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To ask why people are so against giving up meat?

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NewCracker · 04/07/2023 21:12

Just that really, why are people so against giving up meat?
Without a doubt we know it's better for the environment, we know it's better for our health, we know it's better for animal welfare and it's actually quite expensive. But still as soon as you mention to the greater public about cutting their meat consumption, they get defensive and almost offended.
Would you ever consider giving it up, if you do consume it now? If not, why not?
I'm expecting some hate, this is MN after all, but I am genuinely just curious. Not trying to rattle feathers.

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SunnyEgg · 05/07/2023 20:34

mrlistersgelfbride · 05/07/2023 20:14

This thread! People dress up eating meat as you like but it is certainly not healthier, cheaper or natural. People eat meat because they like the taste, are afraid or change or plain can't be bothered.
I've been veggie (including spells as a vegan and pescie) for nearly 9 years. I ate meat for 30 years before that.
I have a huge omni extended family and partner and child who eats meat.
I go to barbecues, social events and all sorts.
I get a drink and like takeaway food. It would be very easy to quit.

Being a vegetarian is really really easy! I feel healthily. I save money on meat! Skin is better than it was in my 20s.
And guess what? I'm an avid runner and have ran 3 marathons as a vegetarian. I lift weights. Get gone with all this protein stuff! Getting protein in a vegetarian diet is VERY EASY!

The mass generalisations about vegetarians on his thread are unfair. Leftie, unhealthy, narrow minded?
Although while we are on the subject ...I don't know many overweight tories vegetarians or vegans 🤐

How can you say not natural?

RoyalGala · 05/07/2023 20:36

SherbetDips · 05/07/2023 19:58

@RoyalGala Great that’s your choice and your allowed that choice,
I love meat and will continue eating it.

Where did I say you couldn’t eat meat?

BlinkAndYouMissedMe · 05/07/2023 20:37

fyn · 05/07/2023 19:15

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Theoldgreygoose · 05/07/2023 20:42

The strongest opinions on here seem to be from the meat eaters who as ever are keen to bash the veggies. It's very interesting.

I've seen some pretty strong opinions on here from posters regarding the apparently horrific abuse of farm animals - because they "saw a video"!!!

I live in a rural area of a country where agriculture is very important to the economy. Despite never having lived on a farm I believe I know far more about rural life than many of the people on this thread, honestly some of you need to get out more and actually learn a little about food production. I don't eat a lot of red meat, our family weren't big meat eaters, and I do eat a lot of chicken and fish, but it is noticeable that on the days I don't eat any meat I am more hungry than on the days I do. Meat is good for humans, vegetables are good for humans - in fact a balanced diet is good for humans.

As for all these animals being "abused" by apparently all farmers- what sort of a life do you think animals have in the wild?

speluncean · 05/07/2023 20:43

mrlistersgelfbride · 05/07/2023 20:14

This thread! People dress up eating meat as you like but it is certainly not healthier, cheaper or natural. People eat meat because they like the taste, are afraid or change or plain can't be bothered.
I've been veggie (including spells as a vegan and pescie) for nearly 9 years. I ate meat for 30 years before that.
I have a huge omni extended family and partner and child who eats meat.
I go to barbecues, social events and all sorts.
I get a drink and like takeaway food. It would be very easy to quit.

Being a vegetarian is really really easy! I feel healthily. I save money on meat! Skin is better than it was in my 20s.
And guess what? I'm an avid runner and have ran 3 marathons as a vegetarian. I lift weights. Get gone with all this protein stuff! Getting protein in a vegetarian diet is VERY EASY!

The mass generalisations about vegetarians on his thread are unfair. Leftie, unhealthy, narrow minded?
Although while we are on the subject ...I don't know many overweight tories vegetarians or vegans 🤐

It's not easy for everyone to be vegetarian.

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RoyalGala · 05/07/2023 20:47

Theoldgreygoose · 05/07/2023 20:42

The strongest opinions on here seem to be from the meat eaters who as ever are keen to bash the veggies. It's very interesting.

I've seen some pretty strong opinions on here from posters regarding the apparently horrific abuse of farm animals - because they "saw a video"!!!

