and reasonable two state solution the cycle of violence that has been in motion since the foundation of Israel will continue.

Already it seems Israel has killed more civilians in its retaliation than Hamas killed last week. Is an Israeli life worth more?

SurprisedWithAHorse · 12/10/2023 21:53

By all means destroy Hamas, but without a fair and reasonable two state solution

A fair and reasonable two-state solution sounds great. Can someone tell Hamas and see what they say?

EasterIssland · 12/10/2023 21:54

BlurredEdges · 12/10/2023 21:51

They have said they will switch everything back on if the hostages are returned. It's not that complicated

Is this said by the same people that said “let’s treat them like what they’re … animals” ? Sorry if I don’t believe the Israel government

pleasehelpwi3 · 12/10/2023 21:55

SurprisedWithAHorse · 12/10/2023 21:53

By all means destroy Hamas, but without a fair and reasonable two state solution

A fair and reasonable two-state solution sounds great. Can someone tell Hamas and see what they say?

And Bibi Netanyahu as well.....

SurprisedWithAHorse · 12/10/2023 21:55

EasterIssland · 12/10/2023 21:54

Is this said by the same people that said “let’s treat them like what they’re … animals” ? Sorry if I don’t believe the Israel government

But you still think Hamas should release its innocent hostages, right?

StowOnTheWold · 12/10/2023 21:58

pleasehelpwi3 · 12/10/2023 21:51

An Israeli peace activist, whose mother was killed by Hamas last week said this evening on Channel 4 news something along the lines of ' Do dead Palestinian babies make up for dead Israeli babies?'

By all means destroy Hamas, but without a fair and reasonable two state solution the cycle of violence that has been in motion since the foundation of Israel will continue.

Already it seems Israel has killed more civilians in its retaliation than Hamas killed last week. Is an Israeli life worth more?

That is what is going to happen though. Hamas will be destroyed. Maybe perhaps Hezbollah.

Then perhaps parties can sit down to look at a two state solution. Because it needs the radicals including the Iranian regime to be out of the equation before 'the lion and the lamb can sit together'.

Isn't your valid post entirely circular?

EasterIssland · 12/10/2023 22:00

SurprisedWithAHorse · 12/10/2023 21:55

But you still think Hamas should release its innocent hostages, right?

https://twitter.com/AbirKopty/status/1712254321507643607

https://twitter.com/AbirKopty/status/1712254321507643607

JustJess90 · 12/10/2023 22:00

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Crispedia · 12/10/2023 22:07

Bernie Sander’s statement.

I understand why they are so set on destroying Hamas
DownNative · 12/10/2023 22:08

EasterIssland · 12/10/2023 21:10

In your scenario you’re powerless. But if the police had lend you a Kalashnikov then maybe … you would be more strong when your drunk husband was beating you. Israel has got the power to destroy Gaza, Gaza doesn’t have the power to destroy Israel or wipe out all the Jewish people

Israel is armed as well as it is precisely because it has been consistently attacked since its declaration of independence in 1948 when FIVE Arab States invaded it. And that not long after the Nazi Holocaust in Europe.

Knowing your people faced extermination in Europe AND your State is surrounded by hostile States in addition to various terrorist groups whose aim is to destroy your State is always going to push you to develop lots of security measures & military.
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When you know that a rogue State like Iran has been backing Hamas, you know that level of protection is valid. It acts as a deterrent to a rogue State not to attack, especially since it is supported by the West.

Iran is no stranger to supporting terrorist groups. Provisional IRA, Greek 17 November group, Corsican nationalists and ETA, the Basque separatists, are all examples of terrorist groups Iran has supported over the years.

Israel is not out to wipe the Palestinian people off the map, but they are interested in wiping Hamas and any support they get in Gaza.

Hamas in conjunction with Iran could destroy Israel. Hamas without Iranian backing? Highly unlikely.

You cannot have peace until you've first broken the enemy in various ways. Palestinian support for Hamas and other Palestinian terrorist groups must be broken. A majority of Palestinian Gazans support Hamas.

The umbilical cord connecting Hamas to Iran is harder to destroy.

EsmaCannonball · 12/10/2023 22:10

The images coming out of Gaza are awful; terrified, bewildered and bloodied children. However, this is on the Gazan government. Israel isn't doing this on a whim. Egypt is also despicable for refusing to open the border to civilians. Hamas has shown that they are prepared to break all the rules in their jihad. Killing children as collateral damage is bad enough, but seeking them out, capturing them and murdering them - when you have every choice and chance not to - is a whole other level of worse.

iloveapplesandcakes · 12/10/2023 22:11

Can we talk about innocence please?

Let's say there are 2mn people in Gaza, 50% adults, half of them are men, so about 500k adult men vs about 40k hamas. This is more than 10men against one hamas fighter. Appreciate they have weapon etc, but in such overpopulated area locals must know where this all is stored, where are their bases etc.

If innocent Gazans don't support hamas, then why they don't do anything about it?

So maybe they do support? and if they do, then how are they innocent?