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Huw Edwards named as BBC presenter!

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Amuseaboosh · 12/07/2023 18:04

I'm actually shocked.

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Thatgirl1981 · 12/07/2023 19:29

CrackerAndPudding · 12/07/2023 19:25

Thatgirl1981 This story was broken at a specific time, for a specific reason.

Regardless of how you view people who pay for and make money from Only Fans, there is absolutely an element of media manipulation in all of this.

Not really I seen some of these grim photos of him with his arse out

and I can only imagine if you would think this was coolio if it was your young adult
🤷🏿‍♂️

so captured are you willing to excuse prostitution

when your ideology has to ignoring prostitution paid for by public funds then 🤷🏿‍♂️

Endlesssummerof76 · 12/07/2023 19:31

Iolani · 12/07/2023 19:27

Really shocked!
No I don’t do social media, all I do is MN and I wouldn’t read witch hunting speculation, but as his wife has now made an official statement then I will believe it.

He’s been in hospital for sometime and has had depression for years apparently.
News states police have confirmed there has been no criminal activity. Still don’t understand why the parents went to the BBC and not the police in the first place….maybe they were hoping to make some money out of this….who knows.
I hope he gets the support he needs.

Their estranged offspring is a crack addict and you can't think of a single reason why they may choose not to go to the police? You are very, very lucky to have no insights into addiction.

pillsthrillsandbellyache · 12/07/2023 19:31

Gerrataere · 12/07/2023 19:23

It really is. Really really is. We’ve done a full 360 on recognising that men using other people for sex in any capacity is a fowl thing. That it comes from a position of male privilege and power. Because you can go online and sell your soul legally from the age of 18 (18 ffs) it’s no longer seedy Jons but legitimate clients of hard workers who apparently know ‘exactly what they’re doing’. God it’s fucked up.

I cannot get over that someone actually typed that out. Is that what we hold bad behaviour up against? Oh he didn't rape anyone so hey ho! I once read a thread on AMA from a sex worker (well a couple, one was a stripper but it went the same way) and she was absolutely torn apart for ruining marriages. You could tell by the way she wrote and how she worked that she was incredibly vulnerable. Its just unfucking believable.

ARareKindaBear · 12/07/2023 19:31

IClaudine · 12/07/2023 19:27

Of course you did. And if you did, googling would have given you the answer in less time than it took you to type out that post.

I wouldn’t have understood the Dorothy thing either, I’ve never heard that before

tryanotherone123 · 12/07/2023 19:31

Spidey66 · 12/07/2023 19:00

It’s been well documented since the start that the young man concerned was using the money to fund his significant drug habit.

It hasn't been 'well documented' nothing has been well documented. So far there have been media reports that is all. Facts are pretty hard to come by so far. We know someone went to the sun, the bbc confirmed a complaint had been made, a person denied the sun reports, the police have said nothing ilegal happened. Everything else is speculation.

Spidey66 · 12/07/2023 19:32

I honestly don’t think he’s using his mental health issues as a Get Out of Jail Free card. I don’t think he’s using it as an excuse at all. His mental health has been out in the open for a long time now and has been discussed by Edwards he myself in the past. I think why it’s come out now is the stress of the situation and the feelings of shame he probably feels and that he probably feels he has let down his wife, children, employers etc are now seriously affecting him. I can see how.

Butchyrestingface · 12/07/2023 19:32

Iolani · 12/07/2023 19:27

Really shocked!
No I don’t do social media, all I do is MN and I wouldn’t read witch hunting speculation, but as his wife has now made an official statement then I will believe it.

He’s been in hospital for sometime and has had depression for years apparently.
News states police have confirmed there has been no criminal activity. Still don’t understand why the parents went to the BBC and not the police in the first place….maybe they were hoping to make some money out of this….who knows.
I hope he gets the support he needs.

The parents approached the police FIRST.

Then the BBC.

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 12/07/2023 19:32

ArcticSkewer · 12/07/2023 18:09

Having just read his wife's statement and the police report of no criminal activity, it's pretty disgusting that he has ended up in hospital in patient treatment just to stop us all talking about George Osborne during his wedding weekend.

That's how I feel about it. Also, did Johnson release his WhatsApp conversations by the date and time required this week?

CrackerAndPudding · 12/07/2023 19:33

Thatgirl1981 dont be an idiot.
a) the pictures were released by the media, what's your point?
b) I've never said I thought it was "coolio"
c) I haven't said prostitution is OK
d) I haven't said we should ignore the situation at all

Try reading, understanding and then responding to posts rather than the fantasy conversations you think you are having

pickyourown · 12/07/2023 19:33

Illegal or not. I’m personally SICK of perverted men in powerful and/or influential positions.

Iwantcakeeveryday · 12/07/2023 19:35

legallyblond · 12/07/2023 19:24

But surely many or all of these things / the views on here can be simultaneously true….

I expect he is having a genuine mental health crisis. He has a history of severe depression and this frenzy would probably trigger a crisis in any of us if we were in his shoes.

Surely we all also accept that even if all of this is legal (as the police have confirmed), it’s all gross, an ugly pattern of behaviour, and contrary to the weekly churchgoing family man news anchor persona that has been presented until now. I think any of us with kids would take the view that if our 18/19/20 year old child was in this position with a prominent and wealthy 61 year old, we’d feel like that was “abusive” and wrong even if not illegal. There’s no point saying there’s no proof. The BBC have seen some of the nasty texts etc and they will have taken real care to verify before saying they’d seen them and confirmed they were from his number. We can I think trust some reporting, surely?!

