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Unalive...!

60 replies

sparkleice · 16/06/2023 14:29

Dead!

OP posts:
sparkleice · 16/06/2023 14:30

maybe i should have put more in to the OP - what I meant to say before hitting post, was is anyone else fed up with the "unalive" instead of dead texts you see on social media?

I saw it in a suggested group

"Eternal dandelion, with an unalive butterfly my husband found in the garden last week. I'll post an update when it opens!"

Seriously - the butterfly is DEAD

OP posts:
Maddy70 · 16/06/2023 14:32

I have honestly never seen anything with "unalive" in

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 16/06/2023 14:32

It's horrid isn't it. But I think it's to avoid the auto filter thing that gets triggered by the word dead / death.

See also: Seggs Envy

ChocHotolate · 16/06/2023 14:33

I've noticed this on ticktok and I assumed it was to get around some sort of filtering?

Soapboxqueen · 16/06/2023 14:33

I think it's because some social media platforms get upset at certain words so they have to use alternatives.

afaloren · 16/06/2023 14:33

You’re not allowed to say dead or kill myself or various other things on tiktok so it comes from that.

PuffinsRocks · 16/06/2023 14:33

It's because social media censors the word "dead" because it was used for either suicide or threats of violence and they wanted to stamp out that content so people carefully skate around it by saying unalive so they don't fall foul of censorship rules (especially when it's just bots doing the censoring and banning people etc) in places like TikTok, Facebook etc.

Colinthedaxi · 16/06/2023 14:33

It’s common on Bored Panda so possibly come from Reddit? Gives me the rage as well OP!!

CaloundraBlues · 16/06/2023 14:34

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 16/06/2023 14:32

It's horrid isn't it. But I think it's to avoid the auto filter thing that gets triggered by the word dead / death.

See also: Seggs Envy

What's Seggs?

Evieanne · 16/06/2023 14:35

It’s because there’s words you can’t use or it gets flagged, hence why they say unalive, grape etc

Rewis · 16/06/2023 14:35

To my understanding it's to avoid the automatic censorship that has dead/murder/suicide added as trigger words. It's all over reddit and tiktok.

Rewis · 16/06/2023 14:35

CaloundraBlues · 16/06/2023 14:34

What's Seggs?

Sex

Dominoeffecter · 16/06/2023 14:36

Sewer slide is another

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 16/06/2023 14:37

Yeah this is all thanks to tiktok filters

Sd352 · 16/06/2023 14:46

I was listening to a Gardener's World podcast and the guest presenter kept using the term "unalive" -- it was my first time hearing it and it was horrid! I thought your post was referring to that, I didn't realise it was more widespread.

Seasonofthewitch83 · 16/06/2023 14:51

Words like suicide and dead are censored on many social media apps, and I think its then just translated into every day speech, especially for teens.

TheMurderousGoose · 16/06/2023 14:55

Yeah, it's not a cutsie way of saying 'dead', it's a way to say something without getting banned on certain social media platforms.

cocksstrideintheevening · 16/06/2023 14:56

Tiktok

MyFaceIsAnAONB · 16/06/2023 14:57

It’s because the apps detect talk of suicide etc and take your post down. So it’s a way to get around that. I mean it’s pretty obvious really.

StrawberryWater · 16/06/2023 14:59

I see this all the time and it bugs the shot out of me, it’s stupid. Just say dead already.

SirenSays · 16/06/2023 15:06

It seems to only detect the words not the context so even mentioning games or movies with die or dead in the title get flagged. It's also why so many use the emoji now. S🥚S - sex, 🌽/🌟 porn/porn star, 🍒-boobs....

Dangeliss · 16/06/2023 15:32

It's annoying, but not nearly as annoying as luddites making knee-jerk assumptions that The Youth deliberately chose to say "unalive" purely to be snowflakes, which honestly I see more of here.

Theunamedcat · 16/06/2023 15:36

You should try explaining how to do DIY on Facebook or talk about weeds on my animal crossing group you cannot nail ANYTHING to a wall screw anything etc etc and weeds? Have to be spelt w33ds

EyelessArseFace · 16/06/2023 15:44

Whenever I've seen this, I just assume that the person who wrote it is... erm... unintelligent.
😂

TheMurderousGoose · 16/06/2023 15:49

StrawberryWater · 16/06/2023 14:59

I see this all the time and it bugs the shot out of me, it’s stupid. Just say dead already.

Just say 'shit' already.