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To report someone for possible mortgage fraud

234 replies

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 12:19

Is it fraudulent to not declare an existing mortgage in another country when you apply for one in the UK?

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Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 14:25

@Testina actually up to now it's been somewhat of an easy ride.

My mortgage payments were manageable and due to housing crisis here I was happy to stay in my home.

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ForTheSakeOfThePenguin · 18/06/2023 14:32

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 14:23

I can't afford to buy him out.

My credit rating is terrible so no hope of another mortgage ever.

My outstanding mortgage would just about covered if the house was sold. Neither of us will walk away with anything.

Ok, let’s turn the question around, take a deep breath, and ask yourself these 2 questions

  1. What can I afford to do? Not what you cannot do, but what you can do. The answer may be hard to swallow but this is the starting point to sort it.

  2. What is the absolute worst thing that can happen? Can I manage that?
    In my case it was leaving the city and sofa surfing for a while with a child on thow until I could improve my finances, it didn’t come to that, but it helped me realise I could manage, survive the situation and thrive once the problem was out of the way (and I have)

Best of luck to you. Believe me, this is NOT the end.

Timeflieswhenyourehavingfun · 18/06/2023 14:33

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You can’t stand a woman abandoned by her husband and left with a joint debt on the family home that she can no longer afford.

Charming.

OP, you are not approaching this the right way. His UK bank won’t care that he didn’t declare his Irish mortgage 8 or so years ago and won’t pursue it or take any action against him.

Get legal advice about divorcing him. A solicitor will be best to advise you on the status of the family home and on his other UK property.

sillysmiles · 18/06/2023 14:39

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 13:19

@clpsmum thank you, I'll take the hug 🤗 I'm in Ireland. The mortgage company don't care as long as the mortgage is being paid.
Ex husband is a slippery fish and won't deal with the mortgage company. Doesn't pay maintenance, you know the type. Hasn't seen his kids since 2014 when I left him due to domestic violence.
My mortgage was around 1095 when I left him. It's going up almost every month. I'm suffocating and feel like I can't breathe.

Try ringing citizen advice or mabs for some real advice. As you are still legally married, I wonder if you have any legal rights to his UK property. You need to speak to someone who knows and anyone I know who had rang citizens advice find them very good over the phone.

Quiverer · 18/06/2023 14:39

Reallybadidea · 18/06/2023 12:23

Who would you report them to? The mortgage police? 😂Why does it matter to you what someone may or may not have said on their mortgage application?

The mortgage company, for starters.

Gymmum82 · 18/06/2023 14:40

@Testina no idea. But it’s definitely the case in the U.K. So id be taking no chances without consulting a solicitor

VDisappointing · 18/06/2023 14:43

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 12:29

@BellaJuno they're not contributing to the mortgage but they should be of course. Affordability is a bit of a grey area because of this I suppose. Thanks for your reply.

I had a property overseas when we applied for a mortgage - I did declare it but they seemed not to be bothered about it and maybe this was because I was not the person paying for the Uk mortgage.

Florenz · 18/06/2023 14:46

Always report. People "minding their own business" is why so many people get away with fraud.

MRex · 18/06/2023 14:46

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 14:25

@Testina actually up to now it's been somewhat of an easy ride.

My mortgage payments were manageable and due to housing crisis here I was happy to stay in my home.

Please be aware this is absolutely not the attitude to take with the mortgage company. You were legally obliged to inform them of your change in circumstances 9 years ago and have not done so. If you want their help now, you're going to need to answer for that period of time. Saying it was because it made your life easier, rather than because you were struggling with children and trying to resolve matters by finding the ex would get a lot more sympathy.

Daffodilsandtuplips · 18/06/2023 14:49

bluelagoon12 · 18/06/2023 12:39

Just leave them alone and focus on your own life

I think this has the potential to affect or impact on her life if it’s an ex not paying towards a U.K. mortgage.

Xenia · 18/06/2023 14:50

If you cannot afford the mortgage and the husband has disappeared in most countries the advice would be to see a lawyer. I would not be putting potential mortgage misdeclaration from 8 years ago on top of to do list. The triaged list would be working out what you can afford to pay, if you could keep the house, what the law in your jurisdiction gives on a divorce etc etc if you can get a full time job/ or second job to keep finances on track.

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 14:56

@MRex a few assumptions there from you. I absolutely did contact my mortgage company at the time and switched to interest only while I got myself on my feet.

It's been an easy ride re my mortgage payment as in the amount. It's only since last September when interest rates started to increase that it's gone through the roof. It's now more than double what it was this time last year.

