Jesus... everyone needs to calm down.
People pointing out that Israel has, for decades, persecuted and caused the deaths of thousands Palestinian civilians and children are NOT defending or justifying the recent murders of children by Hamas. Yes, what is happening now is horrific and abhorrent, but it is not new nor is it exclusive to Hamas. This is well documented. Just because it's not current news doesn't mean it's not happening.
Referencing the decades-long persecution of Palestinians, including the resistance in giving them a solid state, is not antisemitic. It does not negate or cancel out the historic persecution of Jews. It is not one or the other. It's not a competition. The ongoing invasion of Palestine in both the Gaza Strip and West Bank, including the theft and division of Palestinian land by Israel, cannot be ignored or excused.
Highlighting that, due to the above, there is retaliation, is not justifying the actions of Hamas. It is acknowledging that this is a situation stirred and ignited by a long history. People are not being antisemitic or terrorist sympathisers by acknowledging that Israel has provoked these actions.
This is not a black and white situation and quite frankly whilst we are within our rights to be affected and upset, it is not ok to ignore actual facts or accuse people of being antisemitic, terrorist sympathisers or apathetic to the murders of children. Throwing these slurs in response to a poster simply pointing out facts or opinions on the other side is ignorant and offensive in the least.
This is a horrific and very complex situation. We should feel incredibly sorry and desperate for people on both sides. And whilst we can be shocked at the actions of some people, do any of us sat on Mumsnet really understand this complex history, or what it's like to live this? On both sides? What trauma may have happened to some of the people who see joining Hamas as the best option in their life? I don't think any of us are in the position to understand or judge any of this.