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To ask why people are so against giving up meat?

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NewCracker · 04/07/2023 21:12

Just that really, why are people so against giving up meat?
Without a doubt we know it's better for the environment, we know it's better for our health, we know it's better for animal welfare and it's actually quite expensive. But still as soon as you mention to the greater public about cutting their meat consumption, they get defensive and almost offended.
Would you ever consider giving it up, if you do consume it now? If not, why not?
I'm expecting some hate, this is MN after all, but I am genuinely just curious. Not trying to rattle feathers.

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PhoenixIsFlying · 04/07/2023 23:16

I don't eat fake meat either. I love lentils, nuts, fruit and vegetables. I am sure my body does too.

speluncean · 04/07/2023 23:16

PhoenixIsFlying · 04/07/2023 23:13

Purplefoalfoot
If someone said to you , would you like to live on earth for a bit , then get transported tightly packed to a place where you will line up to get your throat slit. What would you choose?
Also they would not die out. There are enough animal lovers who would keep livestock.

There aren't enough animal lovers to keep all the livestock that exist and are part of the food chain.

Wigglewigglewitch · 04/07/2023 23:17

I’m not vegan and I find it weird to drink milk for example - I do it because I’m socialised to it and that’s what milk is to me, oat and soy milk make me gag. But I can’t defend it sensibly! Not eating meat is doing my bit

Zooeyzebra · 04/07/2023 23:17

I think the environmental impact of replacing farms with meat factories is not something that has been thought enough about. Does anyone believe that all the farmland will be replaced by beautiful open woodlands?

We would need huge meat factories to provide all the replacement meat.

HadalyEve · 04/07/2023 23:17

I think people get defensive because ultimately it feels a little weird to say “I like to eat dead animals”

I don’t why some view it as wierd. When you look at human evolution, before we were hunters, we were scavengers. It’s where we are in the food chain, our place in the ecosystem. We are only doing what nature evolved us to do.

Fernbreeze · 04/07/2023 23:18

PhoenixIsFlying · 04/07/2023 23:06

If you were to watch the animals , squealing knowing death is ahead of them, see them being winched up and their throats cut and still eat meat then so be it. Burgers and sausages wrapped in plastic are detached from this. I don't eat meat or consume dairy because I love animals and want no one to suffer an agonising death just for something I like the taste of.

You obviously object the the natural world and the ecological arms race that goes on daily through nature being itself eat and be eaten.

What makes you think your superior to nature in a rawest form?

The world have evolved like this for centuries with this happening on a daily basis through all species, perhaps you think your far more superior?

CherryGenoa · 04/07/2023 23:18

You can smell the cognitive dissonance in the defensiveness of some of these posts. 😂

Being serious for a moment, these are the reasons I feel why people are so against giving up meat.

  • It is culturally embedded for most people around the world. I am in the UK - meat is normally integral to Sunday roast, cooked breakfasts, Cornish pasties. Turkey at Christmas, lamb at Easter / Passover…
  • In wealthier countries we see ourselves as consumers - we want choice and don’t like being dictated to. We like eating meat.
  • We don’t like the UPF that passes for veggie / vegan food today, nor the cost of it.
  • Instinctively we trust lamb that’s produced locally more than a plant based food that has been shipped from the other side of the world.
  • we worry a meat free diet is nutritionally inferior. Not necessarily the case, but that’s a common perception.
  • We don’t want to think about the process that brings meat to our plate.
  • Giving up meat entirely involves learning to prepare meals in a different way.

I eat a lot less meat and a lot more fruit and veg than I used to. I feel better for it, it works for me. There’s a lot to be said for buying less but better. There are some amazing recipes that are naturally veggie. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

Sweetashunni · 04/07/2023 23:20

I agree, I can’t listen to ‘my food bill is so expensive’ when the person complaining is eating chicken breast or pork chops every single day.

PhoenixIsFlying · 04/07/2023 23:21

No Fernbreeze I don't think I'm superior and that exactly why I don't eat meat. I don't see myself as a superior being to that of animals that also call earth their home.

Wigglewigglewitch · 04/07/2023 23:21

HadalyEve · 04/07/2023 23:17

I think people get defensive because ultimately it feels a little weird to say “I like to eat dead animals”

I don’t why some view it as wierd. When you look at human evolution, before we were hunters, we were scavengers. It’s where we are in the food chain, our place in the ecosystem. We are only doing what nature evolved us to do.

I suppose because we don’t live in that world anymore. We don’t hunt and prepare our own meat and theoretically there are lots of alternatives nutrition and health wise so it feels odd. Like I said, I’m not veggie for animal reasons, but I remember picking meat off a chicken carcass after Sunday roast and suddenly seeing what I was doing really objectively. It does feel odd to me and I think the defensiveness from some people hints at a similar feeling!

HadalyEve · 04/07/2023 23:23

CherryGenoa · 04/07/2023 23:18

You can smell the cognitive dissonance in the defensiveness of some of these posts. 😂

Being serious for a moment, these are the reasons I feel why people are so against giving up meat.

