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To think that it’s ridiculous to offer prisoners ‘incentives’ for attending verdict/sentencing hearings - it’s connected to Lucy Letby.

197 replies

pam290358 · 21/08/2023 10:58

Just heard on the news that Lucy Letby has again refused to attend court - this time for sentencing today. There are now calls for tougher sentences for those who won’t attend court, but an ‘expert’ on the BBC is of the opinion that that won’t work for people already facing long sentences/whole life terms. The alternative view is that they should be offered ‘incentives’ to do so, such as privileges in prison or live streaming the proceedings from their cell.

I’m not an advocate of dragging them kicking and screaming into the dock because I don’t think it benefits anyone - least of all the victims’ families who are already traumatised enough, but I must admit to being strongly against offering incentives for something I feel should be mandatory anyway. What do others think ?

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Heyhoherewegoagain · 21/08/2023 20:16

TheFirstStraw · 21/08/2023 11:12

I think air it into her cell if you really want her to hear it. I actually don't think it helps anyone for her to hear victim impact statements. Seems like she was already getting quite a kick out of checking up on the parents via facebook to enjoy the grief she'd caused. I wouldn't be handing her any more material.

This. On a 24/7 loop.

Then again, if you’re twisted enough to do what she did, will it even impact you? Little bitch, it was her last piece of power play over these families

BIossomtoes · 21/08/2023 20:17

SirSamVimesCityWatch · 21/08/2023 11:04

And then how will they behave in court? They'll turn up kicking and screaming, refuse to cooperate, and get sent back down to the cells.

Sedate them first.

ssd · 21/08/2023 20:19

Careerdilemma · 21/08/2023 11:20

I think the point is that families often find some form of closure in seeing the accused sentenced and the offender having to listen to the victim impact statement.

Personally I could see e.g. a year on basic with no ability to obtain priviliges and/or no visitation rights for a set period being a good deterrent.

I agree

pam290358 · 21/08/2023 20:20

2Rebecca · 21/08/2023 15:25

I think the desire to "see someone's face" when sentenced is a reflection of the more unpleasant side of human nature and should not be pandered to by the courts. The punishment is the prison sentence. If part of the punishment is to make someone cry then then that should be an official part of the sentence and they can be publicly flogged if they don't pull a compulsory sad face and start crying when given their sentence.
It's nasty,

Why is it unpleasant to want to see someone’s face when they’re sentenced, if they’ve just been convicted of killing your baby ? And why should these criminals be spared attendance at court to hear victim impact statements ? LL didn’t want to attend court for the verdict or the sentencing. Because she hasn’t got the guts to face those whose lives she wrecked. I’m not advocating dragging them kicking and screaming because that’s just ore trauma for the victims, but I think it’s outrageous to suggests that they are rewarded for attendance.

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AllProperTeaIsTheft · 21/08/2023 20:23

What difference does it make if she doesn't attend? It's not like she's not going to find out her sentence. Just don't understand this mob mentality of everyone needing to see it.

I agree.

That’s why criminals don’t want to attend court - so they don’t have to look at what they’ve done.

I'm surprised you think you know what their motivation is. From what I've read, the only time Letby seemed upset was when talking about the doctor she was infatuated with. I think you're probably mistaken if you think that facing the victims' parents in court would have much effect on her if she's already not very affected by the babies' lives she took. The punishment is the sentence.

Longdarkcloud · 21/08/2023 20:24

Not incentives but penalties eg loss of privileges or a fine to come out of their commissionary account, deprivation of certain “ luxury” foods ,no tv etc — something that makes their initial period of imprisonment more uncomfortable

pam290358 · 21/08/2023 20:26

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 21/08/2023 20:23

What difference does it make if she doesn't attend? It's not like she's not going to find out her sentence. Just don't understand this mob mentality of everyone needing to see it.

I agree.

That’s why criminals don’t want to attend court - so they don’t have to look at what they’ve done.

I'm surprised you think you know what their motivation is. From what I've read, the only time Letby seemed upset was when talking about the doctor she was infatuated with. I think you're probably mistaken if you think that facing the victims' parents in court would have much effect on her if she's already not very affected by the babies' lives she took. The punishment is the sentence.

I don’t think it’s about whether she’s affected or not, it’s more about giving the families the opportunity to have their say - even if it falls on deaf ears, if it helps them get closure.

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ReginaRegina · 21/08/2023 20:26

MrsFiddle · 21/08/2023 11:11

Less privileges.

As said above it just causes more problems for the poor prison staff who want to go home to their families unharmed. I've been working on a construction job at a local woman's prison for a few months and it all kicks off surprisingly often.

Neighneigh · 21/08/2023 20:27

There was an interesting piece on R4 this evening about this. Dragging kicking and screaming psychopaths into court is in no ones interest, but having the power and control taken away from the murderer and forcing them to hear the impact statements and their sentences - well I agree with that.

Apparently government has said it's too logistically difficult to consider live streaming to a cell where they can be made to listen but I call bollocks on that. Put it on bloody Teams.