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Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 14:59

@Xenia I changed my part time job to full time back in April.

Already have a second job, I've had that for just over two years. I work Monday to Friday from eight to four thirty then my second job from 4:45 until eight in the evening. I do five evenings one week three the next week.

I'm doing my best

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SirQuintusAureliusMaximus · 18/06/2023 15:02

You’ve been paying a mortgage for EIGHT YEARS without him, all the time paying money into an asset he co-owns?

I guess if mortgage is cheaper than rent where you are, and legal fees when he’s absent extortionate, and you know you couldn’t buy him out anyway… it’s not necessarily the wrong action. But still.
Have you done anything to establish your legal position over the value of the house?

This x 100.

@Wheredoistart78 you do understand that if you and X another together have a joint mortgage and co-own a property that if you keep paying when he is not, you are handing him money?

You are funding aproperty he is a co-owner of, so when you sell it, he will get half of the increased value of the property for all that time you were paying alone.

You need legal advice urgently I think.

messybutfun · 18/06/2023 15:02

Every lender asks on their application form if you have other loans/commitments so obviously you need to declare that.

Such information does not show up on your UK credit files and could therefore be missed. If you miss to declare a loan that is on your file, the lender will pick this up and most likely decline your application. I have come across this several times where applicants had been given defaults by phone providers when they changed contract without being aware of it.

If you have a commitment showing on bank statements that you have provided to either the lender or your broker, they should certainly have asked questions. It is a regulatory requirement for them to do so to evidence your affordability.

PopcornPoppingInAPan · 18/06/2023 15:05

Whataretheodds · 18/06/2023 12:29

Not if the property is outside the UK and they are honest about their place of residence.

It may affect stamp duty, even if it it outside uk and regardless of residence. The starting point is that it does increase the amount of stamp duty as the UK purchase would be treated as a second home. However there are some exemptions.

WonderingWanda · 18/06/2023 15:05

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 13:28

@Testina we are still legally married. I couldn't find him to divorce him. I'm trying now but he won't engage with anyone. I suspect he is stringing the situation out until our youngest child turns 18 and he can force a sale on the house. I would welcome this but to proceed with the divorce we have to settle maintenance etc. He won't engage as he doesn't want to pay me anything.

How much equity do you have in the house? If it's not much can you afford to rent? Buy something cheaper?

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 15:07

@SirQuintusAureliusMaximus house was in negative equity for years. I'll be getting my legal advice on Tuesday.

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Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 15:10

@WonderingWanda my outstanding mortgage is probably the same as what the house would sell for.

My outstanding mortgage is not far off 400k.

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WonderingWanda · 18/06/2023 15:15

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 15:10

@WonderingWanda my outstanding mortgage is probably the same as what the house would sell for.

My outstanding mortgage is not far off 400k.

In which case in your shoes think I'd be tempted to sell up sooner rather than later and buy something cheaper. That way any future equity will be yours alone. Or even renting if that's possible. Speak to a mortgage broker, see if you can afford a cheaper mortgage on your own. I'd sleep on a sofa bed in the living room if it meant being free from obligation to a man like that. I certainly wouldn't paying into something g he could take half of in the future.

I totally get why you are clutching at straws and you don't sound jealous. You sound like a mother who has been left to raise the children while a feckless father buggers off to start a new family.

Spanielsarepainless · 18/06/2023 15:25

Surely it would need to be declared when financial outgoings are listed.

Wheredoistart78 · 18/06/2023 15:27

@WonderingWanda thank you. I've stayed here as there was nothing for him to take due to mortgage being mostly the value of the house if that makes sense.

I could rent but it would be very expensive and the housing crisis here doesn't help.

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Berklilly · 18/06/2023 15:28

Regarding your original question, my experience is that lenders don't care if you own a property abroad, unless you're trying to claim a first time buyer rate. I volunteered the information for our mortgage application but wasn't asked about it (we went through a broker, he said it would make no difference).

The only people who cared where the solicitors, because it can affect stamp duty rates.

JudgeAnderson · 18/06/2023 15:46

I think you're getting a lot of responses based on your opening post which makes you sound like you're just being a busybody. Seeing your later posts I've changed my vote to YANBU as this is clearly something that is affecting you personally.

Whatnextcrazyworld · 18/06/2023 15:55

Without further details, it's difficult to say whether or not it's fraudulent.

But for all those people saying "Mind your own business" etc ... just bear in mind that we all pay for other people's fraud and theft one way or another.

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