to think that some people should just stop moaning?

[HavingAPop]

Some people are never happy, are they? They moan that they are in a bad situation, usually of their own making, then they moan that nobody will help them, then they moan that when someone does help them, it's the wrong sort of help, then they are dug out of the situation the put themselves in, only to put themselves straight back in again.

If you are moaning you don't have enough room in your free house for 2 kids, and then you get put in a bigger (free!) house so you do have enough room, why do people then get pregnant again? Are they stupid or what????? It's just a kick in the teeth to everyone who helps them when they are desperate, it's wasted money down the drain all the time. They should be made to live with it. It's not my problem if they can't keep their uglies in their pants.

Wow manders, you crazy!!!!

Manders isn't crazy... she's a Katrina survivor who got sod all help from the US gonvernment after losing her home, despite working all her life. While some of the spngers got new homes, clothes, food...etc

I think she's entitled to be a little resentful.

I don't think that gives her a right to judge everyone else.
It's not the fault of the people who received help that she didn't.
Resentful or not, her post should not go unchallenged

kaishay - how do you know that? genuinely interested.

excellent post,mrsr.

roflmao...a whole post moaning about people that moan...hm

because manders is someone i know, and she told me she'd posted on here.

ah.

roffle colditz, you rotten hoor

read so much of this thread then got bored with HAP small mindedness. FYI im a 22 year old single mum what i have is what ive got for myself even though it did take me moaning at council as i had a room in mums house with baby that i couldnt swing a cat in and bitching at goverment as it took them a month to sort out IS for me and ds to live on!!!! I would do it again cos how the hell am i surposed to support myselfand ds on £18.10 a week. Your taring everyone with the same brush just because your friend has done that doesnt mean everyone does. I agree the thread should have been 'AIBU to be annoyed at.....'

You really need to read the rest, shelleylou .....

And Greeny, I learned all I know from you.

i just have, sorry colditz will teach me to read all of a thread before posting silly me. So ashamed of myslef now, hope you dont think im a bitch.

God no, shelly, I still think I'm a bitch for being deceitful. I just didn't want you thinking there was a random nutter pouring bile into the WWW.

think that random nutter might be me at times lol. I think you were trying to get the other side of opinions to your previous post and wouldnt really have been able to do that under your usual name. Your not a bitch at all, you have given a lot of peopl a lot of good advice. Your boys are gorgeous