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To ask why people are so against giving up meat?

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NewCracker · 04/07/2023 21:12

Just that really, why are people so against giving up meat?
Without a doubt we know it's better for the environment, we know it's better for our health, we know it's better for animal welfare and it's actually quite expensive. But still as soon as you mention to the greater public about cutting their meat consumption, they get defensive and almost offended.
Would you ever consider giving it up, if you do consume it now? If not, why not?
I'm expecting some hate, this is MN after all, but I am genuinely just curious. Not trying to rattle feathers.

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Thebestwaytoscareatory · 05/07/2023 13:25

HadalyEve · 05/07/2023 12:03

First, we don't eat badgers, squirrels, foxes, frogs, otters, seagulls, etc., in this country and they all exist quite happily. Not in areas where monocropping of plant crops occurs. And make no mistake, replacing grazing land with monocropping (and you have to or let billions of humans starve to death) would push many species to extinction. I don’t know why you even mentioned seagulls to be honest in your list.

Secondly, most live stock is raised to get from birth to slaughter house as quickly and as big as possible, there's no conservation elements.
The fact they are born, live and then die versus not existing is de facto conservation. They also cannot survive in the wild any more than a persons pet dog can. So even if there were habitat for them, and we simply abandoned them, they’d die.

Third, I'm not sure arguing that something should continue to be brought into existence just to be horribly killed a few weeks - months later is a solid arguement for anything. The average lifespan of a U.K. farm cow is 5-6yrs.

Finally, intensive animal agricult has a negative impact on other species, so if your concern is centred around biodiversity eating meat is not a great idea. This is simply ignorance. Grazing land has far more biodiversity and supports far more wildlife species from butterflies to reptiles to birds to mammals than any fields with plant crops. It is second best behind wilderness/preserve lands.

  1. I mentioned seagulls because you said farm animals wouldn't exist if we didn't eat them and I was pointing out a variety of animals we don't eat that exist. I never made any reference to whether they existed in / on farmed land, but farmed land whether crop or grazing is managed land and impacts on biodiversity.

  2. Again I'm not sure what point you're trying to make here? There are plenty of ruminants that exist naturally, even some species of / relatives to livestock animals. If we stopped farming these animals and they were unable to survive naturally it is not necessarily a bad thing, it's certainly not an arguemnt to keep breeding them.

  3. The natural life span of a cow is 20-30 years, Dairy cows get 5-6 years, beef cows 2-3 years (unless it's going for veal then it's a max of 8 months). A livestock pigs get 6 months - 3 years (12- 18 naturally), lamb 10 weeks - 6 months (10 - 12 years naturally), and chicken 6 - 12 weeks (5-10 years). So the original point stands.

  4. No it's not ignorance, animal agriculture has huge impacts on biodiversity and habitat loss. As mentioned in another post, c35% - 40% (it's 40% in the UK) of that horrible monoculture you moan about goes to feeding livestock, industrial livestock farming also requires more land to be cleared for grazing than you would need for arable farming (not such as big an issue in the UK cause most of it was cleared long ago admittedly but global natural habitats are still being wiped out to accomade herds), and then there are significant impacts from managing and processing the herds. I've attached two pictures one from a UK farm and one from US one, you seriously telling me these are better for the environment and biodiversity?

To ask why people are so against giving up meat?
To ask why people are so against giving up meat?
Fernbreeze · 05/07/2023 13:27

Scrummage · 05/07/2023 12:57

@Fernbreeze I genuinely don’t see why it’d be my responsibility to rethink the world, if I were a vegan.

If I go teetotal, do I have to find a job for my local brewer? If I quit my heroin addiction, do I need to send you the new plan for the poppy field that used to supply me? If I discourage air travel (like all the other oh-so-concerned omnivores in here), am I liable to retrain the pilots and find a new use for the airfield and put on replacement bus journeys? 😂

Okay so the environment and climate are not your concern. The fact that many of the people who are in the industry support the conservation and management of many very very important habitats essential to our food, air, water and other ecosystem services is none of your business.

You seem to have very little knowledge of how these things effect you indirectly, ignorance is bliss I guess.

Sendouttheclowns · 05/07/2023 13:27

Superfood · 05/07/2023 11:12

But that's because 1. Pork pies and cocktail sausages are the most disgusting meat products available. I love meat and I wouldn't touch those either.

  1. They're not suitable for anyone Jewish or Muslim, so also massively excluding anyone who is kosher or halal.

It doesn't prove that people would rather eat vegetarian food than meat. It proves they'd rather eat vegetarian food than the most cheap, disgusting, processed, unhealthy meat options available. I'd rather eat my own ear wax.

So what meaty nibbles would you want to eat at a party/bbq?

(BTW all my Jewish friends are veggies.)

