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To think neighbour is an absolute c**t!

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CanNeverThinkOfAName · 24/08/2023 23:03

Massive row with new neighbours last night which had other neighbours coming outside due the shouting. Totally mortifying and want opinions on whether neighbour is the c**t we think he is!

Moved into property a few months ago with a drive with space for 3 cars back to back at the side round the corner. We enter house through back door as that's where drive is. We have a works van and other cars that park opposite our drive and it can be pain to get out but only takes a few more seconds to manoeuvre. Not a big issue. and not something I'd complain about as it's not parked illegally.

Front door is near the bottom of a dead end road - pavement and road in front two car widths wide. Directly opposite front of house, both houses have drives big enough to fit two cars side by side. Have one car each so plenty of room on drive.

Lots of cars parked at top of road as many do not have drives so it's basically a one car width road due to parked cars. At the top of the road there are about 6 properties with one car drives with cars constantly parked opposite.

No one parks in front of our house and I wouldn't have an issue if they did.

We had 3 cars (including DDs's). DD occasionally parked in road at front of house if she come in late as DH leaves for work early so he'd have to move her car out first. Perfectly legal to park there and neighbours opposite have room (one road width) to get out of their drives.

Anyway DD has now moved in with boyfriend and hasn't been at home for a few weeks so has not parked at front for that period. Last night she popped round to pick up a few bits. Parked in front of house so she could come in front door and carry stuff out.

She'd been in house for literally 2 minutes and neighbour opposite front knocked and said she needed to move her car now. It was 10pm. We've never spoken a word to them before as we rarely use the front door.

DH basically said what's the problem, your drive is not blocked, she'll be going shortly, you're not even going out now are you? Neighbour said DH was being a prick and we had a 3 car drive so shouldn't be parking on the road ever. He's going to call the police.

DH did get rather angry at being called a prick and told neighbour to get off property and car would not be moved, he can call police etc. Neighbour then starts shouting that he's had enough, he's put up with it for ages (we've lived there 2 months!), who do we think we are etc. His wife comes out shouting, other opposite neighbours come out shouting that we're blocking emergency vehicles and rude etc, etc. We are certainly not blocking emergency vehicles, cars are parked all down the road and bin trucks get through fine!

DD is mortified and insists she'll move the car (bit annoyed at that) despite DH telling her not to. Neighbour says to her 'at least you're a decent one' which enrages both DH and I even more. DD is furious her Dad has been called a prick and shouts at neighbour that he's not decent either for swearing at her Dad.

Neighbour refuses to get out of front garden and keeps saying how horrible we are. Other neighbours have opened doors to listen by then so whole street will have heard. Had to slam door on him in the end.

He had his leg in a cast and was going on that he's had to come over to our house while in pain and didn't want to stand there any longer but he wouldn't leave as he wanted to continue the argument🤔

Neighbour now thinks he can tell us where to park and is the dogs bollocks probably thinking that told them!

Who was BU?

I've asked DD's boyfriend to park his battered transit van in front our house for the weekend - unreasonable?

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justwatchingtelly · 28/08/2023 21:33

anon666 · 26/08/2023 20:03

As the new neighbours I'd have been tempted to keep my head down, apologise that you didn't realise it would bother anyone. Then get the gossip on them before you engage in future.

Revenge is a dish best served cold and in secret....

This!

timesaretight · 29/08/2023 12:39

Like couple of kids

CumoTow · 29/08/2023 18:36

First important point I want to make is that there is an alarmingly high number of people replying with as short a fuse as the 'c**t' neighbour, each asserting that they would do something that is childish, aggressive, stupid, or all three, and which will certainly only worsen the situation.

Secondly, the OP claims that they are not blocking emergency vehicles. This is not as simple a matter as they seem to think. Firstly, they are vehicles moving in an emergency i.e. they do not want to have to manoeuvre, period. Emergency vehicles are also usually larger than cars. Fire engines are far larger. Think if it was your house on fire (with your kids trapped upstairs) and the fire engine had to gingerly manoeuvre down the road because car owners with drive space were too lazy to park properly.

Thirdly, assuming your diagram is correct, your DD is parked very poorly (for however short a period of time). The Highway Code states that you should not (bold typeface theirs)* *park opposite or within 10m of a junction except in an authorised parking space. They should pull onto your drive; a good driver avoids making life difficult for others at any time and this furore would have been avoided entirely had they done this.

To the OP: I suspect that anyone who immediately responds with such foul language as yours, who has no apparent embarrassment at having triggered a huge public scene at night, and who harbours thoughts of revenge that will certainly worsen the situation, is 'unreasonable'. I think that the reason we hear people saying 'Be kind' more and more is that more and more people seem to be full of rage.

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