I live in a rural area of a country where agriculture is very important to the economy. Despite never having lived on a farm I believe I know far more about rural life than many of the people on this thread, honestly some of you need to get out more and actually learn a little about food production. I don't eat a lot of red meat, our family weren't big meat eaters, and I do eat a lot of chicken and fish, but it is noticeable that on the days I don't eat any meat I am more hungry than on the days I do. Meat is good for humans, vegetables are good for humans - in fact a balanced diet is good for humans.

As for all these animals being "abused" by apparently all farmers- what sort of a life do you think animals have in the wild?

You can’t talk unless you’re witnessing the processing of animals in a slaughterhouse, there’s enough (too much) evidence out there that animals in the meat industry are routinely abused, it’s bizarre you can claim you know they’re not when you are hidden away from the realities of factory farming and slaughter houses. They don’t all live in nice little airey barns, that’s naive beyond reason, 85% of animals are intensely factory farm reared for meat. It’s neither ethical or natural.

Also video footage is factual, there is nothing ‘apparent’ about the abuses that took place.

speluncean · 05/07/2023 20:49

@RoyalGala I know exactly how beef cows, dairy cows, lambs and chickens grown for food not eggs live. And die.

I still eat meat.

RoyalGala · 05/07/2023 20:53

We have never farmed so many animals so intensively: over 70 billion of them a year are slaughtered for meat. Global food production now relies on vast flocks and herds of genetically identical poultry, cattle and pigs being reared in high-intensity, overcrowded, confined, entirely unnatural conditions. The growing danger is that industrial farms are becoming disease factories, incubating and enhancing pathogens like flu, and enabling hyper-virulent pathogens to spread within flocks or cross to humans.**

I guess it’s all ok to continue the intensively reared meat in order to satisfy human beings taste buds, until everyone gets struck down with diseases created by mankind. Meat is not sustainable, it’s damaging the environment, it impacts health and it causes unnecessary suffering to animals but humans being selfish will always find a way to justify and defend their ‘choices’.

Sendouttheclowns · 05/07/2023 20:57

@RoyalGala I guess it’s all ok to continue the intensively reared meat in order to satisfy human beings taste buds, until everyone gets struck down with diseases created by mankind.

It's already happened, remember BSE ??

lljkk · 05/07/2023 20:58

Maybe something we could all agree on is that food waste is very wrong. That about 40% of edible food gets thrown out, wasted, binned is shocking. That to me is a huge moral crime. Eating animals, not so much.

RoyalGala · 05/07/2023 20:58

speluncean · 05/07/2023 20:49

@RoyalGala I know exactly how beef cows, dairy cows, lambs and chickens grown for food not eggs live. And die.

I still eat meat.

Well good for you 👏🏻

speluncean · 05/07/2023 20:59

lljkk · 05/07/2023 20:58

Maybe something we could all agree on is that food waste is very wrong. That about 40% of edible food gets thrown out, wasted, binned is shocking. That to me is a huge moral crime. Eating animals, not so much.

Absolutely I can agree with this. I have hardly any food waste - I had to throw out half a banana today because it had gone black from the bottom but the rest have been frozen.

MrsMarzetti · 05/07/2023 21:01

mrlistersgelfbride · 05/07/2023 20:14

This thread! People dress up eating meat as you like but it is certainly not healthier, cheaper or natural. People eat meat because they like the taste, are afraid or change or plain can't be bothered.
I've been veggie (including spells as a vegan and pescie) for nearly 9 years. I ate meat for 30 years before that.
I have a huge omni extended family and partner and child who eats meat.
I go to barbecues, social events and all sorts.
I get a drink and like takeaway food. It would be very easy to quit.

Being a vegetarian is really really easy! I feel healthily. I save money on meat! Skin is better than it was in my 20s.
And guess what? I'm an avid runner and have ran 3 marathons as a vegetarian. I lift weights. Get gone with all this protein stuff! Getting protein in a vegetarian diet is VERY EASY!

The mass generalisations about vegetarians on his thread are unfair. Leftie, unhealthy, narrow minded?
Although while we are on the subject ...I don't know many overweight tories vegetarians or vegans 🤐

Do you only eat food grown in this country ?

