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Just realising my friends think wearing glasses is 'lesser' and now I feel like shit

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Speczy · 12/07/2023 23:57

As the title suggests, I wear glasses. Can't go about my daily life without them. I do have contact lenses but I rarely wear them now.

A friend, older than me by 6 years, needs readers. For small print, nothing major. She is 51 for context. Put it in our chat group (with one other v close friend who is only 40).

The whole narrative was that glasses are an old person thing, how would I wear them? Do I need a lanyard to carry them? Goodness, what kind of bag can I fit them in? Where will I put them? I'll need to wear them at work!! Shocked, glasses, what an inconvenience and a nightmare! Etc.

This was a back and forth between my friends on the group chat. I've been wearing glasses for decades...aibu to be hurt by this? I'm a big, tough grown up, but feel like shit after reading that.

OP posts:
Mountainpika · 14/07/2023 10:30

Be thankful if you've lived long enough to need glasses because of age. Some people don't get that far!
I've had varifocals for decades. Not a problem - they suit me fine.

Violinist64 · 14/07/2023 13:33

@AntiStuff and @Lastnightschips my husband had his cataracts operation a few years ago in his early sixties. Having worn glasses since the age of four and having had a high prescription for myopia, at the age of 65 he now has perfect eyesight except for reading.

JusthereforXmas · 14/07/2023 13:39

Mountainpika · 14/07/2023 10:30

Be thankful if you've lived long enough to need glasses because of age. Some people don't get that far!
I've had varifocals for decades. Not a problem - they suit me fine.

Oh please people are allowed to complain about their own life... its not a race to the bottom.

According to you no one ever should be able to complain about anything because someone else somewhere is dead... ridiculous.

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