to think that some people should just stop moaning?

[HavingAPop]

Some people are never happy, are they? They moan that they are in a bad situation, usually of their own making, then they moan that nobody will help them, then they moan that when someone does help them, it's the wrong sort of help, then they are dug out of the situation the put themselves in, only to put themselves straight back in again.

If you are moaning you don't have enough room in your free house for 2 kids, and then you get put in a bigger (free!) house so you do have enough room, why do people then get pregnant again? Are they stupid or what????? It's just a kick in the teeth to everyone who helps them when they are desperate, it's wasted money down the drain all the time. They should be made to live with it. It's not my problem if they can't keep their uglies in their pants.

I'm sorry.

I feel like a right knob now. I have been a right knob.

Soprry.

and thank you all for being lovely.

XXXXX

(I was scared of getting banned)

Yes, It was about my thread about asking the council for a bigger house.

I looked at it, and I thought, some people might read all my posts on mumsnet one day, and just see one long whinge.

Well colditz you have been very norty.

You should serve mn pennace Go and force yourself to imagine this naked

and btw did you notice those who objected to such crappy opinions as the OPs? Yes, good.
Write it on your list

JV I have nominated you for quote of the week this week, because of your witticism about the latex mask.

And Kaishay, you have been fabulous!

I fully retract any belief that you be turned into a doggy pee-tree.

although.. i still think we should subject you to the doodlebops marathon in punishment for being such a silly moo!

I was looking back through some of my old posts today. And I really frightened myself at how:
miserable
unappreciative
silly
etc
etc
I was
Never think about how your posts will look , later on. Bad idea. Don't think, post, from the heart.

Hi Colditz, georgeous children by the way you must be very beautiful, however you are a terrible whinger!

I was just about to have a massive rant to the OP... then I got to the the end of the thread!

You silly bear colditz. !

colditz- i hope you don't think the thread I started was a dig at you and your thread, it really,really wasn't

Just wanted to add...

Colditz dear.. if anyone does say anything horrible to you, in the vein of your OP.. please feel free to refer them this way and i will happily label them a Pee-tree just for being complete asshats!

No, no not at all pedilia, I just got myself in a tizz and somehow worked out that the best way to solve it was to be deceitful and sly

Thank you kaishaiy

well it has kept us all amused for the last hour so whats the harm and I bet most of us secretly loved the thought of another row!!

Oh no you never did, Winnie, you great fibber!

Well I hope you knew I was trolling then and not really thinking that

Aaaw, ta Colditz

sorry to ignore you Colditz (and I don;t mind one bit btw...)

Nicetry "true alliances and real friendships on mumsnet" - yes I have both and many are now real life friends. You can't choose to use this forum as a completely anonymous cyber- experience but many of I don't choose that and do engage in RL with other mumsnetters too.

Of course people can namechange if they want to but if its because they're ashamed of their views (rather than embarrassed about something) then I choose not to engage with them. Why do you have a problem with that?

To Answer the question that originated in this thread, No, Madam. You are not being unreasonable. Everyone is entitled to their oppionion. And I dont think that discussing this issues is in anyway, wrong. I agree with alot of these views. Some people just ask for too much, and DONT help themselves. They take and take and take, and expect more when their lives dont 'magically' fall into place. I heard a young girl one day in a coffee shop moaning about how she couldnt get college grants. Then as if she'd had ephifany (sp?) said quite happily to her friend. "I know! I'll get pregnant! The government just throws Money at you when you have babies!"

What has our world come too? Our Young people are beginning to understand this circumstance as truth, and DOING it!

Gee...I dont have any money...and I dont want to work...what will I do? Mommy and Daddy wont support me anymore...

I know! I'll get Pregnant and get Medicade and a monthly check and food stamps!

The government will take care of me!

Its sad, its disgusting to see that my tax money is being ABUSED like this. I dont mind helping REAL needy families. But these f*king lazy shits who think that popping out babies like Pez despensers is going to get them the cash they need, need to go jump off a f*king bridge, and end their misery before they bring more life into 'their' miserable existance, and do the entire world a favor.

Think Im harsh? Think Im insensitive, Go out there and actually LISTEN to what people say about this, especially the young girls. You will be shocked, shamed and disgusted. As I am.

Manders

God, was beginning to think I'd missed yet another controversial thread!