  • It is culturally embedded for most people around the world. I am in the UK - meat is normally integral to Sunday roast, cooked breakfasts, Cornish pasties. Turkey at Christmas, lamb at Easter / Passover…
  • In wealthier countries we see ourselves as consumers - we want choice and don’t like being dictated to. We like eating meat.
  • We don’t like the UPF that passes for veggie / vegan food today, nor the cost of it.
  • Instinctively we trust lamb that’s produced locally more than a plant based food that has been shipped from the other side of the world.
  • we worry a meat free diet is nutritionally inferior. Not necessarily the case, but that’s a common perception.
  • We don’t want to think about the process that brings meat to our plate.
  • Giving up meat entirely involves learning to prepare meals in a different way.

I eat a lot less meat and a lot more fruit and veg than I used to. I feel better for it, it works for me. There’s a lot to be said for buying less but better. There are some amazing recipes that are naturally veggie. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing.

OR we realise we evolved over millions of years to be apex predators in a complex food chain and our eating some meat is essential to the ecosystem that we inhabit.

Humans are not separate from the environment. We are not above the food chain. We are in it. We are not superior or inferior, we have a role that is just as vital as that if the humble bee.

To detach ourselves and think we know better is hubris of the worst sort and the kind of thinking that got the world into the polluted mess it currently is.

allmyliesaretrue · 04/07/2023 23:23

Wigglewigglewitch · 04/07/2023 23:14

I’m vegetarian because of the productive resources that go into meat farming and my first hand experience of working in areas of ultra poverty in sub Saharan Africa, not because I care enough about animals to stop eating meat. I very rarely eat fake meat or protein because I don’t like the taste or texture. I think people get defensive because ultimately it feels a little weird to say “I like to eat dead animals” so they have to wang on about how weird vegetarians are for eating burgers that aren’t made of meat and silly things like that.

Oh do join in with reality!! There would be very few farm animals kept for altruistic reasons! For one, they cost too much, and secondly, farmers have a living to earn!!

speluncean · 04/07/2023 23:24

I don't think I'm defensive about it.

I know what happens.

I've pulled a chickens neck on more than one occasion.

I know I'm unable to get enough protein without meat. I've food intolerances and aversions.

Fernbreeze · 04/07/2023 23:26

@HadalyEve well said!

People on this thread who think they can separate themselves from the natural word purely because they seem themselves at intellectually superior is quite concerning to say the least.

allmyliesaretrue · 04/07/2023 23:26

Sorry think I quoted the wrong poster!

Wigglewigglewitch · 04/07/2023 23:27

allmyliesaretrue · 04/07/2023 23:23

Oh do join in with reality!! There would be very few farm animals kept for altruistic reasons! For one, they cost too much, and secondly, farmers have a living to earn!!

I’ve seen people including children and babies suffering extreme malnutrition, I know what reality is, thanks.

Wigglewigglewitch · 04/07/2023 23:28

allmyliesaretrue · 04/07/2023 23:26

Sorry think I quoted the wrong poster!

Ok, I was going to say I made no claims about farmers keeping livestock!

Jacobsladders · 04/07/2023 23:28

OrwellianTimes · 04/07/2023 21:16

Couldn’t if I wanted to. IBS won’t let me eat dairy, beans, nuts, legumes, soy, quorum, seeds or half the vegetables. Beef, fish and chicken are the only proteins I can eat.

Happy to have genuine alternatives suggested.

However can you tell me you never go anywhere on an airplane? Never drive a car? Because you’re a hypocrite if you push one whilst doing the other.

Me too.

We decided for financial and health reasons to try and cut down on meat and up intake of non meat protein sources.

We still do this but I've become intolerant of beans/lentils /nuts /legumes /cows milk protein like you so need meat for protein.

Plus we just bloody well love meat!!
And neither do we fly anywhere, don't even have a passport.

HadalyEve · 04/07/2023 23:28

Wigglewigglewitch · 04/07/2023 23:27

I’ve seen people including children and babies suffering extreme malnutrition, I know what reality is, thanks.

So you do know that a vegetarian or vegan diet is associated with higher risk of malnutrition? Stroke?

FuckNuggets · 04/07/2023 23:29

Most people don't give it up because they like it too much. I've always enjoyed meat (bacon and chicken mostly), but I decided to become a vegetarian 10 years ago because I don't want animals murdered so I can enjoy meat.

What gets me is the number of people that get offended when you tell them you're a vegetarian/vegan. I mean it's not something I talk about really unless I'm actually going to be eating. I don't understand why some meat eaters get so bent out of shape because other people choose not to eat meat. It baffles me.

PhoenixIsFlying · 04/07/2023 23:29

It's funny whenever I engage in discussion about this you always get some, not all very defensive meat eaters who rather than engage in a decent manner about the subject, will sneer and throw out words of superior when in actual fact that is actually how they are coming across. It's just deflecting from the topic.

GarlicGrace · 04/07/2023 23:29

I'm waiting for fake meat to be as good, as nutritious and as affordable as the real thing.

Probably not gonna happen in my lifetime, but it will eventually. Meanwhile, I like seeing animals on farms and I like eating them. It'll be sad when grazed livestock has disappeared.

User106487665 · 04/07/2023 23:29

Supermarkets don’t sell much fake meat now as people don’t eat it much

CuriouslyDifferent · 04/07/2023 23:31

I do enjoy eating dead animals.
The live ones, are hard to keep on the griddle.

speluncean · 04/07/2023 23:31

I don't care if anyone else is vegetarian or vegan. I'll always cater for them if they come to my house for something to eat and not make a fuss.

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