Just had a huge row with the husband over housework chores. Again. Normally I do them throughout the week and keep on top of things. or use a day off to get everything done. He will wash up every so often. But generally leaves them half finished then walks away. I've been working all day today (I'm a teacher and it's been one of those Sundays where I've had a massive work to-do list for the week ahead). I was stressed anyway as working all Sunday was the last thing I wanted to do. When I eventually finished. Clothes washing hadn't been done. Bathrooms shocking, washing-up half done, grease all over the kitchen from fried breakfast. I flew off the handle. He's now in a grump saying he didn't see what the problem was and that'd it all get done. Arghhhh. I mean am I supposed to write him a to-do list??? How best to handle this as I normally do the lions share but obviously need him to pick up the slack when I can't.