It’s also true I think that the media frenzy is totally blown out of proportion and likely a living nightmare for every single person involved. It’s doing real damage. Let’s hope no one suffers more harm…

It’s also probably the case that if the Sun went ahead and implied criminal behaviour with no proof of that particular aspect, there’ll be trouble for them. Arguably that was the really shocking bit.

But it might also be true that if his salary is paid via our license fee and part of his position / role is his upstanding persona, there’s an element of public interest in exposing this, even if they way it was all done by the awful, awful Sun was appalling.

Finally, we all know it’s true that in general rich white men get away with and are forgiven by society for horrible things. We shouldn’t pander to that and start saying the much younger people involved in this are somehow to blame….

excellent and fair post, agree totally

CrackerAndPudding · 12/07/2023 19:35

Butchyrestingface · 12/07/2023 19:32

The parents approached the police FIRST.

Then the BBC.

The way I read it they did just this, then went to the media when they felt the BBC was not taking appropriate action - so the Sun as a last resort

Oblomov23 · 12/07/2023 19:36

Never thought of him!

Charlize43 · 12/07/2023 19:36

Every year I get a reminder to tell me that I have to pay for a BBC TV Licence or else I will be a criminal.

Does anyone else feel grubby after finding out that their money is being spent on turning youngsters into prostitutes and drug addicts?

Do you think it's worth writing in for a refund?

Iolani · 12/07/2023 19:36

thelionthewitchtheaudacityofTHISbitch · 12/07/2023 19:26

It is our business. I have a 17 year old male DC who is vulnerable. I also wouldnt be standing by and watching a well connected much older man groom my DC. I dont need the momeny so wouldnt accept any, but fucking hell would be publicising and making damn sure everyone knew. As for the wife - she knew didnt she? From that statement she knew and did nothing, despite their 5 children.

If the police are not pressing charges then clearly the person or persons in question were not 17 at the time.
No proof of grooming either.
Plus who’s to say the younger people are online selling whatever they can to those able to pay.

SerafinasGoose · 12/07/2023 19:37

pickyourown · 12/07/2023 19:33

Illegal or not. I’m personally SICK of perverted men in powerful and/or influential positions.

💯% this.

That and the huge amount of time, energy and devotion that goes into protecting them and concealing their proclivities from general view.

Ugh.

DandelionBurdockAndGin · 12/07/2023 19:37

I was shocked - but I'm not on twitter -family members also seemed shocked.

Iolani · 12/07/2023 19:38

Charlize43 · 12/07/2023 19:36

Every year I get a reminder to tell me that I have to pay for a BBC TV Licence or else I will be a criminal.

Does anyone else feel grubby after finding out that their money is being spent on turning youngsters into prostitutes and drug addicts?

Do you think it's worth writing in for a refund?

Goodness me!
Turning youngsters into prostitutes, where’s the proof.?
Maybe the younger people are selling themselves and are quite happy to do so for money!

WeWereInParis · 12/07/2023 19:39

I thought that any under 18 sending explicit images that was a crime. Really not understanding the police statement right now.

I'm assuming the police statement means they found no evidence of pictures of an under 18 year old.

QueenMegan · 12/07/2023 19:39

Nothing surprises me.
Had to be him by a process of elimination

Thatgirl1981 · 12/07/2023 19:40

Charlize43 · 12/07/2023 19:36

Every year I get a reminder to tell me that I have to pay for a BBC TV Licence or else I will be a criminal.

Does anyone else feel grubby after finding out that their money is being spent on turning youngsters into prostitutes and drug addicts?

Do you think it's worth writing in for a refund?

No I don’t watch live telly my hands are clean I refuse to fund these people who claim they are journalists 😂

LuluBlakey1 · 12/07/2023 19:40

toomuchlaundry · 12/07/2023 18:20

But if the photos were of someone under 18 it is a crime

What photos? Photos the mother of the man said she had but have clearly not been produced for the police or are of someone over 18 because the police say they have found no evidence that anything illegal or criminal happened.
That's not to say Huw Edward's behaviour has been appropriate or honest but we don't know anything really as yet.

Gerrataere · 12/07/2023 19:41

pillsthrillsandbellyache · 12/07/2023 19:31

I cannot get over that someone actually typed that out. Is that what we hold bad behaviour up against? Oh he didn't rape anyone so hey ho! I once read a thread on AMA from a sex worker (well a couple, one was a stripper but it went the same way) and she was absolutely torn apart for ruining marriages. You could tell by the way she wrote and how she worked that she was incredibly vulnerable. Its just unfucking believable.

Tbh I’ve been beyond sick of it for a couple of years now. There’s that infamous TikTokker who dated and impregnated a teen girl, then continues to chase teen girls to this day, one has more than hinted sexual assault/feeling like being used for sex. And yet the smug prick goes on about ‘nothing illegal so what you going to do’. And people defend him on this fact! People going on about the magic ages of 16-18 where you’re suddenly super mature and can instantly tell when you’re in control and which men are actually the naughty pervs over the real ones who you’re having a bit of fun with. The level of social wide delusion would be remarkable if it wasn’t an obvious car crash waiting to happen on a mass scale.

toomuchlaundry · 12/07/2023 19:41

Lots of students use OF etc to help fund their way through university. Not saying it is right but don’t think that is down to HE or the BBC

Thatgirl1981 · 12/07/2023 19:42

Iolani · 12/07/2023 19:38

Goodness me!
Turning youngsters into prostitutes, where’s the proof.?
Maybe the younger people are selling themselves and are quite happy to do so for money!

Well that’s ok shall we go on line and buy some now after all it’s just like buying a movie poster right

so will you be recommending it as a career for your dd after all its no big deal right all the kids are doing it 👀

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