Give the families the opportunity to know that the murderer will hear their words.

ssd · 21/08/2023 20:27

Its just totally incomprehensible to get your head around what she's done though. I thought harold shipman was evil, killing so many older ladies. But the only saving grace was these ladies had lived a long life. Not saying thats ok of course but you get what i mean. But these wee babies were just born. And some to parents who struggled to conceive. To actually want to kill these babies then come back for their brothers or sisters actually makes me feel physically sick writing that.
That's just beyond evil, beyond anything i can comprehend. All dressed up in a smiley blonde girl next door.

Terrifying.

Greenshake · 21/08/2023 20:27

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 21/08/2023 11:01

I would drag them kicking and screaming. I don't think they should be able to opt out.

Have you thought about how distressing that could be for some of the victims?

Ponoka7 · 21/08/2023 20:28

Longdarkcloud · 21/08/2023 20:24

Not incentives but penalties eg loss of privileges or a fine to come out of their commissionary account, deprivation of certain “ luxury” foods ,no tv etc — something that makes their initial period of imprisonment more uncomfortable

So she drops down enough to be put on suicide watch, or starts to self harm etc. Once again it's the prison staff who have to deal with that.

Half of the families didn't want to look at her. So which side do we pick?

She tried to go to funerals. She was very intrusive in lots of ways. She bought sympathy cards. This isn't someone who is going to be touched by victim statements. She saw the grief, she still killed again, the very next shift.

ReginaRegina · 21/08/2023 20:29

She must surely be mentally ill?

maddening · 21/08/2023 20:31

No dragging and kicking - strapped to a wheel chair into a soundproofed plastic box in the court which can receive the sound from the court

Greenshake · 21/08/2023 20:32

@maddening again, people might not want to see this.

maddening · 21/08/2023 20:35

Greenshake · 21/08/2023 20:32

@maddening again, people might not want to see this.

The judge could ask the victims for their preference- if split there could be 2 sittings - it warrants discussion and consideration about how people's needs can and if they should be accommodated, it could be accommodated in my mind without the obtuse kicking and screaming arguments imo

BIossomtoes · 21/08/2023 20:35

maddening · 21/08/2023 20:31

No dragging and kicking - strapped to a wheel chair into a soundproofed plastic box in the court which can receive the sound from the court

That’s my bloke’s take on it too.

MumUndone · 21/08/2023 20:38

Wheel them in like Hannibal.

Greenshake · 21/08/2023 20:38

@maddening that would never happen, and nor should it. Nobody is going to run the whole thing as a two part event.

timetolive · 21/08/2023 20:38

maddening · 21/08/2023 20:31

No dragging and kicking - strapped to a wheel chair into a soundproofed plastic box in the court which can receive the sound from the court

You think they're going to willing sit in this chair? How many custody staff are you going to put at risk plus remove from normal duty to force these people into this chair?

I understand why people think that a person should have to face the family, but offenders on this level simply don't give a crap about the impact they've had on family. Making them attend isn't going to make them stand there looking remorseful, quite the opposite actually. As per pp more likely to result in smirking or eye rolling etc

MumToBeOf2 · 21/08/2023 20:42

I don't see the point.

She knows the impact of her crimes, she doesn't care. Or she wouldn't have killed 7 babies and attempted to murder many more.

timetolive · 21/08/2023 20:42

@maddening "The judge could ask the victims for their preference- if split there could be 2 sittings - it warrants discussion and consideration about how people's needs can and if they should be accommodated, it could be accommodated in my mind without the obtuse kicking and screaming arguments imo"

You do realise that cases are currently taking about 2 years to reach court after the offender is charged due to the absolute mess the court system is in?Your plan would mean more court sitting meaning more delays meaning longer waiting times for trial on other cases.

timetolive · 21/08/2023 20:43

MumToBeOf2 · 21/08/2023 20:42

I don't see the point.

She knows the impact of her crimes, she doesn't care. Or she wouldn't have killed 7 babies and attempted to murder many more.

Exactly this

Anxioys · 21/08/2023 20:45

It's important because sentencing is part of the old principle of justice being seen to be done.

No you cannot physically drag a prisoner in. But you can certainly make them hear and see their sentence.

Yuasa · 21/08/2023 20:48

Why is it unpleasant to want to see someone’s face when they’re sentenced, if they’ve just been convicted of killing your baby ?

I’m sure we can all understand why this is so meaningful to the parents. In the same way I can imagine them thinking the direst of punishments aren’t sufficient. Entirely natural. The question is why so many MNers, who are not directly affected are obsessed with offenders being subject to public humiliation (being tied to boards and gagged on a related thread!) and extreme violence (any number of threads about attacks in prison).

Justice should be dispassionate and humane. Those of us who have not suffered like these families should be in a position to be more objective and see that it’s not about sympathising with killers. It’s that anything else is demeaning to us as a society. The thought of living in a society where guilty people are dragged/chained so we can be gratified by their shame and distress is disgusting.