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Russell Brand

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Wassapp · 16/09/2023 22:07

AIBU to think... 'here we go again?'

Anyone watching? I've always said 'innocent until proven guilty' but also 'there is no smoke without fire'.

Having been sexually assaulted myself, one of the stories seem so similar to mine.

What's your thoughts?

This is the most confusing post, I know. I just don't know how I feel.

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Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:31

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Hardchoice · 17/09/2023 14:31

Vegas needs to be brought to account, via due legal process. If he did it once, he must have done it many other times. Clearly, he got away with such transgressions. Even at the time of the incident, why was it brushed under the carpet?! Who was/is protecting him.

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:32

Totally agree with her.

DysonSpheres · 17/09/2023 14:33

Puffypuffin · 17/09/2023 14:25

Ah yes, you're absolutely right, he can't possibly have raped or assaulted anyone and even if he did, they should have expected it eh? They must have known what he was like?

I feel desperately sorry for his wife and family, but him? Nope.

Fucking terrifies me that people like you walk among us.

I'm curious because as a parent I simply struggle to believe a parent could be this supine, did the mother not at least alert police?

Over40Overdating · 17/09/2023 14:34

@Castlerock44 what truth is he telling that needs to be stopped?

Who is the establishment?

He is a scammer. A convincing one. He sees people who look up to him as nothing more than a tool : the more of you he hooks, the more exposure he gets and the more money he makes exploiting your fears.
He sees you the way he sees the women he went through like used tissues : not worth his respect and disposable.

If he was offered a gig on an MSM channel that guaranteed him more listeners or viewers than YT, he’d be back in the fold in a heartbeat.

The only thing he is loyal to is his own ego.

Wassapp · 17/09/2023 14:34

Goldcircle · 17/09/2023 14:03

The text didn't say he was apologising for rape

Erm, ay?

She said "When a girl says no, it means no".
He said "I'm sorry. Hope you're ok."

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CwmYoy · 17/09/2023 14:35

CherryMaDeara · 17/09/2023 12:53

Yea, you have consistently tried to apologise for rape.

Shame on you.

Don't be ridiculous. I haven't at all. I have condemned it. Comprehension skills a bit rusty?

TheHoover · 17/09/2023 14:37

RB in his book has admitted to extreme promiscuity. What did not admit to is his entire modus operandi being to bed as many women as possible using emotional manipulation and then coerce them into doing utterly grim things for his own perverted gratification and to have some juicy stories to boast about to his pathetic sycophants.

He has an extreme and profound lack of respect for women and I am delighted he is being brought down. Many others around him at the time need to take a hard look at themselves in the same light eg Wossy who really showed his colours in the Sachs incident.

I don’t know why anyone is apologising for him. That he trod across the boundaries into rape is sickening but not shocking; he spent years treating women like dirt. It’s a bit like John Leslie: most people with a media connection in the 90s and 00s know someone with first hand experience of his disgusting exploits.

Wassapp · 17/09/2023 14:39

Radyward · 17/09/2023 14:13

Im sorry the world and its mother knew he was a sex addict and fetishist. Come on. Like he made absolutely no secret of it plus has bedded supposedly 1000's of women. Like so what. Thats no crime to me.like who made dispatches the new police. Why wasnt it handed over to the police. The producers searched for " victims" innocent til proven guilty. The only thing he is guilty of is being a sex Addict and shadowy obscured victims claims. I feel so sorry for him-his wife and kids.this trial by media has to stop
Take the whole up with police.
Cancel culture at its best.
Every one last night who applauded him after the show was anti cancel culture not per se pro RB.
He will not be prosecuted as insufficient evidence yady ya but his career is in ruins

Disgusting apologist.

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SummerDawn2000 · 17/09/2023 14:39

One thing being a man-slag. Another thing beong a rapist and groomer. Two very very different things. If people can’t get that then I have no words. No words. That poor woman who was just 16 ffs. They’ll be more who won’t say anything. Same with Micheal Jackson, Saville, etc.

IClaudine · 17/09/2023 14:39

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:31

She is unhinged,

oioicheeky · 17/09/2023 14:42

"I'm absolutely fucking outraged that you dared to bring Caroline's name into this."

@Wassapp you can be absolutely fucking outraged if you want, but without expanding upon why, it's not that useful.

Since you don't seem to see the similarity, it's the outcome of a sensationalised media response to legal accusations against somebody in the public eye.

Locutus2000 · 17/09/2023 14:42

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:31

Grifter supports grifter, no surprises there.