Theonlyreason · 05/07/2023 21:02

Because i fucking love a good steak and hate veg.

Quinoawoman · 05/07/2023 21:02

NeverDropYourMooncup · 04/07/2023 21:21

Because I don't want to.

Because my diet is already severely restricted for medical reasons that mean a huge amount of food that is available and relied upon by many vegetarians and vegans is not better for my health.

Because it is significantly cheaper than purchasing shit imitations of food because I cannot consume even one part of the majority of standard versions. Or anything that might have been in the same factory, warehouse or supermarket shelf at some point.

Because having experienced malnutrition and the consequences of cross contamination of things that have no business being in proximity to stuff that is effectively poison to me and unwittingly done myself further damage which further reduces the range of foods available to me, as well as significantly increasing my risk of cancer, osteoporosis and an early death, along with the increased risks of the medication I have to take to try and reduce the effects on a short term basis in exchange for yet another uptick in cancer incidence, it absolutely fucking sucks.

My 9 year old was a vegetarian (her choice) before she was diagnosed with coeliac disease. It is harder undoubtedly, but nowhere near as impossibly dramatic as you make out.

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:04

My 9 year old was a vegetarian (her choice) before she was diagnosed with coeliac disease. It is harder undoubtedly, but nowhere near as impossibly dramatic as you make out.

That is incredibly dismissive of someone's medical condition, bloody hell.

A good friend has Crohns, really quite unwell with it, and he can't tolerate soy or pulses and is already underweight but I suppose he can just do without protein then?

Moredramathanrazzamatazz · 05/07/2023 21:09

we know it's better for our health

No we don't. This is not factually correct.

Quinoawoman · 05/07/2023 21:09

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:04

My 9 year old was a vegetarian (her choice) before she was diagnosed with coeliac disease. It is harder undoubtedly, but nowhere near as impossibly dramatic as you make out.

That is incredibly dismissive of someone's medical condition, bloody hell.

A good friend has Crohns, really quite unwell with it, and he can't tolerate soy or pulses and is already underweight but I suppose he can just do without protein then?

Bearing in mind that I exclusively shop and cook for my coeliac daughter and basically control every aspect of her diet, do you really think I don't understand the condition? Everything this poster has said is indicative of coeliac disease. She didn't even use the name but I undersood immediately due to the description. She just didn't want to use the term because she didn't want people who also have it to tell her she's being dramatic - which she is.

I am a vegetarian witb ulcerative colitis, so I also understand crohns, thanks very much.

Quinoawoman · 05/07/2023 21:14

@NewCracker in answer to your original question, it's cognitive dissonance. If people think they love animals but still eat them, they have had to do some mental gymnastics to make that okay with their conscience. If people think they care about the environment, they are telling themselves some fibs to continue to eat large quantities of meat and not try to cut down. Sadly, the thing about cognitive dissonance is that the more you challenge people, the more they push back and intensify their beliefs.

speluncean · 05/07/2023 21:14

@Quinoawoman all you know is about your own family health conditions. You can't know about anyone else's.

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:17

I am a vegetarian witb ulcerative colitis, so I also understand crohns, thanks very much.

Okay I'll pass that on to my friend who has had multiple operations and now has secondary cancer. I mean he's only about 15kg underweight, I'm sure he can just scoff down some pulses he can't digest and be in crippling agony because someone on the internet has a daughter with a different disease.

Quinoawoman · 05/07/2023 21:18

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:17

I am a vegetarian witb ulcerative colitis, so I also understand crohns, thanks very much.

Okay I'll pass that on to my friend who has had multiple operations and now has secondary cancer. I mean he's only about 15kg underweight, I'm sure he can just scoff down some pulses he can't digest and be in crippling agony because someone on the internet has a daughter with a different disease.

Point to where I said he has to eat pulses? Or in fact anything at all about your friend? Oh yeah, I didn't, because you are constructing a straw man argument.

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:19

@Quinoawoman so he just doesn't get to eat any protein then? How is that meant to work?

Since you want to play judgeypants, I think letting your child eat a vegetarian diet with her condition is actually really poor judgement.

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