LuckySantangelo35 · 05/07/2023 13:28

Makemyday99 · 05/07/2023 12:53

100% people are so naive to think that if they don’t buy/eat meat then they’re not buying into the industry..this is the daft mentality of most vegans

@Makemyday99

they are still better than you with your fois gras eating

Sendouttheclowns · 05/07/2023 13:29

badluckorbadvibes · 05/07/2023 11:15

^ I agree. Eating meat doesn't mean any old shitty version. Processed cocktail sausages 🤢

Then give me some suggestions about what meaty nibbles you would like to eat at a BBQ/party?

Soubriquet · 05/07/2023 13:30

Sendouttheclowns · 05/07/2023 13:27

So what meaty nibbles would you want to eat at a party/bbq?

(BTW all my Jewish friends are veggies.)

At a BBQ, I would want hot dogs with onions, and some chicken. I don’t eat a lot of meat, but I do expect to see at least one of those two.

Makemyday99 · 05/07/2023 13:30

LuckySantangelo35 · 05/07/2023 13:28

@Makemyday99

they are still better than you with your fois gras eating

I didn’t say I ate it just that I don’t have a problem with it

MarkWithaC · 05/07/2023 13:33

speluncean · 05/07/2023 13:08

@MarkWithaC how do you know people don't have "concrete" reasons that they're just choosing not to share with you?

I'm talking about the people on here saying variations on 'Because it tastes nice.'

Obviously on an online forum one can't know if people are giving their full reasons. The best I can do is take people's responses in good faith.

It's funny though; I've made clear that as an omnivore I have no dog in this fight, and have explicitly said that I know many people have health reasons for eating meat. But your response still seems quite adversarial. This issue does seem to invite very strong feelings.

Fernbreeze · 05/07/2023 13:33

Thebestwaytoscareatory · 05/07/2023 13:25

  1. I mentioned seagulls because you said farm animals wouldn't exist if we didn't eat them and I was pointing out a variety of animals we don't eat that exist. I never made any reference to whether they existed in / on farmed land, but farmed land whether crop or grazing is managed land and impacts on biodiversity.

  2. Again I'm not sure what point you're trying to make here? There are plenty of ruminants that exist naturally, even some species of / relatives to livestock animals. If we stopped farming these animals and they were unable to survive naturally it is not necessarily a bad thing, it's certainly not an arguemnt to keep breeding them.

  3. The natural life span of a cow is 20-30 years, Dairy cows get 5-6 years, beef cows 2-3 years (unless it's going for veal then it's a max of 8 months). A livestock pigs get 6 months - 3 years (12- 18 naturally), lamb 10 weeks - 6 months (10 - 12 years naturally), and chicken 6 - 12 weeks (5-10 years). So the original point stands.

  4. No it's not ignorance, animal agriculture has huge impacts on biodiversity and habitat loss. As mentioned in another post, c35% - 40% (it's 40% in the UK) of that horrible monoculture you moan about goes to feeding livestock, industrial livestock farming also requires more land to be cleared for grazing than you would need for arable farming (not such as big an issue in the UK cause most of it was cleared long ago admittedly but global natural habitats are still being wiped out to accomade herds), and then there are significant impacts from managing and processing the herds. I've attached two pictures one from a UK farm and one from US one, you seriously telling me these are better for the environment and biodiversity?

Nice pictures you cropped from the guardian, but you seem to extract this part of the report.

"The farm is run under a bespoke environmental management plan in conjunction with Natural England. All the cattle graze the marshes during the summer season then during the winter months, when the grass is dormant the cattle are bought back to the yard when the finishing/fattening cattle are housed in covered sheds. For clarification the length of grazing season is weather dependent, once the grass stops growing the cattle need to be yarded and fed a forage based ration in accordance with animal welfare and best practice.”

Funny that isn't it, you went for a shock factor image from the internet with no narrative.

Superfood · 05/07/2023 13:34

Sendouttheclowns · 05/07/2023 13:27

So what meaty nibbles would you want to eat at a party/bbq?

(BTW all my Jewish friends are veggies.)

How unusual. I'm Jewish and there aren't many vegetarians at all among my Jewish or Muslim friends. Which Jewish communities do your friends come from?

Decent meat/fish options might include chicken satay, skewers of prawns, chicken or beef with appropriate dips, prawn summer rolls, smoked salmon blinis or bagels, cod goujons with tartare sauce, little Italian beef and herb meatballs, high quality sausages or kosher viennas (not 'cocktail sausages'), prosciutto or Parma ham (not for the Jews and Muslims obviously), etc.

Why do you ask? Are you planning to make them?

Perhaps serve those options, versus a table of Quorn 'picnic eggs' or meat-substitute 'sausage rolls', and see which ones get eaten then. Be a bit more of a reasonable comparison than lovingly homemade vegetarian/vegan food versus disgusting processed junk

rattletattlebattle · 05/07/2023 13:34

@BansheeofInisherin can't eat quite a few vegetables, cauliflower being one such veg! Hope that helps understand not everyone can eat the same products.