Princessandthepea0 · 17/09/2023 14:43

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:25

When the establishment want to silence someone for speaking the truth this is what they do. Trouble is people will believe it.

This is how Brexit happened. They walk among us. Blimey, talk about a dumbed down nation.

MrWhippyyy · 17/09/2023 14:44

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:25

When the establishment want to silence someone for speaking the truth this is what they do. Trouble is people will believe it.

literally no one in power gives a toss about Russell Brand. He isn’t a threat to anyone. He doesn’t have any secrets they are worried him telling. He really doesn’t. The subjects he discusses are discussed by thousands of other people.

And the people defending him are Andrew Tate and Dan Wootton. Other sexual abusers.

IClaudine · 17/09/2023 14:46

If she was "eviscerated from the face of the planet" how come we still hear plenty from Katie bloody Hopkins?

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:46

Funny how they never did the same on Scofield and Saville. But then they weren't speaking out on stuff that the public shouldn't know about.

IClaudine · 17/09/2023 14:47

It's all a left wing plot in revenge for Huw Edwards? Jeez,

MusicMum80s · 17/09/2023 14:48

pinguins · 17/09/2023 12:42

But has no one noticed that they never said the results of the DNA samples? Somewhere, they must have a record of those samples, if they weren't processed at the time it needs to be done now to confirm or refute what happened.
Because currently it's nowhere near iron clad. And if this does now go to court it will need to be to get anywhere, we all know how low conviction rates are.

He already admitted via the text they had sex that night so the DNA test is neither here nor there. Its a question of if it was consensual which it clearly wasn't. She immediately said it wasn't to him and others, went to a rape crisis centre within 24 hours and had to undergo months of therapy immediately thereafter which is all documented. And he apologies for his behaviour in the text thread.

Danny Masterson's conviction should make it clear that famous men accused of rape can and will be convicted.

Panaa · 17/09/2023 14:48

Wassapp · 17/09/2023 14:34

Erm, ay?

She said "When a girl says no, it means no".
He said "I'm sorry. Hope you're ok."

That wasn't the text though was it??

I think he did all he is accused of but the text did not say he was apologising for rape.

MadderthanMorris · 17/09/2023 14:49

Sigh I agree with those saying a due process of law is the proper way to deal with this, rather than one sided trial by media. Quaint and unfashionable as that opinion is. Unfortunately, many will have already pronounced him guilty.

Some of the material is indeed very damning. The problem with that is that we have only been told one side of the story, and plenty of things can appear damning when selected on that basis, that one would view differently in the light of full and balanced information. That's why we have a judicial system with prosecution and defence.

Amnesty International urges women to come forward with Russell Brand concerns

Comedian performed at charity’s gigs during period in which he allegedly committed rape and sexual assault

https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2023/sep/17/amnesty-international-urges-women-to-come-forward-with-russell-brand-concerns

MrWhippyyy · 17/09/2023 14:50

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:46

Funny how they never did the same on Scofield and Saville. But then they weren't speaking out on stuff that the public shouldn't know about.

They have done the same thing to Saville, it’s just that he was dead. And there was a lot about Schofield and he lost all his jobs.

Brand isn’t special. He isn’t revealing any ‘truths’, he discussing the same stuff that thousands of other people talk about.
Why would you believe him vs those women? Who are ‘they’? The government don’t give a toss about Brand. He is influential yes, but not in a way that makes the government concerned at all.

IClaudine · 17/09/2023 14:51

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 14:46

Funny how they never did the same on Scofield and Saville. But then they weren't speaking out on stuff that the public shouldn't know about.

Oh, I must have dreamt the Panorama episode of 22 October 2012 and everything that followed.

LaffTaff · 17/09/2023 14:54

MadderthanMorris · 17/09/2023 14:49

Sigh I agree with those saying a due process of law is the proper way to deal with this, rather than one sided trial by media. Quaint and unfashionable as that opinion is. Unfortunately, many will have already pronounced him guilty.

Some of the material is indeed very damning. The problem with that is that we have only been told one side of the story, and plenty of things can appear damning when selected on that basis, that one would view differently in the light of full and balanced information. That's why we have a judicial system with prosecution and defence.

Succinct and sensible (far too sensible for, it would seem, the majority!).

Totaly · 17/09/2023 14:56

plenty of things can appear damning when selected on that basis, that one would view differently in the light of full and balanced information. That's why we have a judicial system with prosecution and defence

most rape cases don’t make it to court. What do you suggest is the answer for those victims?

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