Would you let your 4 year old wear a bare midriff top to nursery?

[Miya24]

Received a top and short set from a bag of hand me down clothes. It's aged 3-4. My daughter loves it, it's waterproof material so it's great for water play in the garden. Nursery is having a water play day tomorrow and my daughter is desperate to wear it. It sits right above the belly button and has cold shoulders as well.
Would you send your daughter to nursery in it or would it raise a few eyebrows? I'm thinking it may be more beach wear but I have no idea. I may be overthinking but I'd love some more opinions.

Oh you don't wear lemons and strawberries on your top? 😂 Even tho Hannah clearly thinks you work in some den of iniquity with your brazen hussy bare shoulders. I bet you flash your ankles too 😉

Yes, but over a long sleeves/normal length t shirt. She'd still have the thrill of wearing it, but with the practicalities.

(NB only because she already loves it - if she hadn't seen it I wouldn't bother at all)

No, unless she’s at the beach.
Especially at the beach - too much sun!

I do ... and sometimes a kneecap too!! 🙈

Would Princess Charlotte wear that top?

Society needs to stop blaming women for (predominantly) men's revolting behaviour
I entirely agree.
The feminist in me also thinks we should be asking why boys and girls are socialised so differently in terms of their clothing, and why it's mainly girls clothing that has chunks missing out of it, cut shorter, cut tighter etc.
Why is it that girls are told that's what's pretty for a girl and if these clothes are so practical and fun and nothing about socialising girls into stereotypes from a young age, why don't we see lots of boy lines pushing the same standards?

Who knows what she'd be wearing having a water day at school.

What a stupid comment.

😲

Dear God is your standards for daily wear based on an 8 year old?

And tbf, if she got her hands on it, probably at ops daughters age. Kids have zero taste.

Next time you get dressed I want you to think, WWPCW? What would Princess Charlotte wear?

I'd put her in it if she loves it, but put a long sleeve tucked-in top, or a long sleeve body/baby-grow type thing underneath

It’s a good standard for children’s clothing.

It’s a good standard for children’s clothing
I'm not sure it is because if you apply the same logic to boys'clothing then trousers aren't accessible for any young boy under 7, or whatever age the royals start allowing trousers.

Sun damage?!

There's more photos of her dressed like a little girl who can run around and have fun, but until recently she's very much dressed for the job - walk around and look cute. And she does. But lots of people want more for their daughters.

Similarly, I wouldn't be dressing my boys in shorts through winter, altho I assume you're also advocating that style.

What material is it as it doesn't look waterproof?

I personally wouldn't let my 4 year old wear it - probably because i don't like the top.

My children wear lots of outfits i don't like but, they are older now but, at 4 years i wouldn't but, each to their own.

This thread has descended into madness 😂

I wouldn’t have let DD wear that at that age, she was head to toe in sensible, cute Boden and I would have worried we would be judged

It was bloody ridiculous, she would have loved that and now goes out with much less on, regardless of what anyone else says or thinks.

My only concern would the sun cream issue

You don't put suncream on your toddler?

@Isthisexpected

Who gives a shit.