Rainbowshit · 05/07/2023 13:37

My son is allergic to milk, eggs, nuts, all legumes (soya, chickpeas, beans, peanuts etc) , pumpkin seeds and sesame.

To not then eat meat would be an incredibly restrictive diet and very difficult to get sufficient protein.

LadyGrinningSoul85 · 05/07/2023 13:38

Because I enjoy meat.

I'm not massively into animals so can switch off over the reality of how they end up on our plates.

I don't like vegan meat alternatives in general.

I find vegans very self important and patronising, in general.

My reasons, my choice.

Sendouttheclowns · 05/07/2023 13:38

Soubriquet · 05/07/2023 13:30

At a BBQ, I would want hot dogs with onions, and some chicken. I don’t eat a lot of meat, but I do expect to see at least one of those two.

At my BBQs people bring their own meat so that isn't a problem.

I was talking about 'nibbles' and 'finger food'.

BTW I thought hot dogs were made from Mechanically Recovered Meat and were classed as "processed"? They also have a lot of pork in them, so not Kosher.

https://www.sainsburys.co.uk/gol-ui/product/herta-frankfurters-x10-350g

Verv · 05/07/2023 13:39

I work on the principle that our eyes are at the front, we are predators, and we have an omnivorous diet.

speluncean · 05/07/2023 13:39

@MarkWithaC I apologise for seeming blunt. I'm autistic. It certainly was not my intention to be adversarial.

Scrummage · 05/07/2023 13:39

@Fernbreeze those things absolutely are my concern. I object to the fantasy you’re presenting whereby most meat eaters are visiting organic farms that practice “conservation grazing” and most vegans are hoovering up soy and UPFs and mono crops.

The reality is that most of the meat we eat is factory farmed. I suspect a huge chunk of it is processed beyond all recognition too.

The idea of popping into a local organic farm for your grass fed chops is a total fantasy (at a population level scale) and not even what vegans are actually protesting against.

Perfect28 · 05/07/2023 13:41

This boggles my mind too. There are several really good reasons to not eat or at least cut down on meat and yet people refuse on some point of principle at 'not being told what to do' and because 'it tastes good'.

itsmellslikepopcarn · 05/07/2023 13:42

LadyGrinningSoul85 · 05/07/2023 13:38

Because I enjoy meat.

I'm not massively into animals so can switch off over the reality of how they end up on our plates.

I don't like vegan meat alternatives in general.

I find vegans very self important and patronising, in general.

My reasons, my choice.

I’d say there’s not much more “self important” behaviour than meat eaters who are happy for an animal to die so they can eat it, despite alternatives being available.

Alyso · 05/07/2023 13:42

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Soubriquet · 05/07/2023 13:45

Sendouttheclowns · 05/07/2023 13:38

At my BBQs people bring their own meat so that isn't a problem.

I was talking about 'nibbles' and 'finger food'.

BTW I thought hot dogs were made from Mechanically Recovered Meat and were classed as "processed"? They also have a lot of pork in them, so not Kosher.

https://www.sainsburys.co.uk/gol-ui/product/herta-frankfurters-x10-350g

Ah see when I mention BBQ hotdogs, I mean the proper sausages you would get from the meat aisle that you can roast etc. I don’t want tinned hotdogs in my BBQ

Fernbreeze · 05/07/2023 13:45

Scrummage · 05/07/2023 13:39

@Fernbreeze those things absolutely are my concern. I object to the fantasy you’re presenting whereby most meat eaters are visiting organic farms that practice “conservation grazing” and most vegans are hoovering up soy and UPFs and mono crops.

The reality is that most of the meat we eat is factory farmed. I suspect a huge chunk of it is processed beyond all recognition too.

The idea of popping into a local organic farm for your grass fed chops is a total fantasy (at a population level scale) and not even what vegans are actually protesting against.

But I'm not talking just about farms I'm discussing meat, which includes game and farming.

Farms and love stock of all types are based where they are depending on the soil type, overall landscape ecology and climatic conditions vary around the county. They tend to be in places where growing of crops are not suitable and many of them have vast areas of habit that are managed that provide critical ecosystem services like moorlands I previously eluded too and you have chosen to ignore.

So if you stop people eating meat and remove these industries how are you going to ensure the management of the land and conserver the very fragile ecosystems they support? Because this affects every single human in the UK, even if they choose to ignore it.

FussyPud · 05/07/2023 13:46

I have IBS and ARFID. Life is hard enough on the food front without taking away one of the few things I can eat reliably.

Itisyourturntowashthebath · 05/07/2023 13:47

We have several herds doing conservation grazing around here. They are tiny herds that live on poor or very poor land.
Two miles the other way we have a feck off big McDonald's herd. They are based on very good and and their food comes from moderate to good land.
Most meat is not from conservation grazing.

loislovesstewie · 05/07/2023 13:48

If you don't eat meat but have a pet and feed that pet meat based food, where do you think that meat comes from? Why do you feel that it's OK to feed them meat, perhaps you should stick to pets that don't eat meat?

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